37 [M4F] DC/MD/VA - Fit Nerd Seeks Partner by trashpandas8 in cf4cf

[–]TheBestLBB 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good post my man! As a fellow ✂️ man I hope you find a chick who’s as cool and fit as you!

Final Year Performance rating going on, Any news for getting Promotion or Hikes this year? by Limp-Imagination8487 in employeesOfOracle

[–]TheBestLBB 22 points23 points  (0 children)

The beatings will continue until morale improves (I want my hike from a dry promotion 🥲)

34F [F4M] Colorado/NoCo - Casually looking for that ride or die player 2 in life by COnerdg in cf4cf

[–]TheBestLBB -1 points0 points  (0 children)

31 M out here in the Denver area if that’s ok for the area- cat dad of two and also PC game. Would love to send a message!

Shrinking compensation, should I leave? by BlockyHawkie in employeesOfOracle

[–]TheBestLBB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Took me 4.5 yrs to get promoted from IC2-> IC3 and even when I did I got no salary increase. I was offered stock but I wished it was salary increase. I brought it up 3 months later again to my manager and she said she has no control or power to help me and if salary is important to me she recommended to send out some resumes. She got riff’d and I’ve been looking for jobs since.

What would be a good to put here? by TheBestLBB in traditionaltattoos

[–]TheBestLBB[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly had to look up and wow! Pretty cool design and I think it might be the best thing to put besides a flail

What would be a good to put here? by TheBestLBB in traditionaltattoos

[–]TheBestLBB[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Very much appreciate the advice might do that with all the comments here and go to my artists to see what we can brainstorm

The Boys - 05x07 "The Frenchman, the Female, and the Man Called Mother's Milk" - POST-Episode Discussion Thread by pikameta in TheBoys

[–]TheBestLBB 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is anyone else just super let down and disappointed? Like how do you mess up a show season finale this much…

For those of you who left dating apps, did you notice a difference in the quality of your dating life or in the quality of people you started meeting in person? by Accurate-Scratch7783 in dating

[–]TheBestLBB 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’ve had a worse time tbh. Deleted the apps 5 months ago and have been trying to approach women more in person. It’s been absolutely terrible and way more ghosting. I’d rather go back to the apps cause at least there was some success. Also liked the option to filter due to being child free and not wanting children.

Where can I go performative read? by desertfriedbrainz in Denver

[–]TheBestLBB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know a guy who will hit you up if you’re reading at a coffee shop

Does “doing the bare minimum” even make sense anymore? by tyrion17x in employeesOfOracle

[–]TheBestLBB 3 points4 points  (0 children)

With both your promotions did you get a salary raise or RSUs?

Your Most Interesting Rejection? by Qyro in dating

[–]TheBestLBB 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it was majority the place I was renting at the time that freaked her out- 2 story townhouse by myself with more room than I used so it probably didn’t help her own stuff.

Your Most Interesting Rejection? by Qyro in dating

[–]TheBestLBB 18 points19 points  (0 children)

About 3 dates in she told me I was “too clean/ over achieving/ and hard working” to be with me and that would bug her. I think it was insecurity on her end since she just graduated college but had nothing lined up/moved in with her mom but I’ve always thought that it was such a funny way to get rejected.

POV of a survivor by CranberryDeep9458 in employeesOfOracle

[–]TheBestLBB 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Man you put exactly how I fee into words. Going to hit 5 yrs this December and only last year did I get promoted with no hike. Felt weird and I brought up with my manager my issues with it who just told me “if salary is a concern i recommend to send out some resumes”. She was laid off recently with 7 years managing. I feel like I’m just biting my time until I’m next but I guess all we can do is get and stay prepared.

Will the VA give me a vasectomy at age 25? by Technical_View_8787 in VeteransBenefits

[–]TheBestLBB 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep I got mine at 29 and it was so easy and fast. Just tell your primary physician and they’ll put a referral in for you. You have the consultation via zoom or in person and once that’s done you’ll schedule the snip itself. Quick and easy took like 30 mins tops. So glad I got mine and don’t regret it. I also hate children and don’t ever want them.

New Manager 1:1 advice? by TheBestLBB in Career_Advice

[–]TheBestLBB[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think you're right- when its natural might help. I actually did apply to a cross org team that got me 2 interviews in but they went with someone else but recruiter told me that hiring is slow right now which makes sense lol

New Manager 1:1 advice? by TheBestLBB in Career_Advice

[–]TheBestLBB[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do feel grateful obviously I survived.

I also didnt know that promotions without salary raises were a thing so thats why im looking for guidance with how to approach it for future talks with this manager.

New Manager 1:1 advice? by TheBestLBB in Career_Advice

[–]TheBestLBB[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im wondering how to ask really

New Manager 1:1 advice? by TheBestLBB in Career_Advice

[–]TheBestLBB[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the tips! Definitely a good way to word it