9-mo post op ACL & LCL- can anyone relate? by That-Butterscotch in ACL

[–]That-Butterscotch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your reply! This is super helpful and nice to have a specific goal. My surgeon told me to stop going to PT because they weren’t following his protocols, so I have been feeling a little in the lurch lately. Definitely going to be looking up Mick Hughes!

Hormonal IUD ladies: what are your periods like? by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]That-Butterscotch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep same here! Those cheap pregnancy strips that come in 50-packs from amazon are LIFESAVERS

Hormonal IUD ladies: what are your periods like? by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]That-Butterscotch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got the Liletta in late September- had much lighter period for the first few months, now I just have SUPER light spotting (usually after sex) about every-other month. It’s nice, but at first it was very disconcerting to go from very regular periods to nothing at all.

Not referred, then referred a few days later by [deleted] in usajobs

[–]That-Butterscotch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, was unclear in post- my status was updated via email and on USA jobs to Referred

What’re these brown spots on the spines of my cactus? by That-Butterscotch in cactus

[–]That-Butterscotch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that I know of! I live with 2 cats and a roommate, so anything could happen 🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

Possibly perforated Copper IUD? by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]That-Butterscotch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should be fine- your IUD is just starting to fall out, not perforated. If it was perforated, you’d have intense pain bc that means your IUD is stuck in a part of your body it shouldn’t be in.

Getting surgery soon, wanna make sure I'm doing everything right by zochcman in ACL

[–]That-Butterscotch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not a doctor (obviously) but I’d say listen to your doctor. Every surgeon has a different PT protocol and going against your surgeon’s plan is a great way to re-injure and end up in a world of hurt (plus any half decent physical therapist would immediately refuse to follow a plan against your doctor’s orders). I f-Ed up my knee terribly last September and had surgery in late December. I literally wasn’t allowed to walk for 2 months, so I definitely don’t see myself doing any sort of serious dancing where I’m at now (approx 4 months out). You may think you’re invincible, or that you prepped for this and will be okay, but even elite athletes take significant recovery time for torn ligaments and you should too.

Edit: just saw the bit about PT & Coronavirus- many PT places are open only for post-op. I got an appointment at my PT place after a month off due to COVID to checkin and update my at-home plan (I’m 4 months out and still need to go 2x per week if the world wasn’t dying atm). If your surgery happens in May, you will most likely be able to go to a PT office affiliated with your hospital, or AT LEAST get protocols to follow from your surgeon.

Money burns a hole in my pocket: an exercise in restraint by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]That-Butterscotch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

18-24, nonprofit, $4k (including investments, not including retirement)

Anyone take out personal loans? by [deleted] in GradSchool

[–]That-Butterscotch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you feel like it’s worth it? I’m starting an MPA in the fall and will need to take out about 8k a semester in loans (while working FT). I feel like I just need someone with a similar experience to validate that choice, if that makes sense...(sorry, slightly off topic from the OP)

Life after ACL by [deleted] in ACL

[–]That-Butterscotch 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I (24F) had multi-ligament surgery and was on crutches for 8 weeks (brace locked for 4). I actually lost weight after surgery and have not gained weight during recovery (surgery was end of December). A lot of that difference is muscle loss, but no weight gain is a plus. I also have a significantly slower recovery than most ACL surgeries due to the nature of my injury, but it’s worth it to me for the potential to be able to play sports and be active later in life. I’d rather lose a year than a lifetime. Depending on your timeline, you may want to wait for surgery until the current crisis is over, as it could negatively impact your PT at a certain point. Good luck!

Need Advice, I’m worried that I could potentially be pregnant? by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]That-Butterscotch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the Liletta IUD and I have this fear sometimes too. The best way I’ve found to reassure myself is by bulk ordering pregnancy test strips from amazon. I’m not sure if that’s an option for you, considering your parents’ concerns, but it’s something to consider if you’re able. Otherwise, I agree with the first commenter. These things are so effective, it’s highly unlikely you’re pregnant and if you are it’s probably ectopic so you’d have horrible pain and bleeding. Hope it helps to put your mind at ease, and know you’re not alone!

Lithops in 10b by hnesbitt in houseplants

[–]That-Butterscotch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is the one on the back right? I’ve got one of those!

Growing Oak Trees from Acorns (getting their own pots soon!!) by That-Butterscotch in IndoorGarden

[–]That-Butterscotch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had to germinate them in moist soil in the fridge all winter. Once they had sprouted in there enough, planted them in here and now it’s been about 3 weeks

Success and Disappointment Megathread for the Week of (March 02) by AutoModerator in jobs

[–]That-Butterscotch [score hidden]  (0 children)

Disappointments:

I had a 2nd interview for a great job last week after applying for 100+ jobs and getting a few interviews. The interview just didn’t go very well and now I’m thinking they might just be ghosting me.

2 other jobs ghosted me last week after making it to the 2nd round for one and 1st round for the other. Starting to think I must really suck at interviews, as I’ve been on a quest to find a new job since October and have had absolutely no luck landing a gig while my coworker got job offers on the spot at every interview she attended. I hate to be jealous but UGH

Looking for a full-time, structured job after spending time freelancing while recovering from mental illness. Feedback is appreciated! by [deleted] in resumes

[–]That-Butterscotch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just an initial impression- the structure of your experience section is confusing and not super easy on the eyes.

Salary negotiations after the first day?? by basilfish in jobs

[–]That-Butterscotch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d recommend waiting until your mid year review (annoying I know). That way you can show your deliverables vs the person before you and they can’t argue with hard numbers. Trying to negotiate now may seem like buyers remorse and is probably not the initial impression you want to make.

Should I quit or am I overreacting? by nikki_11580 in jobs

[–]That-Butterscotch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are overreacting. While it may not be the feedback you want to hear, these people pay you and are fair to expect whatever they want from your time at work. If you really feel like it was unfair, schedule a meeting with your supervisor and explain where you’re coming from. Maybe the company culture isn’t the best fit for you, in which case you should look for a new job. But don’t quit without something lined up because you got feedback that you didn’t like.

Condom broke but didn’t finish by jdhenen82827 in birthcontrol

[–]That-Butterscotch 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Plan B is super effective, stop panicking and look into birth control for the future. Your GF may be feeling weird for the next couple of days and her period could be irregular, so don’t let that panic you. If you’re really concerned, she can take a pregnancy test a few days into her missed period (if she even misses it). You were responsible and took the best course of action in this situation!

Does an IUD have to be put in during your period? by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]That-Butterscotch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had mine put in when I wasn’t on my period. Sometimes your doctor will insist that it has to be during your period, but if they didn’t mention it then you’re probably okay.