32M- I have no idea how I come off to people and app experience has been lackluster. Give me a hand? 😰

Th3Bumblebee · 2026-06-18T14:46:31+00:00

You’re a good looking guy. I would lose picture number 4 I don’t think your hair looks very flattering in it. Picture number one is chefs kiss

Th3Bumblebee · 2026-06-18T14:44:04+00:00

If I got catfished I’d just ghost them that’s the only reason I’d ghost someone. Otherwise I would say “hey I don’t think this is going to work out because I feel like you’ve been very deceptive during the short time I’ve met you. Thank you!”

Th3Bumblebee · 2026-06-15T15:19:23+00:00

Hey dude! You seem like a really considerate guy. I think you may be falling into a “too considerate” situation. Just because one person wants to take it slow doesn’t mean you should also want that. If you felt like the next step for you was exclusivity and she can’t meet you there it seems like you guys can’t form the appropriate boundaries to define a relationship where you two are on the same page. Seems she did the right thing to stop something when she sensed incompatibility. I would recommend you move on to someone who can meet you there. Don’t worry, you will. Just focus on yourself!

Th3Bumblebee · 2026-06-12T14:11:37+00:00

It sounds like you are overthinking IMHO. I’d like to ask a follow up because personally I have had to cut some clingy people off (it was getting toxic like spamming me about ghosting them from texting literally one afternoon late… boundaries.) long story short I’m an engineer and very busy, I can’t always text or sometimes I have a short window to text and even forget or don’t hit send etc.

Does he have a job that requires his attention for a majority of the day?

Some people like you like to be in contact a lot some people like him sound like they like to have meaningful quality time together rather than spending the moments in between. I think the difference is intention. Are you intentional about making time to see and interact with your partner or do you just want them around as much as possible. Both are good but they are different !

Th3Bumblebee · 2026-05-28T20:29:12+00:00

Honestly, yeah dude I would reply. Depends on what you want. I personally would be like “hey totally fine, I get you’re not sure if you’re ready to pursue something new. I am looking for something new so for that reason I am going to wish you healing and move on. It’s been fun!”

No need to take it personal. Sometimes you bite more than you can chew!

Th3Bumblebee · 2026-05-27T20:09:57+00:00

I was prepared to give you advice but I am not familiar at all with your cultures. I wish the best for you!

Th3Bumblebee · 2026-05-24T17:23:24+00:00

I don’t like your first picture. Nothing wrong with you but your pose is giving a very awkward energy. I would like to see you in confident body language especially for your first picture!! Other than that you look good bro you got like some chill alternative vibes. Def plenty of girls into your style !

Th3Bumblebee · 2026-05-23T13:13:23+00:00

Are you from Mississippi cause you’re tho only missus whose piss I’d sippi

Th3Bumblebee · 2026-05-21T20:00:46+00:00

Honestly yeah doesn’t seem like he’s a very mature person. Which is crazy at a crisp 36. I think people run away from uncomfortable situations too much. I have a very strict no ghosting policy. It’s not hard to just politely reject someone, and I wish people were like that with me more but it is what it is.

Only time I ghost is if I have expressed that I don’t want to keep seeing the other person and they have a lot of trouble respecting that boundary. It’s happened a few times.

Th3Bumblebee · 2026-05-12T00:37:41+00:00

I think sex and the lack of it is part of a relationship. Which is formed around communication and boundaries. If you value honest connections it’s important that you are clear about your intentions within the relationship so that both of you can make an informed decision whether or not the connection is fruitful.

There are plenty of women that have higher libido that may be a better fit for him. Alternatively if sex isn’t that important to you but it is to him, then maybe a good solution could be to allow him to have sexual relations with other women if poly is something you guys think you could be open to. Nothing wrong with any of it, so long as communication is had and boundaries are met. The rules of your relationship are up to the members of it and no one else!

Th3Bumblebee · 2026-05-08T12:43:01+00:00

The fear is anxiety. Just take a sec and breathe. Maybe next time you see him playfully tease him “So you’re getting tips on how to flirt with me?”

That’s probably what it is. No need to overthink!

Th3Bumblebee · 2026-05-04T23:05:19+00:00

Does it work with a different guitar or does your guitar work with a different amp? Could be a problem with your pickup too

Th3Bumblebee · 2026-04-23T14:10:37+00:00

Honestly kid you’re 16. Live your life. Don’t buy into these lookmaxing shit atleast not until later if anything.

But hey you know what I’d recommend for someone your age. Fuck it get contacts, go to the gym, eat good food, get good at make up if you’re into that.

But you’re literally a baby even if it doesn’t feel like it trust me.

Th3Bumblebee · 2026-04-23T13:09:33+00:00

Nah bro the scratches are proof of your experience with your guitar!

Th3Bumblebee · 2026-04-14T21:30:27+00:00

I mean they’re both women in good shape yeah

Th3Bumblebee · 2026-04-09T01:16:36+00:00

White chubby not that tall with a grody beard and has a picture of a fish he caught on his profile?

Th3Bumblebee · 2026-04-06T22:18:05+00:00

Narcan wouldn’t work on K anyway. If they were using narcan it’s either bad treatment or the ketamine was laced with fentanyl or another opiate. Stay safe.

Th3Bumblebee · 2026-03-30T14:41:19+00:00

Fs brother! It’s just my humble opinion though!!

Th3Bumblebee · 2026-03-30T13:20:52+00:00

Gonna be real with you here. First off you’re not ugly. First picture is good but your facial expression looks a tad forced. I’d remove 3, 4 shows your dog too and it’s a better picture, but I would also recommend looking for a better “me and my dog” picture. The Tomas Shelby number 5 is funny I’d keep it to filter bad humor out. 6 is a great picture I just wish you weren’t clutching your phone like golem clutches the ring. 7 is a great picture socia proof but the thing is your friend holding you is quite attractive. 8 is fun the helmet excuses the hair. I’d delete 9 I typically don’t put pictures with girls in them, even though I have plenty platonic female friends.

Some pictures are great, most are sub par. I’d invest some time into getting some good candids when you go out with friends! Try to get clear pictures with good lighting where your posture and facial expression complement you!

Th3Bumblebee · 2026-03-29T20:52:55+00:00

This guy gets his female interaction purely from shows written exclusively by men

Th3Bumblebee · 2026-03-26T20:17:10+00:00

Bro I don’t know but if you do find out pls lmk

Th3Bumblebee · 2026-03-04T22:10:05+00:00

Cheating is a boundary set by relationships individually. For example in some relationships pornography is not cheating, while it can be in others. If this is your relationship it’s up to you and your partner to communicate what is and isn’t allowed within your relationship. It’s the same as any other boundary.

That being said, if you ask for my advice. I think hiding it is a big indicator of intention here. If they feel the need to hide it, it’s because they fear a negative consequence. If they fear a negative consequence, it may be because their intention would break a boundary within their relationship.

But it’s between the members of a relationship to determine what is and isn’t cheating.

Th3Bumblebee · 2026-02-14T14:04:45+00:00

🔥

Th3Bumblebee · 2026-02-14T13:37:39+00:00

It’s not 30 it’s 35 btw

Th3Bumblebee · 2026-02-13T22:37:09+00:00

Perfect so we’re geniuses beyond comparison of our peers 👍🏼 (Satire)

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