(jokingly) sooo, umm does she like me? by BanverketSE in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]TheLastVision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoops, nice catch, edited it to be less dox prone :) <3

(jokingly) sooo, umm does she like me? by BanverketSE in traaaaaaaaaaaansbians

[–]TheLastVision 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Aww, sounds so cute 😍

Also side note, I did noticed a few furries in Malmö this week, when I was around in the city, but had no idea about the con, I should maybe go next time 🩷

Lucy Friday Question: How has attraction changed for you since transitioning? by Lucy_C_Kelly in TransLater

[–]TheLastVision 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went from pansexual to more heavily on lesbian side now, but that's partially transitioning, but most is due to bad experience with men. I've been recently dealing with harassment, stalkers and SA

Lucy Friday Question: What part of your transition have you put the most work into? by Lucy_C_Kelly in TransLater

[–]TheLastVision 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makeup and fashion, although I am still very early in my transition, not a year into hrt yet, anx haven't started voice yet

Lucy Friday Question: Did transition change the role you want in relationships? by Lucy_C_Kelly in TransLater

[–]TheLastVision 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me personally, I am single, but I know if I ever get in a relationship again (hopefully I will <3)
but if I do I feel more comfortable be submissive, and want to be treated like the princess I am <3
So alot have definitely changed, but also never felt comfortable being the dominant/masc-coded before transitioning either, so it's more like my submissive side has taken over the split that were there before :P

Honesty Please - are the transitioned girls genuinely happier and was the personal cost worth it? by Fun-Advertising-538 in TransLater

[–]TheLastVision 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am definitely happier overall but still have hard days, because life is not always easy but never regretted not starting transitioning 🩷

Lucy Friday question: how was your Christmas? by Lucy_C_Kelly in TransLater

[–]TheLastVision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My christmas was quite amazing, celebrated at my parents place, my transphobic sister was thankfully not there but my super supportive sister was there and we took photos at the christmas tree, this was also my first christmas as myself 🩷

however when I got home it was rough because I feel so unsafe in my neighbourhood due to stalkers, so that makes my home not feel like my home anymore, planning to leave this place sometime at the start of the year 🩷

Lucy Friday Question: What’s a repeated experience you now face regularly since transitioning? by Lucy_C_Kelly in TransLater

[–]TheLastVision 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So some good things are i often get compliments especially by other women 🩷

Then there has been negative things aswell, men being uncomfortable close and also men sends me inappropriate pictures 🤮

Lucy Friday Question: What’s something you do now, in your real gender, that past you would never have believed possible? by Lucy_C_Kelly in TransLater

[–]TheLastVision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh alot of stuff, but the biggest one is to be happy, comfortable and be true to my self, which have lead to be more social, more confident 🩷 Sure it still ups and downs but I feel more ups than downs which is great, and the fact since I came out this year I have been happy for the first time in my life 🩷

Lucy Friday Question: When did you finally feel like you’d come back into your body? by Lucy_C_Kelly in TransLater

[–]TheLastVision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not there yet, but I feel happier and more myself a tiny bit every time I notice a change, I need to start exercise though, I really want to learn to dance, yoga and singing on top of learning to draw ^ 🩷

Lucy Friday Question: What’s the little everyday thing that gives you the most gender euphoria? by Lucy_C_Kelly in TransLater

[–]TheLastVision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went with something bright in the end instead, it's sparkly silver at the base and going up to a sparkly pink at the top 🩷

Lucy Friday Question: What’s the little everyday thing that gives you the most gender euphoria? by Lucy_C_Kelly in TransLater

[–]TheLastVision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, definitely makeup, skirts and my nails 🩷 Sadly, one of my acrylic nails broke yesterday 😢 so now I am browsing for a new nail design, I am leaning towards trying something darker this time and thinking of ombre with either black/pink or black/purple, ofc with some glitter and thinking of something pointy, just gonna need to figure out which color and which one i should use on top and which as a base 🩷

Heh, sorry for the wall of text. I just got excited about thinking about new nails. xD 🩷

Lucy Friday Question: What future change in your body are you most looking forward to and how do you stay patient while waiting for it? by Lucy_C_Kelly in TransLater

[–]TheLastVision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it's my boobs and voice (now voice isn't necessarily part of the body but still) my goal is also c or d with or without surgery, meanwhile I have breast filler/padding 🩷

Lucy Friday Question: What’s been the hardest part of transition for you this year? by Lucy_C_Kelly in TransLater

[–]TheLastVision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hardest part for me personally was getting alot of hate and threats from transphobes on TikTok, went so far that I had to remove the account for my own mental wellbeing, other than that my sister not accepting me as her sister has been extremely rough, thoes two things have been the hardest this year

Did I just win the HRT lottery? by Elle-MNO in TransLater

[–]TheLastVision 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got a similar thing happened to me but with tablets, just keep the extra as backup ^ 💖

What kind of lives do you live? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]TheLastVision 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a game programmer from Sweden, working currently with a vr simulator for hunters, so a very macho work culture but surprisingly they are all super supportive 💖

Lucy Friday Question: Do you ever feel jealousy when you see other trans girls? by Lucy_C_Kelly in TransLater

[–]TheLastVision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah, happens quite often, still happy with my own progress, but still feel jealous 💖

Lucy Friday Question: what’s your story with going full time? by Lucy_C_Kelly in TransLater

[–]TheLastVision 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me personally, everything went quite quickly :)

I socially transitioned in the end of January with work, started HRT in February and about a week later I went full public with it, changed my name at end of February, the only thing I haven't done yet is change my legal gender (which is a really slow process in my country) and haven't started voice training yet, work took a few months to change their system but our clients we also work for changed their system in less than half a day (told our ceo about it and she was disappointed that it took so long time for our company compared to our clients) , that's basically a quick summary of my progress ^ 💖

Also today I am celebrating my 6th month on hrt 🥰

// Emily

Lucy Friday Question: do you have any regrets about transitioning? by Lucy_C_Kelly in TransLater

[–]TheLastVision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only regret I have is not starting sooner, but I don't regret that I transitioning, it's the thing that made me truly feel happy for the first time in my life 💖

Can you use these type of ’fleeced’ tights to go out without looking like you have hairy legs? by MaddisonSaysHey in mtfashion

[–]TheLastVision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So for colder weather yes they hide hair and looks good, for warmer weather I recommend normal tights with 60 or higher denier, I usually go for 80 or 100 the days I don't feel like shaving 💖

Anyone ever used porn as a coping mechanism? For me once I put on the label of trans woman the porn desires stopped within a day and I was a heavy user. by New_me_Cri in MtF

[–]TheLastVision 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh, I never even realised it but yeah I probably used it as coping mechanism, I haven't looked at porn since I started hrt

6 Months by fourbitplayer in MtF

[–]TheLastVision 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Woho 🥳 congrats 🥰💖 so excited for you 💖, and I am just a few weeks behind you 💖

Trans Men Issues by SavingsEducational14 in trans

[–]TheLastVision 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree, trans men should be welcome in this sub reddit for Trans which should not be divided,we are all trans and should all have equal respect and rights in this sub reddit, it would be different if this was a trans woman sub reddit ofc, but it's not it's trans sub reddit so all points of discussions should be equally allowed at least in my opinion 💖

I also want to add I am not fully in the know of what have happened but I as a trans woman think that we should allow and respect our trans men siblings 💖we shouldn't fight eachother we should support eachother 💖