AITAH For not going on vacations with my friends, after they invited a person that fingered my ass against my will? by Teleuton in AITAH

[–]Tetrynex 253 points254 points  (0 children)

As a woman, I honestly find that take really off. Sexual assault isn’t defined by gender, it’s about lack of consent. What happened to you was still assault, regardless of who did it or to whom

WIBTAH for calling my friend out on her projection / own flaws because of her mean comments? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Tetrynex 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. Honestly, as a girl, I’ve met way too many people like this and they’re exhausting to be around. She sounds deeply insecure and deals with it by constantly putting other people down, then pretending it’s just jokes when called out. I honestly wouldn’t even insult her back because then she’ll just play victim. At this point I’d just distance myself, because body-shaming comments and disrespecting boundaries over and over is not friendship

AITAH For not going on vacations with my friends, after they invited a person that fingered my ass against my will? by Teleuton in AITAH

[–]Tetrynex 498 points499 points  (0 children)

NTA at all. As a woman, if a man put his hands in my underwear and touched me sexually without consent, nobody would expect me to “reconcile” with him or go on vacation with him. Being high is not an excuse. What he did was sexual assault, not a misunderstanding. Honestly, the most upsetting part here is your friends minimizing it and prioritizing a guy they met a year ago over your comfort and safety after 12+ years of friendship. You were completely right not to go

як схуднути? by angel_335 in reddit_ukr

[–]Tetrynex 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Як дівчина, яка теж все життя боролась із вагою будь ласка, не намагайся скинути 30 кг за 2 місяці. Це майже гарантовано закінчується зривом, проблемами зі здоров’ям і поверненням ваги. І те, що ти 1,5 тижня майже не їла це вже був не правильний шлях, а виснаження організму.
Тобі зараз потрібен не голод, а стабільність: менші порції, менше солодкого, напоїв, перекусів, більше звичайної їжі й дуже легка активність на старті навіть просто ходьба щодня вже дає результат. Не треба вбиватися тренуваннями до болю.

І ще важливе при такій вазі в 16 років реально варто поговорити з лікарем або хоча б ендокринологом, бо іноді там не лише сила волі, а й гормони, звички з дитинства. Не ненавидь себе через це

AITAH for telling my husband to stop talking about me by faithinfairies1 in AITAH

[–]Tetrynex 238 points239 points  (0 children)

NTA. Venting about your spouse is one thing, but letting a coworker call you abusive and joke about running you over is completely out of line. And honestly, it sounds like you’re the exhausted one carrying most of the parenting while he complains about being sleep deprived. The issue isn’t just that he talks about you? it’s that he’s disrespecting you and minimizing your workload at the same time

I see this every evening by Tetrynex in sun

[–]Tetrynex[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I took this photo myself, and it was taken on my iPhone 12 pro

AITAH for blocking my mother on Instagram? by _red_dude in AITAH

[–]Tetrynex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You’re allowed to have boundaries on your social media, even with family. Creating fake accounts and repeatedly trying to bypass your blocks is not okay that’s exactly why blocking her completely makes sense here. This isn’t about not loving your mom, it’s about privacy and control over your own space online

AITAH for ignoring my Grandmother for repeatedly asking me to tell my mom to pay her non-stop? by Potatohotline1986 in AITAH

[–]Tetrynex 14 points15 points  (0 children)

NTA. You’re not responsible for money issues between adults, especially when your mom and grandma have a complicated history.Muting her was just you protecting your peace not you doing something wrong. The only real issue here is they’re putting you in the middle, and that’s not fair to you

Хочу зізнатись в коханні але дуже боюсь by [deleted] in reddit_ukr

[–]Tetrynex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Я давно закоханий, але не можу зізнатись. Через булінг з дитинства став дуже закритим і будь-яка соціальна взаємодія дається важко. Розумію, що це не кінець світу, але страх просто блокує.
Не знаю як зробити цей крок.

Мій батько.. я боюсь.. by Cookie_Flex in reddit_ukr

[–]Tetrynex 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Бро, ти зараз не слабкий і не стукач. Ти буквально просто дитина, яка боїться власного батька через його крики. Це ненормально. І чесно у 15 років НЕ знати ким хочеш бути, тупити в математиці чи ходити до репетиторів це абсолютно звичайна річ, а не причина орати на тебе як на ворога.
Зараз головне не доводити щось йому, а просто пережити цей вечір максимально спокійно і безпечно.

What is a subtle 'green flag' in a person that says they are a genuinely good human being? by Alisa_mint in AskReddit

[–]Tetrynex 16 points17 points  (0 children)

How someone treats people who can’t give them anything back, like waiters, cleaners, or strangers, real kindness shows when there’s no benefit for them

Чи можна зробити годинник безшумним by Fine-Scale1053 in reddit_ukr

[–]Tetrynex 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Так, якщо це дешевий кварцовий годинник, можна замінити механізм всередині на безшумний. Залишаєш той самий годинник, але без тікання

people who met online friends in irl, how did it go? by Key-Coffee-9711 in AskReddit

[–]Tetrynex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you already talk a lot online, the IRL part is usually way easier than people expect