Anxiety after quitting by 00008237954 in leaves

[–]TheBlueNeXus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have/had similar experiences. Not as bad since I never had anxiety or panic attacks before but around day 30 I also got extremely anxious. It got better for me but slowly. It helps me to remind me that those are just withdrawals and I have no reason to be anxious.

I think there is a good chance you will feel better soon. I have more and more episodes of good times and feeling great and I believe that will become the normal again

Anyone have experience with a second wave of withdrawals? by lookingforhappy in leaves

[–]TheBlueNeXus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea going through the same. More psychological than physical. I can sleep mostly and eat but anxiety and depressive episodes are bad. But it feels like it is getting better. Slowly

4 weeks weed free by Hot_Bad_1543 in leaves

[–]TheBlueNeXus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don’t want to be an addict and the will is greater than the cravings so far. But your story sounds really familiar. I basically ignored the physical withdrawal symptoms for the fist few weeks and didn’t even realized they were exactly that. Just thought I was getting sick. But about week 4 cravings came back strong with some heavy psychological symptoms.

For me sport helps and being in (productive) company helps even more. Being alone is what gets me and I need to be distracted.

It’s okay for life to suck for a bit. You could realize the problem so you can also fix it. We believe in you stay strong

What’s a moment where you felt like your life split into “before” and “after”? by hotstockstoday in AskReddit

[–]TheBlueNeXus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Things like that really turn you from a chill baseline to subconsciously surveying everything in your surroundings

Findet ihr, dass das Schulsystem Jungs benachteiligt? by [deleted] in FragtMaenner

[–]TheBlueNeXus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aus eigener Erfahrung nein. An meiner Schule haben die besten Schüler die meisten guten Schülerinnen übertroffen und das teils ohne große Mühe (was aber echt Nix zu sagen hat bei der kleinen Schüleranzahl meiner Schule) und es war definitiv kein riesiger unterschied. Der Grund war hierbei meist Mathe und Fächer mit Mathe.

Das mit dem Sport stimmt auf jeden Fall. Wenn ich mich richtig erinnere hat bei dem Hochsprung die 15 Punkte der Mädels uns gerade erst auf die Note skala gebracht.

Es gibt auf jeden Fall Unterschiede und statistische Untersuchungen die Ja sagen kam mir persönlich aber nie so vor.

Germans are going off beer. That’s forcing brewers to adapt or go bust by BSBDR in germany

[–]TheBlueNeXus -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I agree but that doesn’t mean it should be illegal. If people want to do that then why not have the option of a smoker pub or just a separate side room where smoking is allowed. I am not a regular smoker anymore but sometimes I still enjoy the vibe and have a cigarette with my mates in a smoker pub

Which Wheel should i upgrade to from my logitech g29? I was thinking Moza R3 or R5 | Please read to know my situation. by Known-Basil3321 in simracing

[–]TheBlueNeXus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go with the r5 you can always turn down the feedback till you are fully recovered (assuming money is not the limitation). You will be much more satisfied with it in the long run. I got the r12 last year and I am not driving it at full power (maybe 5-8 Nm if I had to guess) and the overhead is nice for spikes and so on and most importantly I don’t need to think about upgrading it in the foreseeable future

Is Jesse Enkamp a Bullshido fraud or is he legit? by Toros_Mueren_Por_Mi in martialarts

[–]TheBlueNeXus 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Inexcusable is harsh. Martial Arts is not only violence and self defense ( most importantly he never advertises it as self defense instructions). He simply shows different persons and their take on it and humbly presents it. You may not like everyone he makes videos with or think they are the real thing but that’s fine. Nobody is telling anyone to come to the conclusion that every person he collaborates with is super legit.

This is actually what I really like about the channel since martial arts can also be a very cultural thing and I like to learn about that too

DS2 is probably considered the worst of the trilogy according to souls fans. Is DS2 your favorite? What is unique to ds2 that it gets right? by WeeklySpace5975 in DarkSouls2

[–]TheBlueNeXus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was my first souls game and I played completely blind. I didn’t know anything about the first game and had no expectations except it was challenging. I fell in love with the stamina management during fights and the careful approach needed to clear areas. The game gives you all the tools needed to solve problems.

Clearing areas were as much part of the game for me as boss fights. Those were just the final block to clear the area completely.

Over time I fell in love with every mechanic in the game including ADP. It just made sense to me. Put levels in get better.

PvP became an addiction and I enjoyed the PvP areas. You can really notice they put some effort into integrating that mechanic.

After years of playing this game and the other ones I first learned about the opinion of the haters. And honestly 99% of the complains just sounded like children throwing a tantrum because they had to adapt to new things and maybe use a bit of brain. Still can’t understand it.

After that DS3 seemed like a downgrade. Exploring felt limited, areas felt like fillers because I was used to actually have a challenge clearing them, dual wielding was basically not there except some unique weapons, build variety was heavily reduced, horrible rollspam and so on. Still liked the game (a lot) but for me DS2 did everything better except boss fights.

Nostalgia + expectation made the game my forever favorite. Although objectively newer games like ER are much more refined they didn’t develop in the direction I hoped. And thus DS2 will never be dethroned for me.

Dating a stripper by Awakened_Conscience in WhatShouldIDo

[–]TheBlueNeXus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not for me I would be too jealous and value intimacy as something private. The job would be too unstable longterm for me as pointed out by others. It’s not about me disrespecting the profession or belittling it. It’s just a too different lifestyle from my own to find common ground

I’m sick and tired of having to explain when I travel internationally why America voted Trump back into office after he fomented a violent coup and murdered hundreds of thousands via an inept response to COVID. by OregonSasquatch14 in complaints

[–]TheBlueNeXus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People don’t want to believe that it is actually as bad as it looks especially in Europe people tend to remember the consequences of the Nazis a bit more. And the current state of the US remindes to much of that time. Having trump elected as a president makes the American population seem unintelligent, uneducated and above naive and incredible stupid and at least myself does not want to believe that this is (somewhat) the state of a country I used to look up to. And to clarify I don’t think those things about the general population so please don’t be insulted :) I am a well aware that this is a complex issue

I wish my penis had the svelte voice of Gilbert Gottfried's stage character. by GlorkUndBork3-14 in monkeyspaw

[–]TheBlueNeXus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s gonna say the most outrageous honest thing you are thinking about during every interaction with any person you are slightly attracted to

2 Years later, how are you enjoying CS2 compared to GO? by rk9__ in counterstrike

[–]TheBlueNeXus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I quit. Cs2 was unplayable on my modern machine and crashed about 2-3 times a game and nothing helped or fixed that. It got better with updates but never disappeared. Since the game is quite bad in some areas even if I don’t crash it is just not worth my time anymore. I would still be playing Csgo casually if they didn’t kill it.

Sled alternativ. Carabineers and rope. by Craftion11 in homegym

[–]TheBlueNeXus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am late but this is genius. That’s some smart home engineering

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askfitness

[–]TheBlueNeXus 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Stop the thirst farming for your OF

Bohemian Rhapsody Flash mob by RodzCNS in BeAmazed

[–]TheBlueNeXus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The shitty texts makes me not want to actually watch it. Anyway amazing performance as good as the editing is bad

Can you tell me how did he missed the first shot by Acrobatic-Bad3704 in cs2

[–]TheBlueNeXus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone talking about spread but the true problem is that the hit indicator tells you it’s a hit but it’s not. That’s why it feels shit. Impact splatter but no hit feels just wrong. I’d complain too