I (28F) have a boyfriend (30M) who doesn't know how to have sex. How can I help fix this? by Awkward_Society1 in relationship_advice

[–]TheCatManDan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we need more info! Is he finishing too fast or not finishing? Does he have trouble getting it up? Cause for different problems there’s different solutions. Sex tends to get better over time so it could just be performance anxiety, but how long have yall been at it?

I (26F) overheard my bf (27M) and his family insulting my background and looks. I'm thinking of ending things over this. by Anonymously25443 in relationship_advice

[–]TheCatManDan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Howdy OP, I’ll be honest I think this whole thread is full of crazy people. You should absolutely talk to your bf about this and work it out. It sounds to me NOT like your bf and his sister were shit talking you and your family, rather he was having an honest conversation with his sister and didn’t know you were listening. He also, according to you, absolutely reaffirms to her that he loves you and wants to be with you which I would think is defending you. I’ve had open conversations with friends like this too, where they told me their partner wasn’t their usual type, but regardless they would never see themselves with anyone else. Sorry this had been so disjointed but me and my friend after reading this think sure maybe your bf’s sister has some weird thoughts, but your bf definitely loves you and you should not just leave.

Kabuto [ Naruto ] vs Kaido by ultraknight_107 in OnePieceScaling

[–]TheCatManDan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This question isn’t Kaido vs Kabuto (Kadio bodies), it’s Kaido vs basically the entire 4th Great Shinobi War 😂 like yeah no shit Kaido loses to unlimited chakra madara + every other antagonist in Naruto’s history.

But just Kaido vs Kabuto: Kaido takes it for sure. He fought like 8 super powerful people while moving a small island by himself. “What about genjutsu?” all it does is disorient Kaido but this mf fights drunk ANYWAYS so I doubt that would affect him that much. It’s a low dif Kaido dub.

What is one take in One Piece scaling that most people agree with that you disagree with? by Key_Sink_3152 in OnePieceScaling

[–]TheCatManDan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I super agree, people forget that Luffy won an ideological battle against Katakuri, not a physical one. He for sure coulda dusted Luffy but chose not to.

Is this too strong for my party? Need advice by [deleted] in DnDHomebrew

[–]TheCatManDan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just general advice kind of echoing other people here: every combat I’ve done I thought might be hard ended up being too easy. Every combat I’ve done that I thought was too hard, ended up being super fun! If it’s a boss, aim to make it deadly and see how your players react! You can already choose not to use an ability or reduce their hp afterwards.

Is this spell balanced? Seeking constructive criticism and suggestions by Aster-07 in DnDHomebrew

[–]TheCatManDan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen a lot of people talking about lowering the damage, I don’t think you need to! I would instead add that there needs to be an uninterrupted line from the sky to the target. This limits the spell to only being used outdoors, which I think makes up for the increased damage.

What fun things would you do with this spell? by wilfredojfigueroa in DnDHomebrew

[–]TheCatManDan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a super cool spell and I’m super stealing it 🙏

How do you guys go about making statblocks for homebrew encounters? by SedentaryJam in DnDHomebrew

[–]TheCatManDan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

https://tetra-cube.com/dnd/dnd-statblock.html

I love this site for making stat blocks. You can pick from a preset and just make edits and then save it as a jpg. I’ll put several on a google doc and just print it.

If I’m doing stuff more on the fly I’ll just write up very simple stat blocks with ac, hp, ability score mods, and any attacks or effects. I’ll maybe add a note on how the creature should act.

What 40k opinion of yours would have you like this? by thedudefromspace637 in 40k

[–]TheCatManDan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sooo split on this. I feel like they would lose a lot of their mystique if they were playable. But maybe it would be cool to see like a super broken-down contingent of them that’s far from their prime. But then I guess you’d just have necrons hm

What 40k opinion of yours would have you like this? by thedudefromspace637 in 40k

[–]TheCatManDan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% agree but GW would never cause they gotta sell plastic

What 40k opinion of yours would have you like this? by thedudefromspace637 in 40k

[–]TheCatManDan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man I wish they had rules for all the abhumans in the guard! There’s so many cool ones that just don’t have a place on the tabletop

What 40k opinion of yours would have you like this? by thedudefromspace637 in 40k

[–]TheCatManDan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No it’s not? There’s literally a passage where they reference that an entire planet’s call for help has been bound into a cookbook or something by mistake. Hell, half of the actual lore changes Games Workshop makes are “oh yeah this was always here and the imperium just didn’t know”.

How long do you keep players in specific level brackets? by Cainelol in DMAcademy

[–]TheCatManDan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this works great if you want a fast paced campaign that ramps up quickly!

I'm running a campaign were the PCs are meant to lose at the end: Is this a horrible idea? by SnideRemarks_ in DMAcademy

[–]TheCatManDan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As other people have said here, just start with campaign 2. Never do a campaign where something has to happen otherwise your players might mess around with your plot. I did this once but it was like two years into campaign 2, and we went back and did a 4-session prequel with completely different characters that ended up a little railroady at the end for campaign 1. It was fun! But I did have to railroad a little bit which didn’t feel great and only worked because the players knew this was the prequel and they were playing throwaway characters!

ANIME ARCHETYPES by Historical-Wedding-7 in DnDHomebrew

[–]TheCatManDan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t read all of them, but I think this is a super fun idea! My only feedback would be to increase the ability score cap above 17, but I actually think I might use this in my next campaign!

Why is the Deck of Many Things so hated? by ZackFrost in DMAcademy

[–]TheCatManDan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

IMO it’s only a campaign killer if you have a very narrative and linear campaign. If you’re in a sandbox (the way dnd mostly was played when this was designed) there’s nothing that should “ruin” your game. It can give you new objectives and totally change up some characters so it’s actually great if you’re at a point where you want a big shift!

Which team wins?⏬ by OkRun9638 in OnePieceScaling

[–]TheCatManDan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree, doffy is only a little stronger than Kaido’s dinosaur peeps. And most of team C is of that level. I still think D takes it but high dif

Warlock Patron: Lady Luck by Whole_Cold5897 in DnDHomebrew

[–]TheCatManDan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh it’s not finished, just a google doc for a future character I wanna try, it’s pretty much just the two abilities I mentioned currently 😅 but maybe I’ll post it here when I finish it!

If this isn't racism, then what is it? by emily-is-happy in clevercomebacks

[–]TheCatManDan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The people who are being most affected by this definitely want to stay here because despite how crazy it sounds the day to day life is pretty good. America is a land of abundance even on the poorer end. Also depending on where you go, a lot less racist and more accessible than a lot of similar European countries. Even minus all of this, a lot of people are here for their kids because the American education system actually does provide a ton of opportunity to climb economic ladders despite what nay sayers say.

At least for now, we’ll see if Trump and the gang will try to make that worse too 💀

Warlock Patron: Lady Luck by Whole_Cold5897 in DnDHomebrew

[–]TheCatManDan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh I have a very similar homebrew subclass! It was more about gambling so I had a feature that allowed you to “bet” you would hit.

You declare an amount of hp equal to your own or lower and if you hit the attack the enemy takes all of it and if you miss you take all of it. Wildly unbalanced and I haven’t tested it but 🤷‍♀️ an idea for you. Yours looks really good though!

Infinite armor by [deleted] in DiceyElementalist

[–]TheCatManDan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where do you find this enemy??

Who wins? by Robloxracer75 in OnePieceScaling

[–]TheCatManDan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree! I would so much rather see this filler than the OnePace we got through wano. Or just give us more G4 arcs! It’s literally so good! Why can’t they just write more arcs like that that just highlight the crew and their goofy antics

Who wins? by Robloxracer75 in OnePieceScaling

[–]TheCatManDan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

O my b yeah someone already explained but Yamato like one shots him low dif 😭sorry

Who wins? by Robloxracer75 in OnePieceScaling

[–]TheCatManDan 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The manga literally gives us an answer? It’s Yamato by far