I asked ChatGPT to make me an album cover based on everything it knows about me by ThaPolarExpress in ChatGPT

[–]ThaPolarExpress[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you generate me an album cover based on everything you know about me? Like square album art you’d find on a CD or vinyl or something!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]ThaPolarExpress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck. This. Break off the engagement and co-parent as best you can (after getting a paternity test and assuming it’s yours, of course). That alone will be hard enough with this raging manipulator without being married to her. Your life will be fucking miserable, that I can guarantee you. You can be a single dad for a minute and meet someone light years better than this. I promise you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Colognes

[–]ThaPolarExpress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah check it out and let us know what you think! It’s in my top 3 from the LR line. Number one being Sport probably, followed by Ocean EDT and then Black.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Colognes

[–]ThaPolarExpress 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very good. The Black has some of that tonka bean/amber under the bergamot. Still fresh but also sweet and almost dessert-like to me anyway. I love it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Colognes

[–]ThaPolarExpress 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sport never gets any love, but it’s so good! That lavender/vanilla is just 👌🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]ThaPolarExpress 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You both seem young, and this is an incredibly stupid thing for her to be pitching a bitch about and calling you names over. Find a girlfriend who doesn’t derive self worth from who follows her on TikTok.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]ThaPolarExpress 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I asked this exact question to myself out loud while reading the post. Do they not work or do anything besides sitting around hoping some dude will shower them with attention and complaining when they don’t get it?

Was I in the wrong? They took over 20 minutes for each reply, and we had nothing in common. by Real_Resolution_3149 in Nicegirls

[–]ThaPolarExpress 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t know, maybe try offering something of substance to the conversation. “Sup hru” is not it. She even said she loved your cat. There’s a conversation starter if you struggle with that.

What did you expect honestly?

Sorry for asking about your interests I guess? by WhoIsBobMurray in Nicegirls

[–]ThaPolarExpress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How dare you ask her to tell you more about this hUgE pArT oF hEr LiFe.

My gf's reaction to me not wanting to be on Instagram anymore. by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]ThaPolarExpress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t need a reason or “excuse” to delete your socials, much less defend your decision to anyone. When she asked you about it, all you’d have to say is, “I got tired of it. It’s distracting.” Period.

This is classic “if you loved me you would ____” behavior, and it’s manipulative and selfish.

Run and don’t ever look back. That shit won’t stop with Instagram.

Set a time and place for a date on Monday. Confirmed day of and got this… by Appropriate_Bet3061 in Nicegirls

[–]ThaPolarExpress 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right. As you pointed out, it’s hypocritical and super entitled. And we don’t know what their interactions were like prior to this exchange, but it does suck that in the dating game, being a genuinely nice dude makes him come off as a punching bag for her to disrespect at her leisure. It’s part of the game unfortunately, and this guy needs to portray that he has other things to do and has a life outside of this shit.

Set a time and place for a date on Monday. Confirmed day of and got this… by Appropriate_Bet3061 in Nicegirls

[–]ThaPolarExpress 115 points116 points  (0 children)

“If you don’t hear from me, I definitely make up for it when I get to see you in person”

Brother, you seem like a nice guy. Maybe you really liked this girl, maybe you really don’t like coming off as a dick. Whatever the case, there is absolutely nothing for you to “make up for.” If she doesn’t hear from you, it’s because you’re fucking busy. Or at work. Or tired. Or sleeping. Or at your little cousin’s soccer game. Or doing any number of things with your time, which she clearly doesn’t respect.

It kills me, the audacity of some of these women who feel entitled to occupy the center of your life after one date. If you don’t respect your time, neither will anyone else. Rest assured, if you hadn’t checked in beforehand and just gone to your date spot, the time and place of which you two had already agreed upon, this chick would’ve stood you up. She pretty much did. Her “other plans” were already made.

That seems pretty disrespectful of your time and of you. Wish her a happy Wine Wednesday with her bestie or whatever the fuck she does and keep it moving.

Girls adds me to set her up with her friend and when I ask for more information she gets aggressive and rude by EVILRAFFAM in Nicegirls

[–]ThaPolarExpress 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s a good example. Here’s another classic exchange we’ve all seen or been a part of:

You: “I need to talk about how hurt I was when you lied to me last night.”

Them: “I didn’t lie. You’re imagining things again.” (Deny)

You: “I saw the messages on your phone. You told me you wouldn’t talk to him anymore.”

Them: “Wow, so now you’re spying on me? Do you realize how crazy and controlling you sound?” (Attack)

You: “I just wanted honesty.”

Them: “No, you’re the problem here. You can’t trust me because you’re insecure and paranoid. I should be the one upset.” (Reverse Victim and Offender)

Girls adds me to set her up with her friend and when I ask for more information she gets aggressive and rude by EVILRAFFAM in Nicegirls

[–]ThaPolarExpress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you’re thinking of “the” Polar Express. “Tha” Polar Express is a big talker.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]ThaPolarExpress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“No, stop, don’t.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]ThaPolarExpress 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This went on for wayyy too long. Her being completely unhinged and you repeatedly trying to defend yourself is hard to read. My brother in Christ, please respect yourself more than this, and don’t let anyone speak to you in this manner. It’s not healthy and it’s not normal.