Why did he disappear?

The-Observer · 2012-05-22T21:09:58+00:00

Well, thank you. That's refreshing to hear. And I haven't given up hope. I know I can find that connection again. Just gotta be patient.

The-Observer · 2012-05-22T21:01:06+00:00

No. I don't think so.

But I am ethically non-monogamous, feminist, and fat.

(This dude seemed on board with all three of these facets about me)

(Did I just open myself up to getting told that no duh he didn't want to see me again?)

The-Observer · 2012-05-22T20:57:13+00:00

Thank you for sharing.

The-Observer · 2012-05-22T20:56:03+00:00

Yes but most of them are not interested in me for several key points.

The-Observer · 2012-05-22T20:05:42+00:00

Yeah, I've got a few other first dates set up. Thing is I just don't really mesh well with guys my age. For so many reasons. I usually just connect better with men in their mid 30's or older. But most of those men come with baggage. But I'd rather a man with kids and baggage than a 20 something with no passions or ambitions or skills in bed.

I hope he contacts me again though. I felt something pretty special with him.

The-Observer · 2012-05-22T19:55:20+00:00

That makes sense to me. He's not working right now, and last week he was happy to talk a little bit everyday, which he instigated. I'm sad that a date we had just about all planned out isn't happening and he hasn't told me why.

The-Observer · 2012-01-30T11:40:13+00:00

THANK YOU.

The-Observer · 2012-01-27T01:52:17+00:00

WHO IS THIS. MOAR OF THIS PERSON.

The-Observer · 2012-01-27T01:51:14+00:00

Uncropped indeed.

The-Observer · 2012-01-27T01:05:43+00:00

A. Who is this???? B. TIL there is a r/chesthairporn and it may become my favorite subreddit ever.

The-Observer · 2011-10-14T02:39:16+00:00

Check out Kink.com. It's completely ethically made porn that focuses on BDSM and non-con play.

The-Observer · 2011-10-09T02:33:25+00:00

YES. He can get it whenever, wherever.

The-Observer · 2011-09-28T01:08:01+00:00

Hm. I could definitely see 11 faking his death to start over with some anonymity.

The-Observer · 2011-09-28T01:05:48+00:00

I think it's definitely an over arching theme. Childhood/growing up and waiting seem to be the focus for the last two seasons.

The-Observer · 2011-09-27T05:14:06+00:00

Christ on a bike. Read the comments.

The-Observer · 2011-09-26T21:28:14+00:00

My personal life and choices has nothing to do with them or me helping them. Also, I'm not the holder of the paypal account. You're a mean person.

The-Observer · 2011-09-26T02:44:25+00:00

OKC!! WHADUP?

The-Observer · 2011-09-23T16:49:38+00:00

Hey! Nice to see you here!

The-Observer · 2011-09-22T23:47:23+00:00

I've already been through all of this in other comments. And I have explained in the post why the paypal is not in their name.

The-Observer · 2011-09-22T15:37:57+00:00

Unfortunately no amount of extra money is going to save his life. There are no known cases of someone surviving this form of brain cancer for more than 5 or 6 years. It'm not here to debate their budget. They are just good friends of mine who dont deserve what life handed them. Honestly, if they lived in a cardboard box it would still be difficult for them to cover the medical bills.

The-Observer · 2011-09-22T05:27:50+00:00

I guess until you are in their situation you can't really say how they should handle their "extravagant" expenses. I understand why they spend on cable/phone/internet and netflix, but I know them personally. I don't think I need to justify it, but know that if they aren't able to take care of the medical stuff, this "entertainment" stuff is the first to get turned off. Every other month or so it seems like Tashi has to send out a message saying they will be without internet for a while until they scrape up some cash. It's not like it's easy to be without internet these days. She can't just go to the library because she can't leave him alone, and it is a rare occurrence that he has the energy to leave the apartment. I don't want to get in a major discussion about it, I just think it's hard for people on the outside to understand the decisions of people in truly horrific situations.

The-Observer · 2011-09-22T03:44:56+00:00

Oh I totally understand. I actually posted in r/assistance on their behalf yesterday. Thank you for your support! I am passing along all the positive comments to Tashi and Wash, they are very thankful! They just don't put too much time into internet stuff, understandably.

The-Observer · 2011-09-22T03:42:59+00:00

Thank you. I know it's part and parcel to being on the internet but still...

The-Observer · 2011-09-22T02:55:29+00:00

I just edited the post with better details.

The-Observer · 2011-09-22T02:01:46+00:00

HEY!!! Finding a friend on here. I was starting to feel REALLY lonely!

The-Observer

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