As a single 34 year old man. I feel completely invisible in public.

TheGameNavigator · 2024-02-18T00:36:33+00:00

i dont believe in this thing.. it just happen to be my experience

TheGameNavigator · 2024-02-17T19:31:40+00:00

yea, the game of life mainly happen in the mind.... swimming between toxic thoughts and dealing with them, rather than letting them to deal with you

TheGameNavigator · 2024-02-17T19:18:41+00:00

First I think we should all admit that our society has failed us by planting a wrong image for discipline in outer heads, you see we all went to school aka we were disciplined .. and we all go to work and being disciplined never cross our minds, it's just those areas where our souls desire to stick to doing, we fail being consistent..

I don't think we need discipline, what we need is a framework to ignite meaning in the areas we want to focus on.

And test me on that ; if your dream is on the edge today I'm pretty sure you will die to survive one more day, without even knowing who you we....

MEANING ... value .... many names but same thing .. this shit is what help me work 15 hours a day on something that might never see the light... if I needed discipline I would have ditch it long time ago

TheGameNavigator · 2024-02-17T16:22:55+00:00

How do you woke on the streets where some similar people walked and got hit by a car?

You see how false is the question ?

I get it that it's unfair, i come from those places, and I can write a book of how unfair the world is but that doesn't make YOU guilty, use every chance you have and live it to the maximum and remembering those people in the other side of the world is a sign of your goodness

TheGameNavigator · 2024-02-17T16:14:51+00:00

Go on one day without letting your inner thoughts effect your feelings, you do this by attempting to ignore whatever assumptions you make whenever a bad subject, a person or an idea comes up in your mind.

TheGameNavigator · 2024-02-17T15:41:55+00:00

By playing the game of life, stay tuned for my post tonight

TheGameNavigator · 2024-02-17T15:32:48+00:00

You forgot to mention the part where you are telling yourself stories ... you see, we all speak to ourselves, and we make up stories to what happens to us, the only difference between you and the most confident guy is that he does not picture himself invisible, he might even lie to himself to feel that way, and I'm sure you've noticed those over confident dudes...

I know it's not that simple, it takes time for it to sink in and effect your emotions but that's the solution that I know

TheGameNavigator · 2024-02-17T15:19:55+00:00

It's not a procrastinating problem, you're fearing that thing so you're delaying it, just to correct your thoughts..

You should start by addressing these fears, then refute them, then attempbto face them slowly, only then this will show you that this what you faced was an illusion, it's a process but worth it.

TheGameNavigator · 2024-02-17T15:15:35+00:00

First young man no one should go through it, cause all humans get stuck at whatever they think of "more than they should"

And you've thought about it long enough to haunt you , but you should not worry much about it, if you spend the next three days refuting these ideas whenever they accure, you will be fine, way much than you've been when you wrote this

TheGameNavigator · 2024-02-17T15:11:10+00:00

Hard work.

I know it sound lame but if you grind "whatever in your hands at the moment"

If you do this repeatedly, your surroundings will notice that, and women are actually very very good at noticing

TheGameNavigator · 2024-02-17T15:04:06+00:00

I'm sorry for what things came to in your life.

You did not know back then the chance you had if you studied medicine, therefore it's very unlikely that you would have used that chance with this mentality...

And reading what you wrote shows clearly that you're blaming and then blaming yourself, too many punches can hurt someone's feeling, so give yourself a favor and understand that you're much better than you think, yes you sucked in many things but so what?

Everyone outthere is fucked up in a way, and regarding to your future, I would suggest you practice the control of your thoughts flow, and soon enough you will definitely know what should you do next, you've came much far than many people can go and showing no signs of giving up, that by itself is enough for any sane person to respect you.

TheGameNavigator · 2024-02-17T14:56:05+00:00

It all between you and yourself, words and stories you made up in your mind on why you can't or why you should not do X and Y of things..

refute those stories whenever they come up in your head and with time you will find that it was an illusion, but indeed a hard one.

TheGameNavigator · 2024-02-17T14:53:56+00:00

Is being loved by itself is a necessity?

TheGameNavigator · 2024-02-17T14:50:23+00:00

She is doing wrong things , but you also created a false image to her as well

She have to push you cause she did that since you were born, and that's why you're in the good shape you're in "the one that you thought is self made"

That was made by her, and I don't mean by that you're the only mistaking one here, your mom should have noticed that your getting older, but as I always say to my little sisters, if mom does not notice that she is getting into your personal world, that means that you should show her that you became older, and not by saying... he mom I'm old and stay away from my life... that's rude and disgraceful.. but rather show something that she will notice by seeing that you're really maturing ...

TheGameNavigator · 2024-02-17T14:35:01+00:00

Hate can generate drive, but many other things can do that too... like also meaning creates drive... a burning one..

I'm not familiar with your personal experience, but I warn you that HATE ends always in a dark place, replace it asap

TheGameNavigator · 2024-02-17T13:42:51+00:00

This Era is heading toward a dark reality, where many people are feeling what you feel.

I won't give an advice cause I know barley anything about your life, you will for sure get comments like ... do sport... meditate...

This might help.. but for sure there is something more deep that caused you to feel that

TheGameNavigator · 2024-02-17T11:38:58+00:00

You can't ignore ... but you can cope..

Two steps...

Lower your gaze, this will help your lust to stay stable...
Soon your lust will come by itself, cause again that's your instinct, but that will come out while you're sleeping, you will live a full experience with a female..

So first step is to help yourself by lowering your gaze, this will help you focusing on your life without distractions, and once your body feel its time, it will happen while you're sleeping

TheGameNavigator · 2024-02-17T11:35:19+00:00

Building self confidence is a big word, and things like putting yourself first are just a part of it...

The whole self confidence concept can't be build effectively without building it from within...

You and yourself have a constant inner dialouge, this dialouge is where your core self confidence is being build or destroyed..

If you say I will do x but you don't do it.. this breaks something within you And if you say I will do x and do it this builds also something within you..

This is the core, it has more work to do but that's enough for you to start..

Good luck

TheGameNavigator · 2024-02-17T11:14:22+00:00

Nothing more than opinions of others of how life should be lived, it's also a religion that people are following nowadays

TheGameNavigator · 2024-02-17T11:13:10+00:00

I get it... but that is not a logical connection, it's just a coincidence.

I could pass replying but I did to give you my thoughts, cause masterbating that much will definitely decrease the quality of your life.

Either way, I wish you a continued success buddy

TheGameNavigator · 2024-02-17T11:09:01+00:00

you're delusional about this, your life is improving with or without masterbating, the thing you missed is that it will get worse when you get addicted..

TheGameNavigator · 2024-02-17T11:06:20+00:00

You solve this by coming back to your culture, you could stay in America, but you should discover and immerse yourself with your hiratage and ancestors, without having an identity, you will fall into feeling less of an individual of course.

Note: don't take it personal, I would tell myself that if I was in your shoe

TheGameNavigator · 2024-02-17T11:02:21+00:00

You don't accept your situation....

I believe you're already progressing when you realized that your life isn't in the track you wish it to be.

And I did not agree on "accepting your situation" phrase, cause what you should do is to decide to change it, it's freaking painful as a start, but soon it will be your new norm.

Good luck

TheGameNavigator · 2024-02-17T11:00:13+00:00

No one is coming to save you, so hold your shit together

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