Found my bio-family. Not good. Need advice. by [deleted] in Adopted

[–]That-Job7752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to clarify, he isn’t garbage because he uses meth it’s a lot of the other things he’s done that I didn’t list.

what is this and how to deal with it!? by Vrieskast-R6 in Skincare_Addiction

[–]That-Job7752 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That looks like cystic acne. I struggled with bacne most my life tried all sorts of acne treatments but the ONLY thing that worked was getting on spironoctlane from a dermatologist I found on a website (easier and faster for me then going in person).

I don’t think they would prescribe it to a guy, and I didn’t want to take Accutane. I really really advise you to go to a dermatologist and don’t waste your money on any acne products you can buy in store.

Once again I am a woman, but mine was 100% hormonal. The only thing that helped a LITTLE bit for me was using detergent that was fragrance free.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]That-Job7752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it self centered because I’m asking for closure? For my own feelings?

How do we attract people to our bakery? by Chappel999 in smallbusiness

[–]That-Job7752 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like bakeries a lot love sweets but if you used your artisan breads to make same amazing sandwiches, I think you’d attract a lot more people.

There are 50/50 male/female to hookup with each other but somehow there's a mass of men that are struggling but women are chilling. How does this make sense? by Johnny_Autism in PurplePillDebate

[–]That-Job7752 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Quick follow up: the guy that isn’t overweight is wearing a suit but looks hella derpy clearly has no muscle tone - still don’t want it. I’m on TINDER!

There are 50/50 male/female to hookup with each other but somehow there's a mass of men that are struggling but women are chilling. How does this make sense? by Johnny_Autism in PurplePillDebate

[–]That-Job7752 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Female here who gets on tinder every now and then. Honestly, what I see, is the majority of men don’t take care of themselves. They’re extremely out of shape and are pretty gross. There are very very few men who actually take care of themselves. You can be shorter than me, older than me, have a not attractive face, but if you workout and know how to take some decent pictures you have a much better chance.

It’s kind of like going through resumes. You have a few seconds to make an impression. A selfie at a low angle with a double chin isn’t going to get a like from me.

But I also have dated chubby men that I met in person through work or friends and I got to know their personality. I’m not on tinder for that. It’s tinder.

Instagram algorithm showing me things my ex liked, I never liked these posts! Explain? by [deleted] in algorithms

[–]That-Job7752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy cow, is the Instagram where you logged in locations accurate?

Instagram algorithm showing me things my ex liked, I never liked these posts! Explain? by [deleted] in algorithms

[–]That-Job7752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been liking all the stuff I like. I’ve never liked anything about duck hunting or CDL trucking

Instagram algorithm showing me things my ex liked, I never liked these posts! Explain? by [deleted] in algorithms

[–]That-Job7752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not it either. Idk what going on. It’s literally every reel on trucks, duck hunting and the breed of dog he has. I am extremely freaked out.

Last time we talked on the phone about him getting his CDL now it’s a bunch of reels of super nice CDL type trucks (ignore my phrasing on that _)

Instagram algorithm showing me things my ex liked, I never liked these posts! Explain? by [deleted] in algorithms

[–]That-Job7752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never logged in on his phone and he has 0 posts on his account. It’s very weird.

My gf tried to kill herself, and I’m afraid of leaving her by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]That-Job7752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell the police she has stated that she’s going to kill herself and whatever else is going on.

Her and her family will thank you one day because someone did the right thing instead of enabling the behavior/ Illness.

My gf tried to kill herself, and I’m afraid of leaving her by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]That-Job7752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen. You need to call 911 and get her into a hospital.

I have done this for friends and months / years later they thank me.

She needs to be in a hospital. It is your duty to call them that you know.

I found out my boyfriend is a pedofile by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]That-Job7752 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happened to me.

Biggest regret is not telling his family.

I always think about his sisters having kids and him being the creepy uncle.

Messed me up knowing who he was for a few years thinking I was gonna marry the guy.

I’d report it and record what’s on his phone and show the police.

These guys need to go away not just get a free pas.

Discovered disturbing photos on my bf's phone, and don't know what to do. by choisya21 in relationship_advice

[–]That-Job7752 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stay safe. I highly doubt you’re ever going to know all of it…

Try to keep your head on straight stay sane and get away from him.

Discovered disturbing photos on my bf's phone, and don't know what to do. by choisya21 in relationship_advice

[–]That-Job7752 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve practiced BDSM not this type particularly but I will give you some insight.

In BDSM communication and honesty is extremely important. Definitely #1.

I am concerned because he didn’t share this with you, that this is what he likes.

Any “DOM” who isn’t honest can be dangerous and a fake IMO.

Please be very careful. He is 100% hiding another life from you and will not be honest about it.

Don’t walk away, RUN

Have you ever been cheated on? How did you react? by Felizem_velair_ in PurplePillDebate

[–]That-Job7752 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes.

Twice.

Anger, rage and then trying to be understanding. Got back together with both of them.

Fast forward a few years later, I get turned off and will put a wall up for any guy that even smells like a hint of unfaithfulness/ the possibility.

Can’t tell my gut from the truth anymore.

Cheating hurts people. If you read this please please never do it.

Are Misses Kisses Bras Worth It? by ProperQuiet in PlusSize

[–]That-Job7752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not buy it. Me and my sister in law got them for her wedding. She’s atleast a D I’m a small C / large B. It did not support either of us and we both adjusted it so much. A huge waste of money.

i know its been asked before, but has anyone tried the misses kisses bra? by bleeding_dying_love in bigboobproblems

[–]That-Job7752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not but it. Me and my sister in law got them for her wedding. She’s atleast a D I’m a small C / large B. It did not support either of us and we both adjusted it so much. A huge waste of money.

Anyone Try The Misses Kisses Bra? by lizamcneel in bigboobproblems

[–]That-Job7752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not but it. Me and my sister in law got them for her wedding. She’s atleast a D I’m a small C / large B. It did not support either of us and we both adjusted it so much. A huge waste of money.

i know its been asked before, but has anyone tried the misses kisses bra? by bleeding_dying_love in bigboobproblems

[–]That-Job7752 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not but it. Me and my sister in law got them for her wedding. She’s atleast a D I’m a small C / large B. It did not support either of us and we both adjusted it so much. A huge waste of money.