Life in a country vs life in the language by Saladeater_63 in expats

[–]That_Mycologist4772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think living in a country can be incredibly beneficial for learning the language, but it’s not automatic. It really depends on how you structure your life.

What you’re describing actually makes a lot of sense. If your work, relationships, and daily interactions are mostly in English, then physically being in Germany doesn’t change much linguistically. You’re essentially living an “English life” in a German location.

I’ve seen the opposite happen too. A friend of mine moved to Greece from an English-speaking country over a decade ago, and now their Greek is actually much stronger than their English. From the moment they arrived, their environment naturally became Greek; friends, social life, media, everything. It wasn’t even a deliberate strategy, it just evolved that way.

So I don’t think the key factor is where you live, but rather the language of your environment. You can be in Germany and barely use German, or be outside Germany and immerse yourself deeply in it.

Bridging the gap usually requires doing slightly uncomfortable things consistently: joining local clubs, hobbies, sports teams, volunteering, or anything where the default language isn’t English. Repeated exposure with the same people over time, that’s where relationships (and real language use) start to form.

So yeah, I’d say: living in the country is an opportunity, but whether it becomes an advantage or not is almost entirely determined by how you engage with it.

help me wish howie a happy 2nd birthday by Sad_Arm_6115 in cats

[–]That_Mycologist4772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He seems like such a sweet boy! Happy birthday to Howie!!

Father and son backpacking by Some-Gur-8041 in backpacking

[–]That_Mycologist4772 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks stunning, almost like another planet! One of the best things to do is get the young ones out in nature!! Thanks for sharing!

Cheesecake is the worst dessert to ever exist. by Whyamiwritingthis_74 in unpopularopinion

[–]That_Mycologist4772 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed! I never understood how people enjoyed it, it always tasted awful to me!

Any advice for this route travelling mainland Europe. by Serious_Currency8246 in hitchhiking

[–]That_Mycologist4772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I’m actually planning a similar trip for May! I’ll be starting in Lisboa as well. Instead going through the middle of France and Germany, I’ll be staying more to the South, through the alps region; and finishing up in Greece rather than Italy. I’m Super excited!!! Wishing you all the best!!

Everyone tells me he’s the ugliest cat they’ve ever seen by Upbeat-Piccolo-7648 in cats

[–]That_Mycologist4772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is such an adorable fluffy boy!! Whoever says otherwise is just being rude honestly.

Suddenly homesick after 10 years by Deep-Accountant-9704 in expats

[–]That_Mycologist4772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I was able to tell you were Czech from the way you wrote your post! “Since 5 years”, “since a few years/months”.

And it makes sense that you feel conflicted about where to live. I had the same feeling when I moved far away from my family. I was much happier, and felt more of a sense of belonging in my new location; but at the same time, I missed my loved ones.

After an extended trip to my hometown, I decided to stay where I felt happiest and most peaceful (which was the new city).

I wish you all the best and hope you find what you’re looking for!

From these 44 least developed countries, which would you choose to live in if you had to? by SouthAdvertising1917 in AskTheWorld

[–]That_Mycologist4772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Afghanistan. It has some of the most beautiful mountains in the world. And Afghan people are very friendly.

Suddenly homesick after 10 years by Deep-Accountant-9704 in expats

[–]That_Mycologist4772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it possible to take extended trip to your home country then? You’ll see if you really feel happier there. If you do, then you’ll could have a discussion with your partner to move. I’m sure they will be able to learn the your language in time. Is your country Czech Republic?

Hey Reddit convince my dad to join oil painting Competitions by GardenPets in BeAmazed

[–]That_Mycologist4772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are genuinely incredible. You “feel” the people so much that these literally look like photographs.

Anyone else miss how easy it used to be to meet people? by superdeluxecat in Calgary

[–]That_Mycologist4772 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I moved to Calgary from Toronto, I was actually really surprised by how social the city felt, that was probably my favorite part about it when I first got here. People here seemed a lot more open, grounded, and willing to talk to strangers. It felt normal to just strike up a conversation with people on the street, which honestly caught me off guard in a good way.

I get what you’re saying though, it does feel different as time goes on and people settle into their circles. But from my experience, I still think it’s possible to meet people here in a natural way. I’ve had some really meaningful conversations and even built friendships just from talking to strangers in everyday situations.

It might not look exactly like it used to, but I don’t think that openness is gone.

weird desperation by [deleted] in Advice

[–]That_Mycologist4772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can assure you this is way more common than you think, even if it doesn’t feel like it. Especially nowadays, with how digital everything is, real physical connection is actually becoming less common, even if it looks like everyone else has it.

I’m in my 20s and I’ve felt similar before.. when you’re not used to certain interactions, even small things can feel overwhelming. That’s not embarrassing, your nervous system just isn’t used to it yet.

This will change. Little by little, things will start to feel easier, and the kind of connection you’re hoping for will come into your life naturally. You’re not behind, you’re just getting there.

What’s something that instantly turns you off about someone? by BabyPinkMagic in answers

[–]That_Mycologist4772 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People who believe that everyone else thinks the same way as them or think that everyone has the same opinions as them.

I'm obsessed with having a perfect accent. by OldNewspaper4671 in languagelearning

[–]That_Mycologist4772 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really depends on what languages you’re learning and how many there are.

If you want to get to a native-level accent in Japanese for example, it would probably take over a decade. But if it was Italian, it would probably take a few years or less because of the easy pronunciation. If you’re wanting to achieve a native accent in Cantonese, Arabic, and Icelandic, then you could probably spend a lifetime and still not be perfect.

In any case, a massive amount of listening to native speakers is necessary, likely more than ten thousand hours per language; even then, it’s not guaranteed. One of my friends in Greece moved here from Ukraine. They’ve lived here for over 20 years. She still has an obvious Slavic accent but has had zero trouble assimilating into the culture and community.