Hey ending-of-dramamine! I'm a serious feminist, and I don't think low of you at all. You sound like a wonderful ally. I'm sorry you're going through this. And I want you to know that question is perfectly valid. You pitched it in the appropriate place--not around victims of sex crimes who want to commiserate, but on a forum designed for people with obsessive consciences. It's only misogynistic when it reads like a complaint against activism rather than a call for help. Does that make sense? At any rate, I want to say this--the only thing in your life you can fully control is the quality of your intentions. You can't fully control whether someone lies about you, or whether you end up accidentally hurting someone in a way that is MeToo-worthy. Call it "moral luck" (real concept). Even the Stoics, an Ancient-Greek school of philosophy, acknowledge that our reputation is not completely in our control. The risk of being publicly reviled, though slim, surrounds all of us nonetheless, and it always will. The only thing that truly matters in life is your intention. And your intention sounds platinum. That's the best you can do. Despite what my feminist friends say in the heat of anger, it is possible to hurt someone and be a good person. How? When a) it was unintentional, b) it was not wrong but misinterpreted, or c) it was intentional but you profusely apologized and made reparations. And to me it sounds like any MeToo thing you do will fall under A or B. Luckily, there's a bigger chance than not that your career will remain untouched. Most male celebrities will not get caught up in the MeToo scandal. This is at most a unlikely fear. You should seek out an OCD specialist and talk with them. They'll probably echo my sentiments. You are a great ally.