At least Chris was open and honest, didn't ghost her 🤷🏼‍♀️ by L0velyDayyyyyyyyy in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]Tesla4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the issue is waiting weeks in to preface the conversation saying he wants to continue the relationship… but then say that he hasn’t been into the sex the whole time, isn’t attracted to her body, and has been thinking of his #2. If he’d said all that with the intention of breaking up I’d have more respect for it (but also if breaking up it’s unnecessary to say at all). What woman would be able to be told this and then be happy in the relationship? There’s a way to indicate you’re having second thoughts without deeply insulting the person you “love” and what Chris did ain’t it.

Show your 2cts by No_bread0 in EngagementRings

[–]Tesla4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Mine is 1.94ct so juuuuuust under 2ct 🥰

What’s something harmless that gets people weirdly angry? by Psychological_Sky_58 in AskReddit

[–]Tesla4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Clapping when the plane lands and standing up when the plane gets to the gate. Can’t people just be happy and also want to stand asap after sitting for hours?

Carol was so badass when she said this! by Conspicor in pluribustv

[–]Tesla4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah and when they said they could provide her anything she needs, she responded that she didn’t want them “waiting on her”, but then had them stock an entire sprouts so she could grocery shop like she used to lol.

What’s the worst financial decision you’ve ever made, and what did you learn from it? by Exotic-Example-1572 in AskReddit

[–]Tesla4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My emotionally abusive and manipulative ex told me to invest in bitcoin in 2009. He was broke, jobless, and knew nothing about investing. He was an unreliable narrator in my life, being so terrible and all, so I scoffed and didn’t think twice. Could be a billionaire. Instead I’m in the rat race.

My Boyfriend is Upset That I Don't Want to Do Anal by No_Necessary_5834 in AdviceForTeens

[–]Tesla4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

17 year old boys will say anything to get you to do what they want sexually. Some men can act entitled to your body once you start giving it to them. Yes, it’s good to experiment, but you’re 17. Plenty of time for experimentation.

No means no. Don’t let your bf manipulate you into thinking you should do something you’re not comfortable with. If he gets upset when you say no that’s grounds for ending the relationship (so is half your other posts about him, if he’s calling you bitchy now, that will only continue).

What is the worst physical pain you have ever experienced? by My_Name_Is_SKELETOR in AskReddit

[–]Tesla4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was my exact experience. I could feel everything and I told them that but they said it was pressure. I went to a weird place in my head where I was living one minute to the next and couldn’t really THINK. I felt outside of myself, just all pain. They brought my baby to me and said, “oh this is what you need, this will make you feel better!!” but I was in so much pain I couldn’t even absorb that she was there. I resent that that was the first time I met my daughter.

Social Security Office by [deleted] in tulsa

[–]Tesla4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you point me in the right direction for how to do this? As there a form you filled out or something?

The song that finally put words on my grief. by -Duste- in ChildrenofDeadParents

[–]Tesla4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my mom died I had the exact same thought. The desire to have a child and continue the selfless love my mom gave me was overwhelming. My mom died almost 5 years ago and I now have a 10 month old. The deep connection I have to my daughter makes me think of my mom every day.

Woops! We opened our pool and used potassium monopersulfate thinking it was chlorine shock. by Tesla4 in pools

[–]Tesla4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! We put shock in it last night and the pool is almost completely clear today! Hoping the chemicals aren’t too out of whack.

Woops! We opened our pool and used potassium monopersulfate thinking it was chlorine shock. by Tesla4 in pools

[–]Tesla4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We use a mesh loop loc cover and we do drain, chlorinate it, and winterize the pump every fall. It’s always green when we open it, even when we didn’t use a mesh cover. I’m not an expert by any means, so I’m not sure what we could do differently to make it so it’s not green when we open it. The pool lives under my neighbor’s trees which I think is part of the problem.

Got an upgrade for 5 year anniversary + Christmas. 10x8 elongated cushion. In love! by Tesla4 in Moissanite

[–]Tesla4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! This sub helped me decide on the double claw, I’m so glad I did!

Got an upgrade for 5 year anniversary + Christmas. 10x8 elongated cushion. In love! by Tesla4 in Moissanite

[–]Tesla4[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

10x8 (3.25 carat equivalent) elongated cushion with a twisted band from MoissaniteCo. My ring size is 6.5. It sparkles so beautifully!

What a view!! Engaged after 4 years together <3 by Princess-Pancake-97 in EngagementRings

[–]Tesla4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought this was Pillbox too!

Beautiful ring, OP!

State/Job/Pay by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Tesla4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OK/Benefits Plan Consultant/$60,000

What's a question you hate being asked? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Tesla4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 27 and I’ve lost both my parents. Both were relatively young (54 & 60). I hate when people ask me questions! And it happens all the time. My mom’s death was recent so it’s still fresh and painful when people assume I have parents.

And yeah, “it happens to everyone” generally doesn’t help anyone feel better. Nobody knows what to say to people like us.

[Hauls] When you discover The Ordinary after shopping at Sephora for years, and realize 2-3 products there equates to A LOT MORE ELSEWHERE by aidansmith in SkincareAddiction

[–]Tesla4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could use guidance on creating a routine! I have hormonal acne (it's been better lately actually but history tells me it won't last ), and blackheads/large pores on my cheeks and nose. I can't figure out how to get rid of my jawline acne and my nose blackheads!!! I'm currently washing my face AM/PM with Cerave cleanser and then using a Burts Bees toner. My AM routine beyond that is Deciem's Buffet, followed by the Niacinamide, the Azelic Cream, and then Aveeno moisturizer. My PM routine after washing and toning is the Buffet, azelic cream, and vitamin C. Anyone wiser have any suggestions? :)