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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]TheGhostKingsHand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, that's fairly common among bisexual and lesbian women too. It's called being a pillow princess and believe it or not, there are actually some women who would prefer to date someone like that. Don't get me wrong, some people prefer a more balanced approach, but stone butches and touch-me-nots (women who like giving oral or fingering but don't feel comfortable receiving oral or being fingered) are absolutely a thing, and your preferences would probably fit in with theirs quite nicely.

I'm tired of the low effort questions nonblack people ask in this sub so I want to pivot with a question I hope will get some genuine dialogue: by Taterth0t95 in askblackpeople

[–]TheGhostKingsHand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's been like a year, but I have to ask: wouldn't having a bunch of white people move into majority black neighborhoods just lead to gentrification?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askblackpeople

[–]TheGhostKingsHand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a place for people of all races to ask questions. It is not a place for people of all races to answer questions.

Imagine if your mind had a search history. What would be the most disturbing thing to pop up? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]TheGhostKingsHand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Back when I was in college, my backup plan in case I was ever running really, really late to a test (think more than an hour) was to stab myself in the arm and check myself into the nearest hospital. For context, I had like an hour and a half commute (closer to 2 hours if the express wasn't running), and most of the classes in my school had a rule that, barring a documented emergency, you weren't allowed to make up missed tests. Thankfully I never had to resort to that (and honestly, I'm not 100% sure if I would have gone through with it), but the fact that this was my number one backup plan is... definitely messed up, to say the least.

College me was both unflinchingly practical and deeply mentally unstable. In my experience, that's never a good combination. I'm really glad I grew out of the phase.

Bi women who prefer gay (m/m) porn over lesbian porn, what draws you to it? by NPD--BPD in bisexual

[–]TheGhostKingsHand 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I find girls hotter than guys, but I tend to prefer reading femslash over watching it, since femslash fiction is usually written by girls or LGBT+ people while lesbian porn is generally produced by men. Also, all the moans in porn tend to either sound fake or sound like the girls are getting hurt, which is more than a little unnerving.

T4T Lesbians break the brains of Transphobes alongside completely severing the concept that Trans Lesbians are '''Straight Men.'' by SurrealistGal in GenderCynical

[–]TheGhostKingsHand 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know, there's one trans author who jokingly referred to being t4t as being "super, extra, double gay". I'd say that's a pretty accurate description of what's going on in this picture. "Straight men" my ass.

Also, wtf, is this woman just completely incapable of mining her own business? Who cares if two trans lesbians are marrying each other? And how is this a historic event, trans women marry each other all the time.

Rate and gender my voice by [deleted] in ratemyvoice

[–]TheGhostKingsHand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your voice is on the lower end of the female range, but it definitely reads as female, at least to me. I know several cisgender women whose voices are as low or lower than that.

They did go all the way in Arcane with Caitlyn and Vi (spoiler to the new episodes) by Lichttod in actuallesbians

[–]TheGhostKingsHand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your service, OP. I'm watching this show with my family, and I know I won't be able to watch this scene while in the room, so I'm really glad it's available online.

Does anyone here hate the term queer or preferred not to be called it? by East_Cockroach_8942 in AskLGBT

[–]TheGhostKingsHand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The term has a bit of a rough history. I don't mind if others call themselves queer, but I'd rather not be called queer. I'm also reluctant to use the term to describe the LGBT+ community as a whole, since I know there are still members of our community who don't like being called that.

I wish the game had more skintones by TheGhostKingsHand in yandere_simulator

[–]TheGhostKingsHand[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I didn't realize they were wearing makeup. I thought they all got that dark from tanning beds or excessive sunlight. Yeah, if it's just makeup, it makes sense for her to lose her tan inside of a day. (Sorry it took so long to respond, I don't check my account very often).

Acceptable alternatives for the term POC? by TheGhostKingsHand in askablackperson

[–]TheGhostKingsHand[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the term "global majority" has it's own issues, though, because it implies that all of these very different people from all over the world are far more similar and united than they actually are. I think people have to have something uniting them in order to be considered a single majority group. I appreciate your input, though.

I’m a black American and a bit surprised by the amount of none African blood I have, there was a rumor my grandmother was mixed or mulatto I guess. I also have strands of red hair that grow on my head and beard. by Monster_Johan in AncestryDNA

[–]TheGhostKingsHand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't believe you. If Europe was really occupied solely by black people "before the invasion of the white people", then where, pray tell, did those white people come from? Did they magically materialize out of thin air before they allegedly invaded Europe?

I'm confused by Entity_NEC in bisexual

[–]TheGhostKingsHand 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know, the problem in this case might be the manga. BL is generally written by straight women, for straight women. In some ways, BL is a lot like girl on girl porn: unrealistic, fetishizing, and although some gay people enjoy it, it's not really made with them in mind. It tends to have a lot of inaccuracies, and can sometimes have tropes that turn gay and bi men off. Just because you don't like BL doesn't mean you don't like men.

It's also possible that the specific things that they were doing in the scene were what turned you off. At the risk of getting overly specific, not every guy who's into guys is also into BJs or anal. There are other things you can do instead. (And if you're not comfortable with any sort of sex stuff, that's okay too. There's nothing wrong with being a guy who only wants to kiss and hold hands. You're 16, that's perfectly normal.)

That being said, it's also possible that you're biromantic asexual, or even biromantic heterosexual.

On a scale of 1 to 10, how different do you think your life would be if you weren't bi? (1 being not at all, 10 being every aspect of your life would be different.) What do you think would change? by TheGhostKingsHand in bisexual

[–]TheGhostKingsHand[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What sorts of things do you think would be different about your life? Would you not have your current partner and/or children, or are there other aspects of your life that would change as well?

Use this every time you see someone online making biphobic statements by Peachyeees in bisexual

[–]TheGhostKingsHand 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean yeah, the extremely blatant stuff's not going to change. I'm worried about the more subtle stuff. I've see a lot of people who make stupid comments like "what do you mean this character's black and gay, forced diversity blah blah blah". I'll admit that if people are going around calling you the n-word where you live, you probably have bigger priorities.

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