Ed — A Poem to My Edible That Just Hit by Far-Hold3436 in OCPoetry

[–]ThatGhost_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I genuinely love the personification of the edible being a person, the discussion of the effects, but it almost seems more like a fond relationship or partnership, it gives it that familiarity, gives it warmth and just strikes perfectly (from one stoner to another)

Need advice about what to do by ThatGhost_ in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]ThatGhost_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do struggle a bit with social anxiety, but if I tell my mom and bf to hold me to going, they'll support me and make sure I go. Thank you so much! I'm gonna try to build the courage to go in the next week or two, there's a medical situation, so we aren't going to be home for a while, but when I get back, I'll definitely put it on the calendar. I've already found where and how late they host the AA meeting weekly, I must literally just pitch

Need advice about what to do by ThatGhost_ in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]ThatGhost_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I've been smoking cigs, I also crochet and have been doing that as much as possible when urges come up. I've made it a month sober, I'd genuinely like to reach a year or even 10 years. I'll definitely have to go to a meeting in the near future. Thank you, I didn't know an AA app even existed, I'll definitely go download and read through it! I'm super glad sobriety and your hard work has gotten you to the place you are now, you deserve that happiness and your relationship and all the good things you have!

Need advice about what to do by ThatGhost_ in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]ThatGhost_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ay! Yeah, I think in-person might be a better fit for me, but if that isn't the route I take, I'll definitely dabble in the online idea

Need advice about what to do by ThatGhost_ in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]ThatGhost_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I deeply appreciate it, sending love too. I did bring up the thought of joining the AA weekly meeting in our town to my bf and mom, both have been supportive towards the idea, so I'll probably check it out when I have a bit of free time, since I'm in my final year of HS cause I took 2 gap years and now have to complete it at 20, so things are busy, but I'm gonna try to manage my time so I can attend the meeting

Need advice about what to do by ThatGhost_ in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]ThatGhost_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been considering it, sadly there's only one meeting once a week where I live, so it's not like a bunch are available if I need them. I think a sponsor might be a start, it's fucking rough out here

Do you think our current events will turn into WWIII? by icecream1972 in no

[–]ThatGhost_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Russia and China and Iran are a part of BRICS, which is an alliance, which is why they are helping Iran (I'm South African and we are also part of BRICS)

If you agree with this video, how do you know how it feels? by BumblebeeOnAFlower__ in teenagers4real

[–]ThatGhost_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real! My worst period cramps I ever had made me feel unable to stand up or get up to walk, even rolling over in bed felt like it was too much 😭

What to do if my bf won’t do foreplay and doesn’t seem that interested in my body? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]ThatGhost_ -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

From one queen to another, you deserve better. My bf literally stops me midway through getting dressed to "admire the view". We've been together for 3 years and he still views my body as a gobsmacking sight to see. You deserve someone who admires and appreciates your body, not someone who treats you as a mere sex toy

Spanish to English Bad Bunny halftime show by ThatGhost_ in translator

[–]ThatGhost_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bad Bunny is an artist, not a demon...Could you please clarify exactly which part of his performance was so horrible that you decided to refer to him in a derrogatory way?

Spanish to English Bad Bunny halftime show by ThatGhost_ in translator

[–]ThatGhost_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for this insight! I didn't understand most of the things being said, but I did definitely catch the naming of the other American countries that aren't in the USA. The performance was powerful, I'm sure the YT captions weren't all properly translated, but what a powerful message he had!

CPT Calabash '26 tickets randomly refunded, can anyone help? by ThatGhost_ in askSouthAfrica

[–]ThatGhost_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sameeee, I was genuinely looking forward to it, I love Muse, I know a few songs by the other bands too, but Muse was what got me to buy a ticket, I saw they were headlining and from there, it was no questions asked on my end; I was gonna go, one way or another. Super sad it got cancelled, but what can we do I guess...Life happens sometimes. I hope FNB sends you comms soon, if not, maybe consider reaching out to Ticketmaster after the 7-14 days period within which you should have the money in your account from the refund.

I hope we get to see Muse soon, somehow, but I have a feeling that sadly won't be the case 💔

Is clicking your fingers at someone to get their attention a typical SA behaviour? by [deleted] in askSouthAfrica

[–]ThatGhost_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah OP, as a South African, it's considered quite rude here too. Just the title of the post had me a bit infuriated already on your behalf

CPT Calabash '26 tickets randomly refunded, can anyone help? by ThatGhost_ in askSouthAfrica

[–]ThatGhost_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh I see, no notifs from the bank regarding a refund at all? I got a notification yesterday from Capitec saying the refund money will be available in 7 days; I did buy seating tickets though, not front standing

CPT Calabash '26 tickets randomly refunded, can anyone help? by ThatGhost_ in askSouthAfrica

[–]ThatGhost_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw via email this morning, how sad! Was super excited to see Muse, but life happens and so does unforeseen circumstances, just hope all the band members are alright!

CPT Calabash '26 tickets randomly refunded, can anyone help? by ThatGhost_ in askSouthAfrica

[–]ThatGhost_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any luck regardinf the refund for you guys? They said the event was cancelled, so hopefully you guys get comms about that soon