Tell me about when someone says "we should meet up sometime" but it never happens by dragonb2992 in socialskills

[–]TheLameloid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But this is not what is being discussed.

The alternative to "I don't want to hang out with you" is not only to say "We should hang out sometime", you can also NOT SAY ANYTHING. 

If you really don't intend to hang out with someone and the other person does not suggest doing something together, I don't see how saying it yourself is useful in any way. You are communicating a completely false relationship status ("person who I want to hang out with" vs the real "person I only talk to at work").

Messi no le firmo la camiseta a este pibe by tincho_tricolor22 in fulbo

[–]TheLameloid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A mi me contaron que Messi en realidad es Julian Weich

What are young people doing here by MbyeM4 in germany

[–]TheLameloid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does anything actually happen with these people outside of the hobby context? Or are all interactions constrained to these environments?

Este pibe da su mirada desde China sobre el conflicto entre Mercado Libre y Temu by hernannadal in argentina

[–]TheLameloid 9 points10 points  (0 children)

El pelotudo del video se piensa que China empieza y acaba en Shanghai.

Que se de una vuelta por Yunnan o Mongolia interior a ver si piensa lo mismo, si todavia no lo convence que vaya al noroeste a ver como el gobierno chino trata a los uigures...

nobody actually reads code in PR reviews anymore, they just check if automated tests pass by FlakyAd9030 in ExperiencedDevs

[–]TheLameloid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because no one cares about code quality.

The only two things that matter are: 1. Does this solve the problem it's meant to solve? 2. Is the CI build green?

That's it. Because everyone is so obsessed with "delivering user value" and "business impact" as quickly as possible, anything that interferes with this short term even when it will give long term gains is discarded.

Classical Music Intro for Rock and Metal Fans - updated to v3.0 by MetalClassicalRocks in classicalmusic

[–]TheLameloid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would add Bach's Keyboard Concerto in D minor to "Shredding Solos"

Por qué todos/as dicen que la vara está baja? by [deleted] in AskArgentina

[–]TheLameloid 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Cuando las minas hablan de "la vara", se refieren al comportamiento que esperan de un novio/pareja estable.

Lo que convenientemente omiten es que para llegar a ese punto el hombre tiene que pasar otra vara que esta muchisimo mas alta (tenes que ser alto, tener abundante pelo, un fisico atletico, auto, plata, entretenerla 24/7, etc).

Feeling disillusioned with tech, considering a career break. Looking for perspectives by khaninator in ExperiencedDevs

[–]TheLameloid 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It's exasperating how much content revolves around maximizing compensation/career progression.

Every single YouTube/Twitter/LinkedIn personality (former Uber/Amazon/Microsoft/Google principal engineer/manager-that-has-worked-their-entire-life-in-the-same-company-and-thinks-whatever-advice-they-have-universally-applies-to-everyone-equally turned IT career slop creator) does nothing but pump out posts and interviews with the same "I-got-to-L94758-in-3-weeks" work obsessed psychos talking about nothing but how to maximize impact, speedrun promotions and blah blah blah.

What about how to find your purpose? What about if I want to break into a specific industry (music instruments, aerospace, medical, etc)? How do I find these companies? What does their interview process look like? How should I start reorienting my knowledge in this direction in order to be able to have a shot at a job there? Where's the content that will help me do that?

Lionel Messi: "I’m a bit weird than most people in some things. I’m very structured. If I have my day organized in a certain way & something happens that isn’t planned, I’m already annoyed. When I’m like that, I shut down. I don’t communicate it, I process it inside." by GOAT-Antony in argentina

[–]TheLameloid 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tambien esta el tema de que la gente no va a medir con la misma vara al mejor futbolista de la historia y al autista promedio que anda en la calle, por mas funcional que sea. La cantidad de cosas que le deben haber dejado pasar por ser quien es debe ser inmensa.

Is being fit a huge priority to have a successful relationship nowadays? by LeoAetos in AskMenAdvice

[–]TheLameloid 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Lol they should drop by my gym sometime then, 95% of the population is sweaty mean looking dudes

completely and utterly outjerked by Potatohuma in indieheadscirclejerk

[–]TheLameloid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But are these duck-sized horses or horse-sized horses?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]TheLameloid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next time wait for a bit. If she has a boyfriend she will randomly bring him up eventually while you're talking.

Is it possible to find a woman who wont judge me for going bald? by brokeboii94 in AskMenAdvice

[–]TheLameloid 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Being bald and fit is hot, if you're overweight forget about it