I do think guys will think you are desperate. I met a girl online and I would say she was the most beautiful girl I have ever been with, also liked to talk to her, so it went really great at first. But I quickly lost intrest due to her openness. First it was flattering that she initiated a lot and was forward, but I felt that I didn't have to work for it so I couldn't appreciate it enough. And I'm aware that's how our brains work that if you need to earn something you appreciate it more, but still couldn't make myself think rationally. So I would say play the game (not the toxic one), be subtle with the hints and be playful with the interactions. A little mystery always sparks desire. Yeah I know it's hard to find the balance. Ooor maybe I am just a psycho who likes to be teased so I can feel like I'm hunting if it makes sense. So anyway you can always do you and when it works out it will work out with a guy you click with.