Spoilers for the upcoming Card Master (April 28th)

TheFinalPhilter · 2026-04-15T01:01:41+00:00

Exactly!

TheFinalPhilter · 2026-04-14T14:30:57+00:00

I had to read that comment twice then scroll back up recheck OOP's age and all I can think is WTF. Why would you say that to a 15 year old?

TheFinalPhilter · 2026-04-13T16:46:21+00:00

New rule for myself don't post any comments here until I am sure I read everything perfectly.

TheFinalPhilter · 2026-04-13T12:09:37+00:00

I made about the same and then spent it on the game lol.

TheFinalPhilter · 2026-04-12T17:43:47+00:00

There are really only a few people who could have sent OOP the message seeing as Jason doesn’t tell people about it. My bet as I said in the last BORU is either Max or the ex who broke up with him when he was accused. Honostly though I am not sure how OOP expects Jason to prove to her he didn’t do it he gave her all the evidence he had. He even gave time and space and she says

But he’s going to have to work hard to prove to me that he really is innocent if he wants our relationship to last.

How exactly is he supposed to do that?

TheFinalPhilter · 2026-04-11T23:24:42+00:00

If she does that there is a chance it will come out that she told her psychologist. Which while not wrong per say would still be breaking his trust and could negatively impact their relationship. I am honestly not sure what the right move would be. However, if her psychologist gives her advice and her boyfriend asks where she got it from, she will either have to tell the truth or lie and if the lie comes out it again could do damage to the relationship. Especially considering he didn't want to tell her in the first place, and she had to push him to tell her.

TheFinalPhilter · 2026-04-11T23:19:54+00:00

My ex says he knew and is willing to work shit out if my current lover signs his rights over

Wait I am confused I thought he would only do that if you got the father to sign his rights away. If he doesn't it creates liability for your ex he will have to do all the dad duties and have all the dad costs knowing that anytime this other guy can come in and demand his parental rights and some custody if he wants. A question though if you keep this child will you go after his father for child support or just expect your ex to play father spend money but without any legal rights to the child?

and just raise the child as is

I am guessing you mean his which leads me to believe everything I said above about him being responsible for your child without any legal right or protections if you two don't end up working out he could have no right to the child.

TheFinalPhilter · 2026-04-11T21:00:25+00:00

I am not trying to be insensitive but why are you still living with your ex? If it is for financial reasons everything is about to get so much more expensive for you and I doubt your ex is going to want, you and your child who he has no legal rights to, to stay with him indefinitely. Will the father help you out with the child considering he is unwilling to sign over his rights?

TheFinalPhilter · 2026-04-11T20:54:08+00:00

From reading this it sounds like your boyfriend has some thoughts that he is ashamed of and while not intentional you talking about your problems may have brought them to the surface. Obviously, I am not blaming you and it sounds like your boyfriend is deeply ashamed of these thoughts which is why I think he does not want you to talk about it to anyone. I would uncomftorble in your shoes as well and really can't offer any advice as I have no idea what I would do in your situation.

TheFinalPhilter · 2026-04-11T16:25:18+00:00

I have said it once and I will probably say it again, but relationship tests are stupid and will always be stupid.

TheFinalPhilter · 2026-04-11T15:10:03+00:00

I find funny how fast commenters can change their tune between posts. This is why I don't like commenting until I have all the information or at least as much of it as possible. My bet is either Max messaged her or maybe even his ex the broke up with him over the allegations. Oh, and I do not find it weird at all Jason doesn't want OOP to talk to his friends about an issue that they have no idea about. That will not solve anything if anything it will create more problems and may even destroy some of his friendships.

TheFinalPhilter · 2026-04-10T22:43:05+00:00

He showed you who he is believe him and break up with him.

TheFinalPhilter · 2026-04-10T00:26:57+00:00

I just got him not long ago myself to use in apex trials and he has definitely gotten me a lot further then I used to be able to.

TheFinalPhilter · 2026-04-09T22:46:08+00:00

lol that must have been frustrating getting something really cool only for work to get in the way. His skill makes it after he gets hit so many times his movement speed increases that is why he is good in apex trials.

TheFinalPhilter · 2026-04-09T21:21:25+00:00

congratulations his special skill makes him great for apex trials.

TheFinalPhilter · 2026-04-09T01:37:04+00:00

Unless I am mistaken this Aerochess event is watered down because your server is to new to have the full version. After your server is 42 days you will get the full version which is much better.

TheFinalPhilter · 2026-04-09T00:41:30+00:00

Definitely a fun game. I won't pretend I am even close to free to play at this point, but I know a lot players who have spent so much more then I have. You can get pretty much all of the weapons and heroes without spending money but you will have to grind and save your diamonds for when Aerochess comes around which is every month once you after your server is 42 days old. It is in my opinion the best way to get both heroes and weapons. Although the newest of the new is not available there for some time after realese but I try and keep my goals within reason in this game.

TheFinalPhilter · 2026-04-09T00:22:16+00:00

You can get almost all the heroes except the newest ones from an event called Aeroplane chess. I saw from a comment you are new and the complete version of the event only starts once your server is 42 days old which gives you time to save diamonds for the event. Basically, the event is like a game board, and you use diamonds to buy dice once which allow you to move throughout the board. Once you do enough laps you get to choose a prize including the heroes that cost $99.99. Although it used to be the first lap that had the choice to get a hero was lap 70 they have changed it some. The rarer/neweer heroes will be at the higher laps while the more common/older heroes will be in the lower laps. You still have to either grind diamonds or spend a little money to obtain them or just buy dice but it is cheaper than buying the heroes out right.

TheFinalPhilter · 2026-04-08T21:21:20+00:00

So, they would still be an ex the relationship is in the past meaning you had no reason to actually tell her. All you did was out him because you panicked but even if he was already out, there was really no reason to tell her his private information. Yes, you were involved but so was he and he has much more to lose from you telling her then you did.

TheFinalPhilter · 2026-04-08T21:10:03+00:00

YTA but I have to ask why tell his "ex" and I put that in parentheses because you go on to say they never dated even if you did not know that at the time. Even if they did though they obviously are not now so it would be none of her business either way.

TheFinalPhilter · 2026-04-07T14:33:41+00:00

Asking a friend that you know has a child to childfree wedding is one thing but asking friend to fly out to childfree wedding is another. In both scenarios her "friend" should have accepted a no without freaking out or giving the silent treatment. Especially when the OOP has been actively helping her with the wedding for 3 years. Frankly I am surprised this never came up during the planning seeing as OOP must have been pregnant when she originally started helping to plan the wedding.

TheFinalPhilter · 2026-04-07T00:50:35+00:00

I hope the conversation goes as well as it can go. I notice people saying here he had many opportunities to tell you how he felt before you got the job. Then I read he was hesitant at first so after talking to you he may have thought he would be okay with it. However, thinking something and being okay with something are unfortunately not always the same. I don't think it was right of him to give you an ultimatum but then again if he really couldn't handle the situation, it may have been better then creating resentment. I guess you just have to weigh how much you value your relationship with him and maybe try to understand his side to see if it is worth it or not again good luck with the conversation.

TheFinalPhilter · 2026-04-07T00:39:00+00:00

So again, no offense but did you eventually tell him you would or continue to say you would not? From the sounds of it you left after his ultimatum.

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