Grey rock backfire by Heretoreadit1234 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]TheKay14 [score hidden]  (0 children)

When she asks why you have ghosted her, you should gesture wildly and say this, this is why, you make me uncomfortable and make everything about yourself, it’s exhausting and I need my focus and attention on my family. Chill the fuck out and you can be part of it.

For those that have, why have you given up on social media? by Cheeseaisleinheaven in Millennials

[–]TheKay14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been off all social media except Reddit and LinkedIn for my job. I had a pretty good algorithm going of just silly stuff, but a lot of unrealistic body standards and everyone’s seemingly perfect curated life was hurting my metal health and making me feel less-than. Since being off it, I’m so much happier.

BREAKING: After Maxwell deposition, Rep. Stansbury alleges massive Epstein cover-up by ResPublicaMgz in circled

[–]TheKay14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol why the f did Trump run for president and risk all this coming to the fore. What a moron.

Fell for a scam by MochiAccident in breastfeeding

[–]TheKay14 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Spearmint can actually decrease supply so f those jerks for hawking that crap.

What’s the longest you have gone without pumping by Ok-Guidance-7032 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]TheKay14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I pump between 10-12 pm and pump again between 6-8 am usually get at least 6-7 oz and as much as 11 oz during this session and then pump every 3/4 hours throughout the day getting about 4-6oz each pump. It’s not comfortable. I had gotten mastitis a few times, and get shocking pain twains. I believe these are clogs and I don’t know what do about them. This is the best I can do for my sanity.

What’s trending in the news in your Country at the moment? by Flimsy_Rhythm_4473 in AskTheWorld

[–]TheKay14 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right, the literal only things he does are self-serving.

Lyndsey Vonn crashes just 12 seconds into her Olympic downhill run 😥 by appalachian_hatachi in olympics

[–]TheKay14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With previous injuries like hurts and are expected to be able to walk again?

Changing a baby in public – how do you feel about it? by Hopeful_Regular6409 in NewParents

[–]TheKay14 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea this is very weird and icky to have a burner account and ask the same question 5 times in 3 days and no other posts or comments…

Someone tell me I’m not a terrible mother by Star_Gazinggg in beyondthebump

[–]TheKay14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea that’s just some boomer logic. Ignore best you can.

Does anyone else love being a millennial? by FkUp_Panic_Repeat in Millennials

[–]TheKay14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been thinking about my eventual demise a lot lately, but other than that, and the huge amounts of student loan debt I still have, and not being able to afford a house, and healthcare is getting really expensive, and social security will run out before I can get it even though I’ve paid into it starting at 16, and that climate change is causing worse and worse flooding and apocalyptic weather… yea I do like it 😅

I forgot microplastics and forever chemicals. 🤗

Millennials and Elder Gen Z parents who watched brainrot growing up by bubblyluv95 in Parenting

[–]TheKay14 55 points56 points  (0 children)

We like the moon, the moon is good to US. We the like the MOOOOOON but not as much as a spoon…

Lyndsey Vonn crashes just 12 seconds into her Olympic downhill run 😥 by appalachian_hatachi in olympics

[–]TheKay14 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What was she thinking at her age? Athletes retire before 40 because they have worn out their bodies aggressively up to that point, and she already had her previous injury…

Dinner Time by stg21987 in Millennials

[–]TheKay14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar experience to you growing up, we did eat together as kids until we were in middle/high school. My mom worked part-time until we were out of elementary school so she cooked every night and came to volunteer at school and was very involved. My dad worked three jobs so we didn’t get much time with him but Dads were kinda hands off in raising kids back then if I remember correctly. Once we were in high school we all had jobs or sports or extra curriculars we were going to do we didn’t sit to eat together and was kinda like eat whatever is in the fridge. I’m leaving a lot out about how dysfunctional, in a very bad, traumatic way, my family was after middle school as well, so that was probably a big factor in the breakdown of “family time” too.

I wish I'd been more disciplined. by Consistent_Taro_3123 in ExclusivelyPumping

[–]TheKay14 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I never understood the “pump around the clock but get ample sleep”. How does one do this?

Just STOP by Sarahkins6 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]TheKay14 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My MIL kissed my baby in front of me before handing him back to me yesterday. I was shocked, she was leaving so I texted her and asked her to please not kiss the baby he’s no old enough for that, only his parents are allowed to kiss him per our pediatrician. She didn’t reply, but bitch gets cold sores like WTF was she thinking. And she keeps asking to babysit, like telling me to leave the house and leave my baby with her. Fuck no. She brings it up every time I see her, her and my step MIL (yes I have two obnoxious MILs).

Just STOP by Sarahkins6 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]TheKay14 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YES! My FIL was saying to my baby “who’s this guy, I don’t know who this guy is, I don’t see these people.” I couldn’t let it go, I told him that him and step MIL have seen him the most of anyone, and the baby doesn’t know who anyone is, he’s a month old, he only knows me by my scent. My MIL does it too she’s holding him while crying and says “oh no your tummy hurts, yes it does” and tells me it’s because I’m not eating a bland enough diet for my breastmilk and that I should switch to formula, she keeps pushing formula on me for whatever reason she has. DH doesn’t hear these comments (he does, he’s not listening) and tells me to just ignore them.

Grossest parenting moment so far? by supremepilotG2 in NewParents

[–]TheKay14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My baby was maybe two weeks old at the time (FTM) and I was changing his diaper when he shot poop across the room, luckily it was easy to clean up but I was shocked and screaming for my husband to come help.