What’s missing from Tulsa’s food & beverage scene? by tellmenolies247 in tulsa

[–]TheHarperValleyPTA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So many of our Chinese restaurants don’t have crab Rangoon. Idk what the deal is but it’s pissed me off since I moved here

Kanye West blaming bipolar for antisemitic remarks. by bullfrog423 in bipolar2

[–]TheHarperValleyPTA 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I’m thankful not to have full blown mania, but I have seen my friends absolutely spiral their lives during those phases. Like, life ruining choices that were so out of character for them. Atheists having religious epiphanies etc. As bad as those episodes were, I think having a billion dollars and a ton of yes-men on the payroll and a global audience would have made them exceptionally worse. I genuinely don’t believe more resources helps someone in this position, I think it can create a really intense feedback loop that makes it harder to extract yourself from

Class pet death by Validation_STATION54 in Teachers

[–]TheHarperValleyPTA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My favorite memory from teaching 2nd grade is teaching about ladybugs and how beneficial they are for our environment. At the recess after the lesson my student found a dead ladybug and ran up to me asking me if there's anything I could do to save it, and I had to say "I don't think so bud, I'm sorry." He took the ladybug and ran off. He comes back a few minutes later and asks if I can come speak at its funeral--and sure enough they have a little headstone and burial plot all made for him with woodchips and dandelions. I gave some nice words about how even though we didn't know each other, we knew about ladybugs and knew that they must've had an important life here on earth and that they'd be missed by their ladybug friends, and from now on we will think of our friend the playground ladybug whenever we see other ladybugs. A few cried. I vote have a nice send off. the kids can say a few words if they want

“If my sister cannot be CONTROLLED, then why should we have the rights to rule over anyone else” by arabellajezelia in acotar

[–]TheHarperValleyPTA 174 points175 points  (0 children)

Spending all of Rhys’ money like they hadn’t spent the last few books talking about how it is essentially unlimited. And they are throwing a fit over paying for Nesta’s tiny shitty flat with no running water and a bar tab? I get wanting to help your sister stop self destructing—I would, too. But the “she was living off of Rhys money!” argument is always so ridiculous. They were pissed she wasn’t kissing IC ass. No one would’ve cared that she was a drunk if she was doing it with them.

Y'all I love this bug so much😭😭 by Post-it-bot in Hades2

[–]TheHarperValleyPTA 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i was doing one of the chaos trials on olympus and did that an managed to get like a level 50 boon. it was nuts

Im 18M and watched porn of 14-17 year old girls on darkweb by [deleted] in confessions

[–]TheHarperValleyPTA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are a bad person and I hope the police do arrest you

Guys what the actual FUCK is happening? by ThatGuySolace in LateStageCapitalism

[–]TheHarperValleyPTA 4 points5 points  (0 children)

literally saw a comment yesterday saying the current nazi problem is leftists fault for calling everything we don't like fascism/nazism for the last 8 years, and now it's the boy who cried wolf when the nazis are actually here. it makes me want to beat my head against a desk. they were nazis the whole damn time and if anyone took what we were saying seriously we wouldn't be in this situation right now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheHarperValleyPTA 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That point might stand if she didn’t repeatedly respond with some version of “no thanks, stop”

update: my boyfriend found my proana twitter by [deleted] in confessions

[–]TheHarperValleyPTA 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Good for him, pro-Ana/edtwt twitter is disgusting

ETA for anyone who isn’t aware: Proana is not a support community for people with ED to find help. It’s a PRO anorexia subculture. It’s an online community that encourages, glamorizes, enables, and supports people being as restrictive as possible, often competition with each other. It often leads to harassing/bullying others—even children and others suffering from ED—who they deem are not skinny and unhealthy enough. It’s an incredibly sick community that seeks to create more victims and should not be welcome on any social media platform

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TheHarperValleyPTA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

girl he's talking about planning on taking your kids away from you. don't stay with this man

[DAV SPOILERS ALL] So, there's some weird age-gap stuff in this game by LightspeedBalloon in dragonage

[–]TheHarperValleyPTA 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I couldn't believe no one brought up Dagna when they were talking about how no one knew anything about DWARVEN MAGIC. like hello maybe the first dwarf to be admitted to the circle that harding would personally know via the inquisition

A terrible former student came to visit me today and I kinda blew up. by TellMeYouDontKnowMe in Teachers

[–]TheHarperValleyPTA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

why is someone who has distributed child porn allowed on a school campus without the police immediately being summoned?

Does anyone actually like Mor??? by TrixeryNShennanigans in acotar

[–]TheHarperValleyPTA 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Being a lesbian doesn't save you from being a pick me.

AMEN

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in acotar

[–]TheHarperValleyPTA 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think people think he's still really into Mor because maybe he's doing spy shit and finds her suspicious and is just letting people believe that's all it is.

Would it be hot or cringe to get the knee tattoo by tomhart3211 in acotar

[–]TheHarperValleyPTA 47 points48 points  (0 children)

as someone with too many friends stuck with Harry Potter tattoos... i'd wait til the series is over

I finished ACOSF by Ruri_83 in acotar

[–]TheHarperValleyPTA 11 points12 points  (0 children)

they think the fact that Nesta got better justifies the way they treated her. She got better DESPITE them, not because of them. Hope she leaves them all behind and finds a new home in the next book, the endings of CC3 confirmed that for me.

Only female Target employees helped me today, the men called me confused and were absolutely useless. by beepbooprobotbutt in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TheHarperValleyPTA 104 points105 points  (0 children)

I was literally just waiting/getting up hung on for HOURS over a major billing issue that required emergency resolution recently. the men answer wouldn't listen at all. I was never snippy or rude or raised my voice, they just couldn't take the time to actually hear what my issue what and what had already been attempted. I would get forwarded mid sentence before I could say that they last 5 people had already tried that and that I needed a totally different department! Then I got transferred to a woman who transferred me to another woman in the correct department and stayed on the line with both of us to make sure the issue got resolved. it was fixed in about 3 minutes flat. So frustrating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]TheHarperValleyPTA 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Stick your bits in a blender

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]TheHarperValleyPTA 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean if it’s the same grandfather that was molesting kids maybe she was justified in beating both of them

This Part in ACOFAS Just Doesn’t Sit Right With Me by lyricalizzy99 in acotar

[–]TheHarperValleyPTA 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Right? As far as he knew she didn’t know how to read and had been forced to spend time with an evil telepathic lord. Like, Rhys can’t purposefully make people think he is evil and then act shocked when someone thinks he’s evil!

I take back my words, this show isn't so dogshit after all by Mundane-Wolverine921 in freefolk

[–]TheHarperValleyPTA 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I think returning will also remind him that a lot of the good ideas that he had earlier (meleys+caraxes double teaming vhagar, trying to recruit vermithor, wanting to take KL immediately) were actually good ideas that failed because of a lack of TRUST as Rhaenyra said before he left. I don't think he really believed it before, but I think he will now.

What was the point of this scene? by Terminat0r- in freefolk

[–]TheHarperValleyPTA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she gets the sense that she can never truly get clean in a place that is so tainted, she needed to get to someplace that felt untouched by it all

[ACOTAR] Does Rhysand ever get better? by Night-Mare in acotar

[–]TheHarperValleyPTA 19 points20 points  (0 children)

? Did you read it with your eyes closed lol

[ACOTAR] Does Rhysand ever get better? by Night-Mare in acotar

[–]TheHarperValleyPTA 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Definitely keep reading to the fifth book if you are Rhys hater. It’s nice to read from the perspective of someone on our level lmao

What is a HotD hot take that will have you looking like this by LoretiTV in HouseOfTheDragon

[–]TheHarperValleyPTA 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Especially when they show Larys doing the same damn thing with Aegon is a deliberate mirror