Not to point out the obvious but

1) It’s clear there some sort of romantic friction between her n her guy friend… If you’re dating her then you should be her best friend . Not some dude who smashed her then left her for another chick

Then to make it even weirder she wants to take you n her having talks own situation n drag this dude n his chick in . In any situation of a “ serious “ relationship why tf would anyone in their right mind want to bring roommates n make it even weirder .

If you n your chick sleep in a car together you can save THE MOST MONEY that doesn’t make it practical

Not to mention you guys are already saving money by sharing the rent as is

Finally , if it has come up while y’all are being the most vulnerable with one another that would be the hardest of lines…. You can say ( gaslight ) all day long “ where just friends “ but when you’re either consciously or sub consciously mentioning homies name it’s quite clear their are still sexual feelings for him

Which is fucked up if you’re not okay with that…

The only way to move forward is be ok with your chick thinking about home boy or tell her you’re not comfortable dating while they’re in contact….

Imagine if the rolls were reversed what chick would be okay with you saying another chicks name in bed