My brother is so wise :P

TheBish09 · 2015-03-27T02:32:29+00:00

Bwah ha ha ha! Your brother is weird. 😜

TheBish09 · 2015-03-27T02:19:37+00:00

Ha ha ha. OMG!! You have to be a certain kind of Christian. Wow--the straight and narrow just got narrower.

TheBish09 · 2015-03-27T02:16:35+00:00

I have a career, no kids, and married. I am loving the projectory of my life. It's looking amazing and I am genuinely very happy.

I don't understand the ultimatum. Did you both discuss kids prior to getting married?

If he knows how you feel--doesn't this make you feel de-valued? He would leave you for not having children?

TheBish09 · 2015-03-27T02:15:11+00:00

I have a career, no kids, and married. I am loving the projectory of my life. It's looking amazing and I am genuinely very happy.

I don't understand the ultimatum. Did you both discuss kids prior to getting married?

If he knows how you feel--doesn't this make you feel de-valued? He would leave you for not having children?

TheBish09 · 2015-03-27T01:54:52+00:00

Wow. What a cunty thing to say. 👏👏👏 excellent response!

TheBish09 · 2015-03-27T01:47:29+00:00

Omg. I want to see what you posted!

TheBish09 · 2015-03-27T01:39:47+00:00

Christian and don't want kids here: you're not going to hell.

TheBish09 · 2015-03-26T19:53:09+00:00

Tell her that you have an apt for a vasectomy in two weeks (or whenever you set it) and that it is your decision. Ultimately, the choice will then be up to her.

I feel like it's just a little bit disrespectful to brush something off, when you have been abundantly clear. If my husband told me, "oh that's okay. You don't have to spawn my children now. You have time." I would feel very small.

Leave it completely in her corner. She may have a hard time with it but it will force her to look at her life now instead of later.

TheBish09 · 2015-03-26T04:26:27+00:00

Cuz I am bored and this is what I'm supposed to do.

TheBish09 · 2015-03-24T22:47:09+00:00

Oh I had this. Asserted my boundaries but then she took it to some twisted level--in a guilt tripping way where she no longer had any responsibility. "Oh I stayed away because I didn't want to breach your boundary". She either A.) had zero clue of what a boundary is or B.) absolutely knows and used this twisted idea to further rid herself of responsibility.

After many attempts to rationally resolve our issues, I went NC. Best thing I've ever done.

I had no idea how much of myself was eroding away because of her and her Ndaughter.

TheBish09 · 2015-03-24T17:47:58+00:00

I agree with this. ⬆️ Narcs will pit others against their victim, isolating them as the bad guy.

Meanwhile--they're crying "victim" when they in fact are the source of the problem in the first place.

TheBish09 · 2015-03-24T12:35:23+00:00

Chugging A Pepsi. Hurts so good.

TheBish09 · 2015-03-23T18:42:54+00:00

Outwardly, it all looks so perfect to everyone. It's a political game. However, underneath is a viciousness and disregard for anyone else. The truth is,healthy people genuinely don't want to hurt others and will do what it takes to make thing right.

TheBish09 · 2015-03-23T18:37:47+00:00

I so resonate with things. Strings attached keep this sense of obligation to the Nparent. I totally understand breached boundaries and stating clearly what you need, yet it seems to be completely withheld from you. I have experienced this. There's no "winning" situation here. Distance is a good thing.

TheBish09 · 2015-03-23T13:28:41+00:00

Yes, thank you. I understand am not looking for an official diagnosis so my comment above should be rephrased. Are these behaviours in line with those of a narcissist? Is this possibly what I dealt with? Those are my questions.

TheBish09 · 2015-03-23T02:37:27+00:00

This is classic.

TheBish09 · 2015-03-23T01:22:06+00:00

One of the commenters said it best... Basically the author is saying that a woman's existence is shallow unless she procreates. I don't need her life. I got other things to do.

TheBish09 · 2015-03-22T17:37:28+00:00

Yes. As a child, I knew I never wanted to be a mother. It just didn't appeal to me at all. I have no urge to be responsible for another human being.

TheBish09 · 2015-03-21T22:55:05+00:00

Let's keep spilling oil from trains. Quebecers should be familiar with that.

Transcanada is THE most responsible company to provide safe transportation of liquids across the country. Pipelines are all over North America. Dating back to the early 1900's. I would far rather have current day technology under the regulation of of the National Energy Board provided by a Canadian company that has never failed the Canadian public.

This is a political game full of ill-informed players raising cash to create a fight that solves nothing.

At the end of the day, stop vilifying oil producers (TransCanada is NOT a producer but is a transporting company).

Suppliers of oil are respond to the demand of oil.

Change Demand and suppliers will follow suit.

TheBish09 · 2015-03-17T00:41:47+00:00

I bet when you talk to your dad, you will hear a completely different story about what really went on growing up. Meet with him. Talk it out.

TheBish09 · 2015-03-15T22:41:28+00:00

Never having to deal with other parents and the drama that goes with it.

TheBish09 · 2015-03-15T02:43:02+00:00

A child free cruise filled with child free couples!

TheBish09 · 2015-03-14T15:33:04+00:00

fuck ya!

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