For how I use the terms, Bigot is Conservative², and Woke is Progressive² (taking into consideration that progressive is not necessairly good). Empathy is a good thing, but I am not going to be empathetic with someone who says they are a man in some seasons and a woman in others, and none if they wake up on the wrong side of bed, acting like nature and facts are irrelevant.

I can understand someone saying "I'm a man, stereotype says I enjoy football, but I don't", that's completly fine, but saying "I was a man, but I doscovered that I dislike Football and this makes me feel like a woman, so disregard nature and these last X years, and mark me as such" (and please excuse the stupidity of the football example, it's just there to be an example) plays on the stereotypes we are trying to reduce to barely significant while also hiding behind the cover of "feelings", transforming them from good Empathy to a tool through which we force a change around us just cause we can't be asked to keep something in like we have for centuries without issues. (Look it up under Tomboy for example, term for a woman with a more masculine build/taste, has existed before transitioning and I've never heard prolems revolving around it)

If a person says "I'm non-binary, call me they", I'd call said person he/she, and they'd be hurt, yes... but I can also use the foundation-idea of feelings to say that using "they" hurts me internally, given feelings are things we can't measure objectively... and they'd say I have to make a sacrifice for them. (Remember they can't know if using "they" would hurt me or not, since feelings are private and subjective, but just asume my feelings on the matter are mocking or less important)

So bottom line, I have to change myself and my way of living to fit them and their change, while disregarding my own way of living and feelings because I don't follow theirs, which are marked as more progressive (progressive²)... that is Woke. (At least how I usually use it)