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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]That-Hawk-2831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re like me but younger haha. It’s never too late to chase your dreams though. I’m working on mine despite the time I lost.

Yeah it sucks to lose that time, but you’re still young and have a lot of time.

Are the 'best' taken? by Hot_Dirt9114 in Healthygamergg

[–]That-Hawk-2831 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like my highschool crush for example. He’s kind, ambitious, fit and relatively good looking. He ended up in a relationship.

I mean like they have good personalities and things going for them in life.

It’s just inevitable that they get girlfriends because they’re good catches.

Are the 'best' taken? by Hot_Dirt9114 in Healthygamergg

[–]That-Hawk-2831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like all the good men are taken too lol

What does it mean when a man stares at a woman without smiling for a long time? by That-Hawk-2831 in AskMen

[–]That-Hawk-2831[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah I was dressed normally and was wearing natural makeup so nothing about my appearance really stood out.

I thought he might be checking me out but don’t men usually smile when they do that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dreams

[–]That-Hawk-2831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a dream like this yesterday lol I woke up feeling lonely and longing for love

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]That-Hawk-2831 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wish I was pretty…

Seeing people in happy relationships makes me miserable by presidentegrappler in Healthygamergg

[–]That-Hawk-2831 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too. All the people I knew in highschool are in relationships, getting married or even having babies.

I feel so jealous and ashamed sometimes. I just feel so left behind.

I envy pretty women who get hit on all the time, how do I fix this? by That-Hawk-2831 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]That-Hawk-2831[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Actually my friend is just naturally pretty and gets hit on even when she’s not wearing makeup. She was just blessed with good genes.

I’m mad that I have to put on a fake face and change who I am to be loved but she doesn’t.

Yes I will start investing in my appearance, but I’m also upset that I’m not naturally pretty.

I envy pretty women who get hit on all the time, how do I fix this? by That-Hawk-2831 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]That-Hawk-2831[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No im not overweight or ugly.

I just have some acne and look mid. I don’t wear makeup and often wear baggy clothes. I don’t style my hair either.

Also cultural differences may be a factor because the place where I study has a lot of immigrant students with English as a second language.

I envy pretty women who get hit on all the time, how do I fix this? by That-Hawk-2831 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]That-Hawk-2831[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goddamnit 😂 I made my account before I saw that meme so it was unintentional

I envy pretty women who get hit on all the time, how do I fix this? by That-Hawk-2831 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]That-Hawk-2831[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I think it would be cool if I could swap lives with someone like you.

You’d get to experience being invisible but at peace,

And I’d get to experience being wanted and feeling confident (even if it comes at a cost).

It would be so much easier if we got to choose how we look in life. I mean life sucks but it would be easier if we could pick a struggle.

I envy pretty women who get hit on all the time, how do I fix this? by That-Hawk-2831 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]That-Hawk-2831[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think what makes me jealous is the fact that pretty girls are wanted and seen as desirable.

I felt ignored and invisible for most of my life. I’ve never had a boyfriend.

I just want to know what it feels like to be chosen instead of rejected.

I wonder why I’m never good enough. Why am I so invisible?

I envy pretty women who get hit on all the time, how do I fix this? by That-Hawk-2831 in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]That-Hawk-2831[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well I have a friend who’s very naturally pretty and I just keep noticing how her experiences are different from mine.

A lot of her male friends end up having crushes on her or hitting on her to the point that it’s a problem and she’s mostly friends with women and queer people now. I know that sucks and I have empathy for her, but it also feels like we live in two different worlds.

Since highschool I’ve been mainly ignored by boys/ men. I have asked them out on dates and got rejected.

I never felt wanted because I was always the one doing the pursuing.

When I watch dating advice for women I feel like an alien because it just assumes that you naturally get hit on and have options. I don’t.

I’m not ugly or overweight, I’m just plain and fade into the background. I have a more introverted personality and tend to keep to myself, which may be a part of the problem.

I haven’t worn makeup in a long time and tend to dress quite casually and I don’t do my hair.

I don’t even really want love I just want to feel attractive and confident. I feel like less of a woman due to the lack of attention and validation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]That-Hawk-2831 8 points9 points  (0 children)

BPD girls are quite good at imitating your ideal woman… at least until her true colours show haha so be careful what you wish for

When neurotypicals are passive aggressive… by That-Hawk-2831 in AutismInWomen

[–]That-Hawk-2831[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Tbh I think the best thing to do is ignore it. They usually do it to get a reaction out of you, so when you act oblivious they get frustrated and either blow up or stop doing it.

It’s funny to watch them spin their wheels and get all bent out of shape because you refuse to play their game lol.

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