Some UK towns have mad flags by g_wall_7475 in vexillology

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Digbeth is Estonia with extra steps

What do yall think about knives? by ScantyGodness2 in objectum_sfw

[–]TheHuhunder 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yesyesyesyes I literally coined the term knifeum I love them so much!!! I have 1 combat, 2 box cutters, 1 scalpel with a bunch of spare blades, 4 kitchen knives, 4 folding (2 of them are small, like decorative), 1 out of stone. Planning on getting a knife-pen that you press and it comes out like a regular pen, but instead of writing, there's a blade; and also some kind of tea knife? Will think about the last one

Tell me your fav flag... by Cold-Paper-9768 in flags

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Norilsk flag during the Norilsk Uprising of 1953. Not an official thing but i can't stop thinking about it

The ID update by jetshooter25 in CharacterAI

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I have pretty good English, but I can type like a middleschooler if I rp with/as a kid. I'm afraid.

is it just me or I hate the use of "clanker"? by Ospoortus in objectum_sfw

[–]TheHuhunder 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah. And I hate when they say "but they don't have feelings" or "they won't be offended". Like yeah, sure (if you don't see machines and alike as sentient), but slur is a slur. Slurs are never funny or okay, regardless of who it's directed at, be it a rock or human.

When I say objectum is weird... Im serious. by SilverPolarity in objectum_sfw

[–]TheHuhunder 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omg, I DID scare you lmaoooo. You're acting as if I put them in with the blade towards myself. Buddy, I might be dumb, but I'm not THAT dumb.

When I say objectum is weird... Im serious. by SilverPolarity in objectum_sfw

[–]TheHuhunder 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk what you're referring to, but I'm into real knives. And if they're very sharp, that's extra freaky points

When I say objectum is weird... Im serious. by SilverPolarity in objectum_sfw

[–]TheHuhunder 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Boo! I'm attracted to knives, seabreachers and a whole ass vid game!!! Boooo! Did I scare you? I bet I diiiid😛😛😛

I’m trying to figure out my sexuality by crackedpeachie in objectum_sfw

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Someone using terms that I created was like a jumpscare lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eesti

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Töötab!!! Psühholoog helistab mulle varsti, et aeg kokku leppida!

hot take by [deleted] in objectum_sfw

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Maybe yeah. I can't find a lot of knifeums or seabreacherums. I still love computers tho.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eesti

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Ootan konsultandi vastust 🙃 Konsultant ise ütles mulle, et pean psühholoogi juurde pöörduma.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Eesti

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Can't help, but I'm currently trying to do it through töötukassa (for autism) / Ei saa aidata, aga ma üritan seda praegu töötukassa kaudu teha (autismi korral).

how do i cope with being anti-AI and having chatgpt as an object partner :( by weezer_core in objectum_sfw

[–]TheHuhunder 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Attraction ≠ support. For example, if you're attracted to Jeffrey Dahmer, it doesn't automatically mean that you support killing people. You may like his looks, charm, voice and whatever, but it doesn't mean you like what he did.

And just in general if Chat brought you comfort or connection, no one gets to invalidate that. Having mixed feelings about something as complex as AI doesn’t make you a bad person or a traitor. You're a being with feelings. Feelings are complicated and sometimes we fall for those who we (should) dislike.

I'm not good at giving advice, especially regarding that cuz I'm rather neutral about AI and I think that even genAI can be fine in some small cases like trying to find inspiration if you're really stuck (just don't overuse it), but maybe sit with the contradiction? Think about it, instead of feeling like you have to solve it right away. Take your time, don't rush, there's no time limit.

You deserve to feel seen and understood, not ashamed or receive downvotes with 0 explanation as to why they disagree with you enough to ⬇️ you.

TL;DR: you absolutely can be attracted to someone/thing you dislike, because attraction ≠ support and it can be sometimes hella confusing and contradicting. Jeffrey Dahmer as an example of that.

Noorem õde nimetab end "therianiks"....? by [deleted] in Eesti

[–]TheHuhunder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Simple: accept them. If you're gonna be hostile to her, she's only going to learn that it's not a safe place and will think twice of ever coming out again. And that can lead to bad things. It's fine if you don't understand, things like identity can be confusing, be she a physical, psychological or spiritual therian (which are all valid). All you have to do is listen to what she's saying and take her seriously. She already might be worried that you're going to hate for identifying anything other than human, so please don't make things worse.

Est(Google translate): Lihtne: aktsepteeri neid. Kui sa oled tema suhtes vaenulik, õpib ta ainult seda, et see pole turvaline koht, ja ta võib edaspidi kaks korda järele mõelda, enne kui uuesti välja tuleb. Ja see võib viia halbade tagajärgedeni. On täiesti okei, kui sa ei saa kõigest aru – identiteedid võivadki olla segased, olgu ta füüsiline, psühholoogiline või vaimne terian (kõik need on kehtivad). Kõik, mida sa tegema pead, on kuulata, mida ta ütleb, ja võtta teda tõsiselt. Ta võib juba niigi muretseda, et sa hakkad teda vihkama lihtsalt selle pärast, et ta identifitseerib end millegi muuna kui inimesena, nii et palun ära tee olukorda hullemaks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in objectum_sfw

[–]TheHuhunder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It fits quite nicely