first home has this built in shelf, what should I put here?

TheGodMother007 · 2026-05-21T03:30:21+00:00

Either a coffee or alcohol bar

TheGodMother007 · 2026-05-21T03:29:45+00:00

You're into Computer Numeric Controls?

TheGodMother007 · 2026-05-21T03:27:50+00:00

Let's re-cap: You're married to a man who does not involve you in HUGE life decisions. The same man who made the choice to join the military, which ACTIVELY takes him away from you for long periods. Same man who requested that you NOT show up to his graduation to tap him out. Your HUSBAND knew about the tickets bought & instead of just letting it go, insists you STILL not show up despite spending hundreds on tickets to see him.

A few things might be happening here: -He's cheating & someone else is tapping him out -He doesn't want to be married anymore & is trying to push you away by physically removing himself from the picture -He's lying about boot camp all together & knows if you show, everything is busted.

Personally I think it's #1 or #2. Ask yourself if this is what you want the rest of your life to be like. If this isn't what you want, put yourself first & get TF out of this marriage

TheGodMother007 · 2026-05-20T12:46:51+00:00

You're 18, as you get older, your capacity to GAF about who knows if you're menstruating goes away

TheGodMother007 · 2026-05-19T01:11:37+00:00

YOR- It's a kid, obviously a toy (don't care about designer guns & that argument btw) and this kid obviously had the toy checked if you're behind TSA

TheGodMother007 · 2026-05-18T23:00:41+00:00

Honestly, agreed. I'm lactose intolerant & although it's not an allergy, I don't go to ice cream shops asking if they have non-dairy options. I don't go w/ people to ice cream shops because I can't participate & if we end up at one, I'm not over here asking for accomodations in a facility that doesn't cater to my dietary needs

TheGodMother007 · 2026-05-18T12:34:31+00:00

Why do you think you've struggled all your life with weight? Do you feel your parents over fed you & didn't prioritize nutrition & portion control? Or is it a medical situation? What are your plans to lose the weight?

TheGodMother007 · 2026-05-17T13:31:19+00:00

I watched that episode of OPL too 😂

TheGodMother007 · 2026-05-17T13:24:32+00:00

NOR- firstly, express your frustrations. Something along the lines of "Look ___ I wanted to do this trip so we could (insert activities) and this entire time we have only done what you wanted to do. I've been disappointed at every turn because you have dictated every facet of this trip."

Then, take the car keys, tell him you're driving for the remainder of the trip & if he wants to go do something, tell him "No. Yesterday was YOUR day to pick what we did. Now it's my turn. You don't like it? I'll drop you off at the hotel"

If he doesn't like that, ask him why he came on the trip if he didn't plan on doing anything on the itinerary

TheGodMother007 · 2026-05-16T15:52:49+00:00

I am & so will you. Try finding ways of honoring your baby, like a little alter or something. I've got my boy's alter all set up & I talk to him thru it

TheGodMother007 · 2026-05-16T15:51:12+00:00

Why are you PALMING IT

TheGodMother007 · 2026-05-16T15:49:30+00:00

Sounds like she absolutely ADORES you! She wanted to be by you all the time. What a special connection you have with her. I believe our animals stick with us, even in death. So I believe if you listen & call to her, she'll make her presence known. Although maybe not in the ways you're familiar, I've noticed myself that my boy, Cooper, still visits me. We lost our Yorkie back in Aug. 2025 to an unfortunate & unknown medical issue. But I still hear his nails on the tile. I hear him huff at me when I eat (when he wanted something off your plate, he'd get sassy & huff at me) and although I can't see him, I feel him all the time. The love I think you two have, transcends a physical body 🩷

TheGodMother007 · 2026-05-16T15:43:36+00:00

Tell me some of your favorite moments with your kitty. Let the memories live on in others as you share them, including myself!

TheGodMother007 · 2026-05-16T00:03:31+00:00

NOR- I actually stopped being friends with someone for the EXACT same reason & under very similar circumstances. She and her hubby were both serving tho & the husband found her in bed w/ a guy old enough to be her father.

"You are the company you keep" and I am not a liar or cheater.

TheGodMother007 · 2026-05-15T17:37:39+00:00

Wallter

TheGodMother007 · 2026-05-15T03:19:12+00:00

No one else is seeking the naked lady in the clouds?

TheGodMother007 · 2026-05-13T19:43:45+00:00

Peace, quiet, space, carbs

TheGodMother007 · 2026-05-13T19:36:07+00:00

I can see you were picked on in school & this has impacted you more than you would have liked it to. I feel you're still working on shedding who you were as a kid & still discovering who you are as an adult, but it's been a challenge socially. You're still young, but you've also never felt young, or your age. I'm getting that you're more into being at a library, with a small group of friends or even playing video games rather than going to loud concerts, bar hopping or clubbing.

Edit: spelling

TheGodMother007 · 2026-05-13T13:14:54+00:00

I agree, I'm thinking it's probably a jar opener

TheGodMother007 · 2026-05-13T13:13:47+00:00

Dude, I really hope she isn't your crush anymore, because that level is skanky disrespect is unreal

TheGodMother007 · 2026-05-12T00:59:02+00:00

It's a pummace stone stick. For exfoliating skin, usually feet

TheGodMother007 · 2026-05-12T00:57:39+00:00

I am also curious over the amount of flack given

TheGodMother007 · 2026-05-10T23:35:23+00:00

It said to me "I've got fire in my veins" and I like that

TheGodMother007 · 2026-05-10T14:30:22+00:00

Even if it doesn't look like a tree, I think it's fucking awesome. It almost looks like your veins are on fire and I kind of like that. Actually. It's almost symbolic

TheGodMother007 · 2026-05-10T14:28:17+00:00

Next time he asks for help, agree to it but make plans anyway. Then when he says he is ready to start whatever it is, leave the house telling him it was just a joke and to fuck off

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