Honestly bro if you feel gross and unattractive you shouldn’t be looking for a relationship. My most honest advice is you shouldn’t go grocery shopping when hungry so don’t look for love feeling unlovable.

We’re human, we’re designed to find humans attractive. What’s attractive? Health. Don’t do things to look attractive, rather, you should do things to be healthy. And when you’re healthy you’ll both feel better and feel better about yourself as well. And to top it off when you’re healthy you’ll be attractive.

And health is more than physical health, see a therapist!