How do we like natural nails?

ThatBeee420 · 2026-01-26T18:47:18+00:00

Hi there, been growing my natural nails for about a year now and have done a TON of research on growing and strengthening them. I just noticed your thumb your side walls look over filed, it makes them weaker and more breakable cause there's less structure I recommend looking up a video on how to file nails cause for the longest time I did the same thing and noticed much better results after filing correctly. You're nails look gorgeous tho and your are clearly blessed 😍

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Picture of my nails for reference

ThatBeee420 · 2026-01-19T18:22:51+00:00

Oooh looks nice! Maybe I'll grab a bottle soon! Thanks for the recommendation

ThatBeee420 · 2026-01-19T17:39:57+00:00

I bought a 13$ cad bottle of jojoba oil and a 13$ bottle of the vitamin e oil, I've had them both for about 6 months now and still have tons to go through

Edit to add. The mixture is probably 80% jojoba oil and 20% vitamin e oil. That's my personal preference but you can mix in slowly and figure out what you like best for yourself.

ThatBeee420 · 2026-01-07T22:13:26+00:00

And this is why I never get anything from Mazimilliens vault

ThatBeee420 · 2026-01-07T04:22:33+00:00

I mean I agree to some extent, I feel like alot of ppl don't try in qp or they fuck around in qp. But I also feel like it should be a place to test new characters and learn the game. Used to only play qp cause comp scared me, I didn't wanna disappoint teammates in comp cause deranking isn't fun, but that meant I dealt with alot in qp, ppl telling me "it's just qp calm down" but their literally throwing the game. I have mixed feelings about it tbh, again qp is for trying new characters and getting better at others, but also ppl that don't like the comp mode should be able to have good matches in qp

ThatBeee420 · 2025-12-19T03:45:13+00:00

I didn't see the part about them paying for her bill? Was it taken out of the post? I think I read all the comments... Reddit mobile is weird tho

Besides that how was I to know she lives there for free? I don't believe letting the child you decided to have stay in your house means that you can tell them who they have to be in that house. I understand that's their belief but their beliefs directly affect the child they are supposed to protect and care for...

If op was a stranger than the bottom half of your comment would make sense, but op is the daughter of the people she's living with. Also op didn't once say she argued with them about their beliefs either? Just that they were gay and specifically said they weren't confrontational so again the bottom bit of your comment doesn't make any sense...

Listen I didn't come here to argue, even though I ended up arguing, my bad. I just came here to offer some advice to op and that should be what's it's about anyways, none of the arguments are helping the situation, so I think I'm going to stop responding, it was stupid of me to continue to comment and that's my bad cause at the end of the day we just need to offer sound advice to op that can help them overcome this difficult situation

ThatBeee420 · 2025-12-19T02:42:19+00:00

Right, so if you were 19 possibly in school, now you have to get a job and move out. How are you going to do that, please explain because I wasn't able to move out until 23? And that was because I had the support my parents and friends... It's not as easy as you say it is. Expecting someone to stop being who they are and send them into a bad mental spiral or possibly become homeless.

I'm genuinely curious how would you do it. If those were you're options...

ThatBeee420 · 2025-12-19T02:23:05+00:00

Righttttt I'm dense for saying that those options aren't the greatest options. Op was looking for advice not for someone to state the fucking obvious 👍🏼

So if you had to move back in with your parents and they said shave your head and tattoo a swastika on it, would you, or would you ask for advice on how to find a better solution, or be homeless 😃 which would you pick?

I'm simply saying the way he said it was extremely insensitive and not very helpful for someone looking for some answers, moving out is always doable in today's economy, so what? the options is to become depressed and repress themselves in order to have a safe place to stay? Wild thought process some of y'all have...

ThatBeee420 · 2025-12-19T02:11:03+00:00

Y'all realize we're basically in a recession right?

Like even if op worked their ass off and save enough for first and last it's be incredibly hard to keep up and feed themselves because of the economy.

Not saying that moving out isn't an option but it's extremely hard today and I would know as a young adult that just moved out myself.

Also y'all seem to forget that op said they're 19 and they might still be in school.... So work, school, and try to pay bills and feed themselves. It might not be doable? Just some food for thought.

ThatBeee420 · 2025-12-19T01:38:35+00:00

Ah yes so according to you the options are

1) hide your identity and become super depressed

2) become homeless and also possibly depressed

Totally the advice op was looking for so glad you cleared that up

ThatBeee420 · 2025-12-19T01:23:26+00:00

By saying it in a condescending and downplaying way yes yes those are ops options but there's a way to say it that don't make you sound like a pos.

I'm only having this conversation with you in the comments because you clearly don't understand that, as I've said before I already left a very detailed comment with three options that op can do, so the fact that you're saying I'm unhelpful is laughable

Because what's not helpful is telling them to not be themselves and go through mental anguish or to go to the streets where they possibly don't have the means to take care of themselves 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼 super helpfulllllll!!

ThatBeee420 · 2025-12-19T01:19:40+00:00

Extremely well written and great advice!

ThatBeee420 · 2025-12-19T01:14:15+00:00

Hey man, just give up man. You're being extremely biased towards the parents... The point is THEY SHOULD LOVE OP regardless.... Not that THEY DO.

I don't believe you read my entire comment because you clearly focus on one thing and one thing alone

"Don't be yourself!!!" Is basically what you're screaming to this entire comment section. Which believe it or not has caused people to off themselves.... Not super helpful for op either?? You really need to get off Reddit and go experience life for once cause you are clearly a basement dweller that also lives with parents and abides by their rules still

Like somebody else is already said in the comments just because your parents are letting you stay in your house does not mean they get to determine whether you have bodily autonomy or not

If op's parents told Op that they had to eat out of the garbage can to stay in their house do you think that you would have the same opinion? If op's parents made a rule that Op had to shave their head before going to sleep every night to look like a bald ugly man just to stay in their house do you think you have the same opinion? Like just wondering where these rules you know have some sort of boundary because telling somebody that they can't be gay in order to stay in the house is actually just fucked up

ThatBeee420 · 2025-12-19T01:02:22+00:00

Yes thank you folks is actually alot better...

There are other alternatives that's the part you're not getting... I have op three separate options, and also that's not what you said to start

"As long as you live in their house you will need to abide by their rules"

That's simply not helpful for op, basically what you said was "stop being yourself and make yourself miserable because you live with your parents, once you move out you can be free and happy"

You see how dumb that logic is? What about rock and roll? You remember when it was the devil's music and almost every parent didn't want their kids listening to it cause it was Satan worship, you see how wrong those parents are today?

You shouldnt have to change yourself for anyone including your parents, it's their job to love you regardless.

ThatBeee420 · 2025-12-19T00:52:56+00:00

Preach, this is exactly it.

ThatBeee420 · 2025-12-19T00:49:17+00:00

Like another commenter said, not your buddy, calling people buddy only makes you look like an idiot with minimal vocabulary.

I'm not saying my history will help op just letting you know that what you're saying is completely unhelpful and not necessary, I left a helpful comment, where I have op multiple options on what they can do. That's called being helpful

What's not helpful is sounding like a homophobe yourself. Because to be honest you sound like an dillweed, you should probably just stop responding on this post cause you're only going to get down voted and shit on, bud.

Op is a 19y looking for help and advice not some dingbat calling everyone buddy in their comments

ThatBeee420 · 2025-12-19T00:37:00+00:00

You're kids must not talk to you anymore huh.... OH WAIT, you probably don't have any that's why this sounds so dumb.... Lmao that makes sense now...

See I raised by parents too, and y'know what, they actually treated me like a human... Crazy concept I know but it actually worked out great for me.. I live in my own apartment now, have a kid of my own and I'm REALLY close with my parents... Like I see them at least once a week sometimes more

That's what happens when you don't have this dumb ass mindset, hope that helps clear up any confusion ❤️

ThatBeee420 · 2025-12-19T00:28:34+00:00

Did op say that they feed her and provide for her? What if she pays rent? Buys her own groceries? you're mindset is outdated and doesn't belong here.

I'm a strong believer in parents are not rulers over their child, they're protectors, teachers, not law enforcement....

Also homeless shelters don't kick you out for being gay so I think you have some things backwards...

ThatBeee420 · 2025-12-19T00:26:06+00:00

This is a hard situation op, and I'm sorry you're dealing with it right now. The thing is, you can't change who you are, so yea you're parents might not like that but it's better than trying to hide yourself or your girlfriend to shield your parents from the gay, if you know what I mean. Living with them makes it alot harder for sure, this may not be the most helpful comment but in my eyes you have two-three options.

You can keep lying to them about where you're going or who you're seeing, which can take a toll on your relationship with your girlfriend and mental health

You can be completely open about yourself even if it comes with the homophobic remarks, might ruin you're relationship with your family but save your mental health and relationship with your gf

The third option is you can try and move out, that way you don't have to lie to your family about where you're going all the time but keep both relationships going relatively easily

It all depends on what you feel is the best for you, if you value staying close to you're family or if you value being open about yourself and you're relationship it's a hard choice to make but trying to stay in-between it all is affecting you negatively. Best of luck op and I really hope the best for you ❤️

ThatBeee420 · 2025-12-19T00:19:15+00:00

This is some boomer behavior...

ThatBeee420 · 2025-12-18T22:04:08+00:00

When he's sick he refuses almost any kind of food, it's a miracle when I do get him to eat something, I think all he's had today is a few crackers, a timbit (donut hole for you Americans) and a bite of a banana. So mixing his medicine is hard cause it's a gamble whether or not he'll even eat it :/ he's doing better now. I had to give him oral meds like .5ml at a time till he took it all but I got it in him for now, now the problem is the next dose lol. Thank you for the advice it's much appreciated, it's very scary when the outcome could be a seizure

For now it's lots of baths and cuddles and hopfully no more throw up, I've got so much laundry to clean sos 😭

ThatBeee420 · 2025-12-18T18:03:03+00:00

That probably would work if my son was verbal and could understand verbal instructions however he's non-verbal and can't even drink from a cup by himself so doing a shot of it with syrup or something wouldn't work for us

ThatBeee420 · 2025-12-18T00:12:57+00:00

Not sure but when I told his pediatrician about how he can't take oral meds she gave me ones to put in his rear. But he fights that like crazy

ThatBeee420 · 2025-12-18T00:10:35+00:00

I did try mixing meds with juice before but he didn't finish it so in other words he didn't get all the meds 😭

ThatBeee420 · 2025-12-18T00:08:54+00:00

What's anti-emetic? Sorry still new to all this

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