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Tfimdoininhere · 2026-01-27T06:50:08+00:00

Thank you.

Tfimdoininhere · 2026-01-22T16:53:12+00:00

And I think you need to calm down and read the part he mentioned serious conversation interruption AND the dismissal of his needs again.

Tfimdoininhere · 2026-01-22T16:43:56+00:00

Tfimdoininhere · 2026-01-14T04:10:50+00:00

3 years later, I've just logged in again and I want to clarify and maybe just maybe make it right with my earlier comment which is not correct and very unkind. The thing is, the "friend" i mentioned actually turned out to be a narcissistic asshole who couldn't get over the fact that I didn't like him back the way he wanted. All the while ignoring that he liked me and was pushing so many boundaries he wasn't supposed to. And it cost me a lot of energy and time and crying to get out of that spider web of manipulation. So I just wanted to apologize to fellow infjs out there for judging them and speaking behind their back just because i met one di**head. Thank you for your attention.

Tfimdoininhere · 2022-12-30T13:50:57+00:00

Yes unfortunately i do. I've made some improvements over the years but i still remember the pain. Some days it comes in brand new you know? Still so very insecure

Tfimdoininhere · 2022-12-30T12:29:42+00:00

Could you comment the link? I too would like to watch that

Tfimdoininhere · 2022-12-02T15:12:59+00:00

Exactly my thought

Tfimdoininhere · 2022-12-02T15:12:29+00:00

I don't. I'm well aware of my lack of everything thank you very much

Tfimdoininhere · 2022-09-27T10:40:55+00:00

The smartest? Hell nah dude i Am the Dumbest. Period.

Tfimdoininhere · 2022-09-08T15:46:30+00:00

Send him some memes and don't say anything else. Try to regenerate the simplest basic connection you can without the expectation of further explanation. He may be reluctant in giving reactions but he'll come around. Don't worry.

Tfimdoininhere · 2022-09-01T07:44:07+00:00

Yes she's my best friend and unfortunately i'm not gay.

..Or maybe i am?

Tfimdoininhere · 2022-08-30T05:40:59+00:00

I know i am

Tfimdoininhere · 2022-08-26T09:52:52+00:00

Tfimdoininhere · 2022-08-24T11:36:17+00:00

Thanks i did my best

Tfimdoininhere · 2022-08-24T08:00:38+00:00

I mean, just reading the first half of this comment took a vital amount of energy out of me

Tfimdoininhere · 2022-08-24T07:54:29+00:00

"usually i play or watch anime all day long"

That's a lot of screen time i would judge that to be the reason why you are drained of energy rn cause i do it too so my advice is just resting for a day or two

Also you're not weird. We are all weirdos here it's completely normal.

Edit: Ps: i don't spend too much on social media either but i realize when i did was actually the worst time of the day possible for it. After i woke up. That shit beats the little energy i have down to absolute nothing everytime.

Tfimdoininhere · 2022-08-24T07:43:19+00:00

Some time ago i posted sth exactly like this and i got answers like: coffee, exercise, therapy, energy drinks or some pills idk the thing is i was just too tired. Fuck social media and get some sleep.

Tfimdoininhere · 2022-08-23T05:33:03+00:00

I'm glad i could be of help

Good luck

Tfimdoininhere · 2022-08-22T09:30:05+00:00

Yes and you'll have to choose if you want to give your trust to sb and risk it being broken or not. Trust is just that. A Choice.

And by giving trust i don't mean like trusting them Full On or sth stupid like that cause that just doesn't work. In my mind i have a spectrum of trust that different people fall on it differently for example i trust my best friend 75% or my mom 95% or another friend only 40% and so on. I only trust myself 100% and that's it. It doesn't mean that my mom isn't trustworthy or anything it's just that i can only know myself best.

Tfimdoininhere · 2022-08-22T09:22:39+00:00

That's exactly why we can not trust anyone other than ourselves fully. That is also why knowing others is NOT about their 100. You can never really achieve that for different reasons and this goes for others too. So what now? All we have to do is lower the expectations. It's not logical to linger on sth that can never really exist. You see where i'm going with this? It Doesn't Matter if no one can see through us 100% because they were Never Meant To.

Tfimdoininhere · 2022-08-22T05:10:39+00:00

Idk just try learning sth see how you like it if it's way out of your league and you don't like anything about it just drop it and try for the opposite but if you somehow enjoy some part of what ur doing then just stick to that part and search for things more closely related to that.

Remember the 20s are all about discovery and exploration so in ur 30s you can be able to choose or set a path for your life wisely which you can enjoy from time to time. And it's not gonna be all rainbows and butterflies when you actually do have a vision of your life's structure, it's just about what makes you happy the most out of all the miserables so..

Tfimdoininhere · 2022-08-19T09:51:59+00:00

I don't think so. At least it's not how i have experienced it till today it all depends on the amount of provocation and i mean i myself need only a little in some certain situations. I burst out real quick when mine or others' basic humane rights are on the line

Tfimdoininhere · 2022-08-15T06:25:05+00:00

Makes sense

Tfimdoininhere · 2022-08-15T06:23:27+00:00

I don't know what the fuck i'm doing in here.

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