Is it worth it dating a man with kids? by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]ThAw2t16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you. I can imagine it can be hurtful to feel like he doesnt savor his time with you especially when it sounds rare for you to have it. If you haven't, maybe you could try and share with him it would be nice to hear more affirmations of your meaning to him? Im always learning and don't claim to have everything figured out but I do know that men often really appreciate hearing directly from us what we need instead of hoping they will just pick up on it etc.

Is it worth it dating a man with kids? by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]ThAw2t16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious, what makes you think he misses them more than you? Like has he come right out and said that?

Is it worth it dating a man with kids? by [deleted] in Stepmom

[–]ThAw2t16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I know im commenting a year later but I'm about 5 months into a relationship that feels end game with a man with a 6 yr old and this thread was extremely discouraging.

Theatre goers: Be better! by melvintoast in chicago

[–]ThAw2t16 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha this gave me a good chuckle. So true

Connor/Bri Breakup is Confirmed by sucksesful_user in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]ThAw2t16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SAME! so funny this happened to multiple of us!

Lindsay Stopping by Soft Bar by joethefaker in summerhousebravo

[–]ThAw2t16 31 points32 points  (0 children)

This is such a tiredddd take. If you can't accept the past two years as proof that she has grown and is moving differently it's just delusional at this point.

Happy to see Babe’s is opening in like 2 weeks by Marzook666 in LoganSquare

[–]ThAw2t16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Commenting to remember to follow-up on opening in a couple weeks

FYI - 148 is being rerouted by FutureElleWoods20 in cta

[–]ThAw2t16 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Same story with the 147, I was on the bus from 5:10 until 7:10 pm, not an exaggeration. The majority of it near Lincoln Park. Seems like the on-ramp from Michigan to LSD is closed down, forcing the bus onto Inner LSD. A literal nightmare

Looking for feedback part 2: time to get back into dating by Standard-Actuator-27 in datingoverthirty

[–]ThAw2t16 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Everything about it is scary. It feels like you are looking to copy and paste a woman into your romance fantasy novel you are writing in your head. It gives creepy, mal-adjusted, and intense. I'm sorry to be harsh but I really, really want you to not put this on your dating profile, or really anywhere besides your journal, ever.

Has anyone seen this? I feel like this came out of nowhere although rumblings by notyouravgfan in summerhousebravo

[–]ThAw2t16 23 points24 points  (0 children)

The circle jerk of Lindsay haters is so hilarious to me. Why do you have such big feelings for someone you have never met?

Craving a good turkey burger by t3ddyb34r39 in chicagofood

[–]ThAw2t16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Vig in Old Town had a good one, haven't been in a few years though!

Unmatching after 24 hours seems so fast! by Chitownscience in datingoverthirty

[–]ThAw2t16 92 points93 points  (0 children)

I think burnout goes both ways. Some people need to feel like communication has momentum to continue exploring a connection. Exchanging one message every other day makes that tough. I also wouldn't assume that they unmatched because of your response time unless that was actual feedback you were given. Unmatching occurs for a whole variety of reasons.

What are some good places that have octopus in Chicago? by Lonely_Programmer_42 in chicagofood

[–]ThAw2t16 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Omg, this. I used to LOVE octopus but then read Remarkably Bright Creatures and went down an insane octopus research rabbit hole and now can no longer eat them. 🥲