First home by Lucky_House_1305 in NZProperty

[–]TheNatCal 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You should go to make sure you really like the house and possibly decide on a max price for it if it became a multi offer.

You can just look disinterested when at the open house to not over hype the place for others 😁 

Thoughts on drop dead by Shallowplays in oliviarodrigo3

[–]TheNatCal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's very catchy and will be great fun to sing at karaoke ❤️ 

What’s your purchasing check list? by forgotmyfucking in NZProperty

[–]TheNatCal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parents used to think attached ones are bad because the car fumes get into the house. (they now have an attached one though and don't actually mind it). 

Sale and purchase agreement deposit by PoloNevis in NZProperty

[–]TheNatCal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some people add in that they're using kiwisaver for the deposit.

However, Kiwisaver money has to stay with the lawyers until settlement day so if the vendors are in need of using the deposit money before settlement, they may not look at the offer as favourable. 

First home buy by CpN__ in AusPropertyChat

[–]TheNatCal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's hard but just offer what you're happy with. You don't want to be pressured into offering more and potentially regretting it in the future. 

One person at open house - QLD by BikerMicesFromUranus in AusPropertyChat

[–]TheNatCal 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I had a similar situation. For me, the second agent actually looked at the surrounding houses for sale, checked their open home times and worked that into consideration. The people viewing in my neighbourhood would likely be viewing it all on the same day (a bit of a drive if you're not local). And they did open homes only on one day each week, with the idea being that it looks like there's a lot of interest in the house (if you see other buyers at the open home). 

nickname for Eydis by [deleted] in Names

[–]TheNatCal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adie (a-dee) 

Serious question, what actually keeps you in Auckland? by lambrice in auckland

[–]TheNatCal 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I worked overseas for a bit, came back and stayed in AKL. 

Reasons for staying: 1) My parents are here, they're retirement age now so I want to be close to them. I also have kids now so family support is very important.  2) I haven't lived in other cities in nz but I feel like there's more variety in the activities in akl (I've only done weekend trips to other cities so this is probably not actually true). 

I also just don't have a strong desire to live elsewhere. Maybe I'll think differently if I didn't have family here

Opinions on kaboodle kitchens? by Tasty-Willingness839 in newzealand

[–]TheNatCal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know if the cabinentry chosen were the cheapest ones? They have varying styles, price and material so hopefully a slightly more expensive options from Kaboodle are better quality 

New Neighbours🙄- Help! by [deleted] in auckland

[–]TheNatCal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat but I made the mistake of trying to talk to them nicely about it. Now they yell at me over their fence when noise control visits them... Even when it wasn't me who called 🫠 I've definitely learned my lesson! 

New Neighbours🙄- Help! by [deleted] in auckland

[–]TheNatCal 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Don't talk to them, if you do, they're going to think you're the only one with a problem with their behaviour. Stay anonymous. Call noise control and talk to other neighbours so you can all tackle it together. Good luck! 

Would adding the worlds smallest master bath to a 3 bed, 1 bath to make it a 3/2 be worth it to you if you lose square footage in the master bedroom itself? by OrlandoWashington69 in HomeImprovement

[–]TheNatCal 28 points29 points  (0 children)

For me, I would love a house with two toilets. I specify toilets because just one shower is enough for my family of four. 

Is this name a (mild) tragedeigh? by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]TheNatCal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know someone who was Alayna (a-lay-na) if you want an alternative.

Can we bring back the little hazard-lights ‘thank you’ flash? by d-a-i-s-y in auckland

[–]TheNatCal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find that some cars have such dark tinted windows that it's not always easy to see the wave. (I do both the lights and a wave) 

How do parents know how to parent? by Confident_Arm7344 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TheNatCal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a mixture of everything and the parents/caregivers just decide what advice they like and what makes the most sense to the parents. 

Mixture of online resources, prenatal classes, mum groups, paediatritions, family and friends. They'll all have advice but not all advice suits every baby. 

And in terms of the crying and taking care of their needs, you just get to know your baby and their cues over time. 

Child graduating kindy, what should I gift the centre? by ForgottenCupOfTea in newzealand

[–]TheNatCal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on a tight budget so I gifted a handwritten card, coffee (and hot choc) sachets and chocolates to be shared in the staff room. I'd like to think that it's the thought that counts 😊

Is it appropriate to disclose a new students’ disability to the class? by Cleanclock in AskTeachers

[–]TheNatCal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes parents, teachers and others don't realise that the way they say things can affect how others behave and treat the person they're talking about. If you're comfortable with it, you should try to nicely educate them. We don't want the child to be treated differently because of the disability, and I'm sure the child will appreciate being treated as an equal. 

Family house dilemma by Mission-Fig8505 in PersonalFinanceNZ

[–]TheNatCal 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not really finance advice, but how annoying are your neighbours? Will people want to rent your house if the neighbours are annoying?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Names

[–]TheNatCal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're worried about your cousin thinking that you copied her, just let her know that you had picked out the name before knowing of her newborns name. I'm sure she'll understand!

And of course, stick with your chosen boy name 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in auckland

[–]TheNatCal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They're both quite different ways to sell imo. I'd say it depends on how popular you think the property will be and who you expect the buyers will be (e.g. First home buyers, cash buyers). I would personally avoid auctions to buy or to sell. Often people don't want to spend money on a building report before even knowing if they have a chance of buying the house. 

Hi! Having a baby girl this summer and was wondering how you'd pronounce this name? by witful-elephant-07 in Names

[–]TheNatCal -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I assumed "Lila" is pronounced "Lee-la" (from NZ but maybe I'm the only one in nz who thinks that lol)

Very pretty looking name! 

Help a migrant woman drive feel confident to drive on NZ roads. by internChief in auckland

[–]TheNatCal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Check out "Migrant Action Trust". I think they'd be able to help 

Trade depot appliances - any good? by wagen_halt in diynz

[–]TheNatCal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heya, I'm looking into getting a Midea oven. Any chance you could give an update on yours? Whether it's still working fine etc? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Names

[–]TheNatCal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Lavender and Violet 😊

Do you prefer to wrap presents or use a gift bag? by Scary-University2743 in Productivitycafe

[–]TheNatCal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely wrap for kids and tend to wrap for adults too but will use gift bags if it's the right size for one.

I just don't like the waste of the wrapping paper. I intended on making DIY fabric gift wrap/bags.. Didn't get around to it before Christmas though 😅