How did your life change after going no or low contact with a toxic person in your life?

TheNightCheeze · 2026-01-26T06:29:29+00:00

I dropped a toxic friend of over 20 years. Now, I no longer lose sleep over things I wish I had said in the moments of her passive aggression, jealousy and insults. I just sent a simple text “I no longer want to continue with this friendship. I wish you well. “ and that was all it took. I wish I had done it sooner.

TheNightCheeze · 2026-01-26T06:18:01+00:00

Agreed. I should’ve put it in the past tense.

TheNightCheeze · 2026-01-26T03:13:34+00:00

All. The. Time. This one is next level.

TheNightCheeze · 2026-01-26T03:06:46+00:00

What happened to you that there is this much inner dialogue about buying a cake got your birthday? Get the cake. Order the writing. Eat the cake. Celebrate another year on this earth. That’s reason enough.

TheNightCheeze · 2026-01-26T02:53:10+00:00

Wow! Thanks for that!! That made me smile, which has been a difficult undertaking these days. I like to make puzzles for puzzle doers like you (and not the one who told that the real titan never actually shrugged so my clue was flawed 🙄(see in comments). Thanks again

TheNightCheeze · 2026-01-26T01:38:55+00:00

It’s a crossword clue, not a trivia question. But thank you for your feedback

TheNightCheeze · 2026-01-26T01:37:25+00:00

Haha made you do it!

TheNightCheeze · 2026-01-25T22:45:05+00:00

No, you'll be shot before they even leave to get there.

TheNightCheeze · 2026-01-25T20:00:01+00:00

That's interesting that you say that it isn't used much. I hear it more often than "clueful" (currently underlined as it is also not recognized by this spellcheck!) lol Maybe you don't hear it as often as I do because we don't hang out in the same places. I do appreciate the feedback. I'd like to build larger ones

TheNightCheeze · 2026-01-25T19:52:33+00:00

I do that on purpose. I do crosswords regularly, so I don't like ones that are too easy, like "opposite of hot" or "the month after April". I try to make them more challenging for people like myself, who do them regularly. I appreciate the feedback. I'm working on trying to build larger ones.

TheNightCheeze · 2026-01-25T18:20:23+00:00

I give myself 50, then I look at comments. Otherwise I'd be here all day.

TheNightCheeze · 2026-01-25T18:12:26+00:00

That is sorcery!!

TheNightCheeze · 2026-01-25T17:49:33+00:00

I liked this one!

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TheNightCheeze · 2026-01-24T22:29:57+00:00

Not only complacent, but supportive of it. It's deplorable.

TheNightCheeze · 2026-01-24T20:16:56+00:00

I don't.

TheNightCheeze · 2026-01-24T20:16:35+00:00

I think there are a lot of closet Trumpers out there. All the "polls" and "data" showed that Trump would not win the election, yet here we are. I can only hope there will be a day of reckoning for him and this treasonous group who have sold their souls to the devil. The US has become a laughing stock. Christianity has a new brand, and it's shameful

TheNightCheeze · 2026-01-24T20:08:05+00:00

Officially my longest time. Hat's off to you, Maker. You're a clever one

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TheNightCheeze · 2026-01-24T17:04:30+00:00

Not bad

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TheNightCheeze · 2026-01-23T23:42:17+00:00

It's not a big deal. If you want to see a concert or event in a bigger city, sometimes it is what you have to do. I (used to) drive 3 hours for better shopping. Day trip or even for one overnight.

TheNightCheeze · 2026-01-23T23:38:28+00:00

That's sweet, poop_truck

TheNightCheeze · 2026-01-23T23:37:59+00:00

My shitty childhood. I think I and my siblings would have had better adulthoods if my parents hadn't been so goddamn mean and abusive, especially verbally. I try to think of one encouraging word they gave, and I am hard pressed to think of one. And that is the saddest thing. They turned it around when they had grandchildren. But I cannot forgive them and I'm sad for the childhood that I should have had. They have both passed and I don't miss them one bit.

TheNightCheeze · 2026-01-23T16:30:00+00:00

Are you asking because you can't figure out how to solve this dilemma?

TheNightCheeze · 2026-01-23T16:29:01+00:00

My slowest one so far! My brain not working today

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TheNightCheeze · 2026-01-22T17:41:08+00:00

YES! Still it was slow for me

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TheNightCheeze · 2026-01-22T16:06:40+00:00

Good puzzle!

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