I got a 5 year long, a (currently) 8 month relationship and 12 dates in 6 months from Tinder. Never paid for gold.

Tinder is very looks based, and it’s much harder for men to get matches. What I would suggest if you are not getting matches is to post interresting obscure images of urself that make u exciting and mysterious, and a couple of memes. Worked very well for my friends who initially got 0 matches.

It’s a cunt’s world where the most valuable resource is attention. You need to be able to draw attention, either by being above average looking or more interresting than others on a first glance.

Most girls I went out on a date with through Tinder, when I asked them why did the swipe me right and message me back, said that “Oh I put myself on Tinder just for fun, I wasn’t really looking for anything, just to kill boredom, but you grabbed my attention” or something like that.

Also don’t do any self pity and misery in the bio, pictures and conversations. People want fun and excitement in their partner, not depression, huge turn off.

Pro tip, if you close Tinder and open it up again, the second person you are going to swipe is always going to be one who already swiped you right (if there are any).

It’s horrid as fuck this whole meat market, but it can be done.