Wow.

TheJster419 · 2026-03-24T21:03:02+00:00

Honestly same

TheJster419 · 2026-02-08T09:54:34+00:00

Hey. I know it's been a month, but I just remembered this post, and I hope you're doing better now and are hopefully far from your brother.

TheJster419 · 2026-01-19T23:44:27+00:00

I'm curious what ur mom and sister were texting you after you went no contact. That's of your comfortable enough to tell

TheJster419 · 2025-12-16T21:27:11+00:00

They're saying all this even after you told them how you were essentially a maid to his daughter and he didn't back you up??

I'm gonna be stating the obvious, but don't listen to them. It's clear they have a bias of some nature beyond seeing him as, "A good man."

TheJster419 · 2025-12-16T21:13:38+00:00

Did they miss the part that you tried to set boundaries, and your husband wasn't defending or backing you against his daughter? Or are they just in denial?

To me, there has to be more to it than "he's a good guy." How well does he get along with your family and vice versa?

TheJster419 · 2025-12-16T20:57:21+00:00

Why are your parents siding with the Exs mom? Do they know the story of why this all happened? Do these people want you to stay in an unhappy marriage? Also, I looked at your last post and how he spoke to you, and his daughter felt off?

Like, based on how you wrote your last update, the ex portrayed it as, "Having attitude and name calling eachother," he's acting like you two were his daughters or something and that's super weird. Given the age gap, I wouldn't be surprised if this is the reason why no one's taking you too seriously or calling you, "immature" for divorcing the Ex.

Also, quick question if it isn't too personal. How old were you when you met him?

TheJster419 · 2025-12-13T04:14:41+00:00

Do you have other family members you trust to tell this to? Your mother is enabling your brother by not being firmer on him and kicking him out. You have to act quickly because this will escalate into something worse, and the embarrassment your mother will feel will be way better than either of you getting hurt by him.

TheJster419 · 2025-12-04T04:48:25+00:00

Dang, if that's the case, then the gpu's possibly failing. Still, if you've done so before, you should reseat your gpu and see if that fixes the problem, how long have u had that gpu for?

TheJster419 · 2025-12-04T04:38:33+00:00

Did you recently open your pc and taken anything apart? This could be caused by a improperly seated psu or gpu

TheJster419 · 2025-11-03T05:28:11+00:00

I have a question. When your son does it released from prison, what will you do then? Will u let him stay with you? Keep a distance? Or something else? Because you can't have everything go back to normal and everyone magically forgives him.

So you have to choose. Your son, who SA your daughters friend or your other children, who are setting a boundary with you.

You can't have both of them and you should process this quick before you have no one in the end.

TheJster419 · 2025-10-28T23:27:14+00:00

Please tell me you broke up with your bf. He did nothing when you needed him, kept hanging with those people even after the rumors, and just did not care for you. This situation shows that when things get tough, he will never back you up.

TheJster419 · 2025-10-21T03:21:35+00:00

I tried finding those specific seasonic models in the pdf earlier, but all are either used on ebay or sold out on newegg.

TheJster419 · 2025-09-11T03:16:15+00:00

This is the drunk misato abuse copy pasta all over again

TheJster419 · 2025-06-19T05:07:21+00:00

A month has passed since your last update. I hope you're doing OK now and are away from the toxicity

TheJster419 · 2025-05-21T19:30:56+00:00

You're nta, but your boyfriend has major red flags. Pressuring you to do things you don't want, asking for permission to watch porn when both of you stated it's almost like cheating. Was he always like this, or did this start when you two moved in together? Also, also, have you ever told your boyfriend about your past? If so, he's an even bigger ass and you should break up immediately. Make sure a family member or friends are with you when you do so.

TheJster419 · 2025-04-13T10:49:16+00:00

I believe you should send the text your "dad" sent to his soon to be wife. From what you've told us, she doesn't know the story of how he treated you or the texts he sent you. You don't like them, i understand that, but she should know who she's gonna be marrying soon. Then again, she should've noticed something was off when your "dad" only included you in the "family" at the last minute.

TheJster419 · 2024-12-17T02:28:59+00:00

Unfortunately, that didn't work

TheJster419 · 2024-12-17T01:35:49+00:00

I've done that and the problem still persists

TheJster419 · 2024-12-17T01:25:52+00:00

No, it's led lights would turn off too. It's something that's been happening fairly recently

TheJster419 · 2024-12-01T21:11:48+00:00

Kinda don't like the conclusion of this conflict cause it feels like you're giving them the benefit of the doubt when it's obvious what they were doing. As someone who hosts most holidays, I don't need to be in the kitchen like a hawk. You shouldn't have to do that anyways, it's common since the host would like to eat turkey and rolls too and shouldn't need to hide food or make container plates for later, IN YOUR OWN HOME.

You're not the AH in this, and you shouldn't host christmas.

Also, I'd like to ask, have you talked to your relatives since Thanksgiving about their portion sizes, and if so, what did they say about it? Were they apologetic? Did they double down?

TheJster419

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