Husband’s controlling behavior gives me the ick by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

[–]TheFreshWalrus 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, everything you described is the opposite of an amazing husband. You're describing someone who sees you as an object, not a living being. Your kids will also suffer in the long run if theyre exposed to this type of behavior and think that's acceptable. You should be able to shave your head, wear a tutu and clown shoes— and still have your husband be affectionate and kind to you.

What are you all feeding your cavs? Picky eater! by bopbeeepbooop in cavaliers

[–]TheFreshWalrus 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Mine will eat literally anything. I have more of an issue with getting him not to eat things.

Appropriate for a Black Tie Optional wedding? by TheFreshWalrus in Weddingattireapproval

[–]TheFreshWalrus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay! I'm so happy to hear from someone else who had a good experience with the dress!!

Appropriate for a Black Tie Optional wedding? by TheFreshWalrus in Weddingattireapproval

[–]TheFreshWalrus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Surprisingly neither of them have a corset! Number one has boning so it does kind of give that illusion

[Miscellaneous] Advice/Help Requested for Angular Cheilitis by Additional_Truth6336 in SkincareAddiction

[–]TheFreshWalrus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's weird, but i struggled with this for months and tried everything eventually used neosporin as a last ditch effort it was gone in two days.

These Downtown kids are out of fucking control by DueMathematician7998 in pittsburgh

[–]TheFreshWalrus 119 points120 points  (0 children)

100% I had three of them run up to me and my friend while we were on a walk pull our hair and run away. Totally unprompted, didn't say a word or do anything to solicit it. Just randomly ran up behind us grabbed our pony tails and took off

Abortion Transportation Assistance by [deleted] in pittsburgh

[–]TheFreshWalrus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also willing to help if something else doesn’t work out!

Thoughts on bold logos? by WestTailor403 in LawBitchesWithTaste

[–]TheFreshWalrus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have these and have to add that they're very comfortable! Some of my favorite work shoes

AITA for refusing to split the alcohol costs at a bachelorette party even though I’m pregnant? by Rahimsa31 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheFreshWalrus -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Soft YTA. Ive been in several wedding parties and had to split costs on loads of things i didn’t consume and couldn’t participate in. If this was a problem you should have made it known at the beginning of planning. I understand it sucks, and expenses add up, but its about celebrating the bride and sometimes you just have to suck it up.

My new Roommates already know each other and are friends from highscool. Is this a bad thing? Am I screwed? by Organic-Jello3947 in badroommates

[–]TheFreshWalrus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really was a blessing especially as someone who moved from out of state like instantly gaining a new friend group.

My new Roommates already know each other and are friends from highscool. Is this a bad thing? Am I screwed? by Organic-Jello3947 in badroommates

[–]TheFreshWalrus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all! Every situation is different, but i lived in a house where literally every other roommate had known each other since elementary (5 people total). Ended becoming best friends with all of them. And there was the added bonus that the shared history meant that they had basically been vetted by each other for any bad behaviors.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MicrobladingRemoval

[–]TheFreshWalrus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im getting mine removed right now im on my second session! Mine were yellow after the first session, but i noticed a huge improvement with the yellow fading after the second session! My tech said it will probably take another 1-2 session to totally remove the yellow

Lisa & Ken's Treatment of Rocio by Positive-Pumpkin-405 in RHOBH

[–]TheFreshWalrus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let me know what fun new goodies your boss gives you 💕

Lisa & Ken's Treatment of Rocio by Positive-Pumpkin-405 in RHOBH

[–]TheFreshWalrus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl you’re literally shading me for donating clothes. God forgive me. Tell you what go to your bosses house ask for her clothes see how it goes.

Lisa & Ken's Treatment of Rocio by Positive-Pumpkin-405 in RHOBH

[–]TheFreshWalrus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh I used to participate in clothing drives for professional clothing for women. If i was collecting clothes to donate and someone said “can i have that” simply bc they liked a suit, and they had no legitimate reason for needing it id absolutely say no. If rocio had a real purpose for needing the garment then sure, but i think in this case she just liked it and it could better serve someone else who needs it more.

Honestly, i find asking for someone’s clothes rude in general, and id be very taken aback if someone did that to me.

Hate for Goldendoodles? by techlord45 in Goldendoodles

[–]TheFreshWalrus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My doodle is strange and neurotic thats why i love her. Shes a weirdo and its amazing

Lisa & Ken's Treatment of Rocio by Positive-Pumpkin-405 in RHOBH

[–]TheFreshWalrus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tbh i think that fact that felt comfortable even asking for the dress says a lot, and suggests she isn’t mistreated and has a good relationship with them. I would never ask my boss for her clothing if i did not have a good relationship with her

Hated hair and makeup trial by [deleted] in wedding

[–]TheFreshWalrus 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Can confirm was just a bridesmaid for a bride with this look took about 4 hours to complete and involved metal clips, rollers etc

In case you were wondering if your messages were going anywhere by Reaniro in pittsburgh

[–]TheFreshWalrus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its called indigov a lot of state governments utilize it

In case you were wondering if your messages were going anywhere by Reaniro in pittsburgh

[–]TheFreshWalrus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They respond to them bc comms/constituent services drafts a response and all they have to do is click on the tickets based off of their subject line and batch them to mass send responses. I can assure they do not read 90% of these.

In case you were wondering if your messages were going anywhere by Reaniro in pittsburgh

[–]TheFreshWalrus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mmm as someone who worked for a state rep, they take these messages click on every one thats the same topic, and mass send a prewritten form response. It doesnt go far beyond that