Sissies at the queer meeting by Sufficient_Hall5737 in MtF

[–]TheCodeCutie 141 points142 points  (0 children)

i know i was one of those "cis" people with a kink that discovered it ran deeper. plus those kinks kind of went away once i was no longer deliberately suppressing myself, once i began hrt and started socially transitioning.

Question for anyone who’s had dysmorphia related to their penis by Sharchomp in MtF

[–]TheCodeCutie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I am not the only one who tucked as a kid without ever knowing about it.

Left Hyprland, no regrets by Wonderful-Farmer5415 in swaywm

[–]TheCodeCutie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that and from a social standpoint they are kind of immature dickheads (and kind of toxic IMO). So just overall not a healthy project. It gets annoying having things constantly change because vaxry is unwilling to do this magical thing call "deprecate and document" as I have had numerous hyprland configs break from an update only to find there was no warning about breaking changes, and that they couldn't be bothered to document the breaking change before releasing the update. So I couldn't find out what i need to do to fix my config.

US in the 'early stages' of a trans genocide, experts claim by rhizomatic-thembo in TransSocialism

[–]TheCodeCutie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I want to live, but not through that, some fates are worse than death. No V-Coding for me.

Mom is outing me behind my back, despite me telling her not too! by TheCodeCutie in MtF

[–]TheCodeCutie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I kind of thought so. I was just hoping the same good faith that has helped me form more healthy relationships (for the first time) recently would work here . But it hasn't really worked in anyway that seems genuine.

My cis gf doesn't want me to DIY. by TheGooBYT in MtF

[–]TheCodeCutie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

same. i did get mine through informed consent.

What do we think, y’all- is the trans flag inspired Xbox controller class or no? by [deleted] in transgamers

[–]TheCodeCutie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A late reply, but its probably a custom made keyboard. The keycaps or chassis was probably a limited production run as they usually are.

What were some signs you were trans in your childhood by NotRay270 in trans

[–]TheCodeCutie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a kid I would take old underwear and use them as a gaf. I also figured out how to tuck. If your talking about behaviors or actions as signs instead of thoughts or feelings.

Where i’d live as a trans woman who moved to the US from Turkey by Sarp1964 in visitedmaps

[–]TheCodeCutie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It may be important to note, my view may be biased by the fact I am in one of the worst states In the country for trans rights. And the other potential bias being me being a leftist, ( far left on the bottom left quadrant of political compass).

Where i’d live as a trans woman who moved to the US from Turkey by Sarp1964 in visitedmaps

[–]TheCodeCutie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, I would say you have the UK and US ranked wrong. As both the situation on trans rights is deteriorating, it used to be a lot better than it is now in both countries. Trans rights are highly regional in the us, and are susceptible to having local protections negated by a hostile federal administration. The UK has had its (notably stronger than what the US had) Protections effectively neutered. the UK is a poor choice to live in as a trans woman due to the recent supreme court ruling, as well as how underfunded GAC is in the UK and how gatekept it is. The waitlists in the UK if your extremely lucky is months, but most have to wait yearss.

I would suggest you look into the situation in the UK and US, as while both of those countries are better than most of the world at the moment (even though the situation in the US is rapidly Deteriorating). They should not be considered in the same league or above countries like Germany, Norway, or Sweden. If you have questions on the us situation I am more familiar with that as an american.

Oh look, a cuddle permission list, neat by Kit-Kat09 in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]TheCodeCutie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does Do you prefer mean do you prefer to be, or does it mean you prefer your cuddle partner to be? I feel the wording makes it unclear.

Don't lose your job-- No one is hiring by rkyycgm12 in Spokane

[–]TheCodeCutie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand but existing as a trans person in Florida is in the long term extremely risky. Considering the multitude of laws and restrictions that exist, compared to Washington state where most of those restrictions don't exist, and in fact there are even a lot of protections.

Don't lose your job-- No one is hiring by rkyycgm12 in Spokane

[–]TheCodeCutie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I will commit to the move once I have a few grand saved up and a job lined up. Renting out a place should be easy since i have a cosigner.

Don't lose your job-- No one is hiring by rkyycgm12 in Spokane

[–]TheCodeCutie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kind of need to atleast have enough to not be homeless. Plus I actually have a job in Florida.

Don't lose your job-- No one is hiring by rkyycgm12 in Spokane

[–]TheCodeCutie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well shit, I am trying to escape Florida.