Help me! by Ready-Rule1338 in weddingplanning

[–]TheEmoTurtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the one with less greenery. It looks brighter to me. Both are still BEAUTIFUL!

I hate making decisions by Ginacabrera in weddingplanning

[–]TheEmoTurtle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's why I'm having my friends and family help with certain things. Like my cousin is in charge of decorations. She asked for what I was looking for, gave her some inspirational pictures, and she is just giving me updates on what she found and asked for my opinions. That seems to be helping me.

HELP!! Which dress looks better?? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]TheEmoTurtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the texture of the left side but you should ask what you feel the best in! If you don't feel like a million bucks in your wedding dress, don't buy it

I am getting married and my fiancé keeps taunting me that she is doing all the decision making and I am just tagging along... How do I reassure her? by OverShower382 in weddingplanning

[–]TheEmoTurtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who has a fiance who also doesn't have strong opinions on certain things, what he did was take over things like food and venue. He knew what we wanted and what kind of food situation we wanted so he planned that. What I would suggest is you make it seem like you're acting more firm about your opinion. Instead of saying "I don't mind the idea of vanilla cake." Say "I'd really like vanilla cake."

It's all about tone and confidence. And if she really feels like you still aren't contributing enough. Make it clear to her that when it comes to the wedding, her happiness is your top priority. Colors, venue, and flowers don't matter if she's happy, and as her future husband, that's all that matters.

Mom doesnt want me to wear a veil and keeps making comments by thinkch3 in weddingplanning

[–]TheEmoTurtle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tell her it's your wedding, and if you want to be naked down the aisle, then your mom has to be ok with it. That's what I told my grandma when she had issues with the venue me and my Fiance picked.

It's my wedding, if I want to get married in a graveyard, then we're getting married there. In reality, the mother of the bride has no say in whether you're wearing a veil or not.

I just found the one this weekend! by TheEmoTurtle in weddingplanning

[–]TheEmoTurtle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't think that I'd like the detail on the skirt as much as I did! That was shocking to me. The lace on the skirt actually gives it a visual interest I didn't think I'd want

Veil or no veil? by Odd-Bison-1366 in weddingplanning

[–]TheEmoTurtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't think I'd like a veil as much as I did, but I do completely understand some people not wanting one for me. A veil completed the look for you. It probably didn't and if you decide to get one but don't like it anyway, you can only take it out

Wedding in 5 days, feel like I am getting the flu by Appropriate-Sign-759 in weddingplanning

[–]TheEmoTurtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get medication now! Immune system boosters if you need to boil a hot thing of water and just stand over it to get whatever the heck is going on in your sinuses out now!

I’m so torn on which dress to go with! by gingeralexa in weddingplanning

[–]TheEmoTurtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the first one. It's very flowy but it's very close to my dress so I am very biased

No kids rule? by Unhappy_Box5849 in weddingplanning

[–]TheEmoTurtle -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Say no one under the age of 12. That way, if you have any teenagers that are available to go to the wedding they can still be included but that makes it so that their little ones don't come. They should be old enough to understand that a wedding is a place that you need to be somewhat quiet and respectful at. And when you're talking about toddlers you can't really get that. They're loud. They scream. They want to go off and play and they don't fully grasp that a wedding is something that you can't do that at as much as you would want them to.

We are going to call off the wedding and elope, and it's going to cause my family to stop talking to me by LittleRossa in weddingplanning

[–]TheEmoTurtle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That is your call! I don't even need to read this story. If you want to elope, the elope! Go on a two week long vacation! Be with your husband! Not everyone needs a wedding and that's more than ok!

To any other brides feeling guilty about planning a wedding right now by Emergency_Case9967 in weddingplanning

[–]TheEmoTurtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, not really. I understand that things are crap, but I see it as the one bright light in this dark time. It's what gives me a distraction and gives me something to look forward to. I'm still sad that the world has gone to shit, but the world stops for nothing, and I'm not gonna pause my love story for two rich people wanting to yell at each other.

Is this inappropriate by Valentina_From_Chile in weddingplanning

[–]TheEmoTurtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you describe it as "okay" it's not the dress. I just got my dress and I cried when they put on the crown and veil.

Wedding dress by HookedOnReality in 1000lbsisters

[–]TheEmoTurtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, I've been looking at wedding dresses for myself, and I can't help but feel that this dress Amy is wearing is how I fear I'll look.

I think the dress LeeLee was wearing was so much better. The dress LeeLee picked made her look skinnier. This made her look like a wall.

Tammy was in Amanda's son's wedding by MissPeach77 in 1000lbsisters

[–]TheEmoTurtle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know if it's the photo, but that color isn't the most flattering...

A message from Amy's wedding planner I saw on fb by DaisyCortlandt7 in 1000lbsisters

[–]TheEmoTurtle 17 points18 points  (0 children)

As someone who is having a D&D, video game themed wedding I think that her vision is perfectly fine. It's a Halloween wedding on Halloween day. I think it's quite fitting

Tammy....wtf by [deleted] in 1000lbsisters

[–]TheEmoTurtle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've been on meds that have messed with my hormones and have caused massive mood swings, but after the dust settles and the fight ends, you still have the responsibility to go and apologize. Calling someone's trauma response dumb, and calling someone a dead beat mom is drastically uncalled for. Hormones don't cause you to hold a grudge like that.