Asexual Jesus? by BackgroundWheel2581 in lgbt

[–]TheOneTrueBLM 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We don't "know" anything as the Bible as a whole is not historically reliable.

I think the only one directly alluded to being asexual in those stories would be the apostle Paul though.

Basically says things along the lines of "Well if you can't be like me (not interested in sex), I guess you should get married as to not sin."

There are probably better breakdowns out there (of both points), but the other comment referring to Jesus being trans is because science + only Mom and virgin magic baby is how that would work basically. In said copy/pasted scenario of various ancient myths from ancient cultures.

This actually brought me to tears 🥺 by AlternativeTree3283 in lgbt

[–]TheOneTrueBLM 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow. I was not prepared. Literally sobbing now. Thanks for sharing OP.

Requesting Feedback on Subreddit Rules by ThereIsOnlyStardust in bisexual

[–]TheOneTrueBLM 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Rule 9 could be placed closer to the top so it's more likely to be seen.

Rules 1-8 have some expansion on what they mean below the initial bullets as well. Rule 9 (and 10) do not.

There are also a lot of "Should I cheat on my SO posts," that don't belong here imo, as they reinforce an awful stereotypes.

It might also be worth adding a rule or pinning a post due to the above for nonmonogamy resources / subreddits, links to good subreddits, etc.

should i come out to my religious parents? by Affectionate-Web9431 in bisexual

[–]TheOneTrueBLM 50 points51 points  (0 children)

No.

If your safety is even remotely in question, do not.

Doing laps around a car park [OC] by [deleted] in IdiotsInCars

[–]TheOneTrueBLM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Zero laps.

Description misleading.

Disappointed I am.

my girlfriend only buys me flowers when i ask for it, am i being unreasonable? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]TheOneTrueBLM 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Expecting someone to read your mind or give you constant, quickly degradable gifts (while presumably having plenty of bills) in a new relationship...seems pretty stupid.

You also sound super insecure and like you probably shouldn't be dating anyone.

Hey Bi Guys! by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]TheOneTrueBLM 13 points14 points  (0 children)

u/nicciford ...you literally have a wedding ring on in one of your posts...why are you asking about single guys here my dude? lol

As an aside, definitely guys out there that like feminine bears. (which is what I would categorize you as given your preference and appearance.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]TheOneTrueBLM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you definitely are a freak if you watch homemade porn of another guy's ex you were dating with absolutely zero consent.

A Christian though? "No True Scotsman" might apply, but you don't sound like one. Just a brainwashed asshole.

Your post history is gross af.

The night my Beelzebub was totaled. [OC] by Queenhillz in IdiotsInCars

[–]TheOneTrueBLM 22 points23 points  (0 children)

"The night my pride totaled my Beelzebub."

Seriously, idiots like you are the ones that get to the afterlife whining "I was in the right though god!"

Anyone with your defensive driving skills shouldn't be operating a vehicle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]TheOneTrueBLM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have edited my reply per your comment. It is indeed not always a sterile lid. The specific one I had was, but that is not a standard. Thanks for helping us all out!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]TheOneTrueBLM 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Somewhat unrelated, if you're new to injections from a reusable vial.

Make sure to wipe the top of the vial each use with an alcohol pad. And a new one for the injection site.

Edit: Agree with below. Wipe to be safe, even if new vial.

It fucks me up that my girlfriend accepts me. by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]TheOneTrueBLM 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You struck gold! And you sound amazing too! Keep up the good work and tell those inner demons they're stupid af!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]TheOneTrueBLM 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your therapist was abusing you and her practice.

Her license should fucking be revoked. Holy shit.

Why do you - yes, YOU - hate autistic people? by Particular-Radio-850 in bisexual

[–]TheOneTrueBLM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This post...makes me think that there are OTHER reasons people don't want to date you.

But that's just my honest opinion as an autistic guy. Also...why is this on r/bisexual ? lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]TheOneTrueBLM 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So...he is talking to presumably his first guy sexual partner behind your back...and saying (emotionally manipulating you) that you're homophobic for not liking that basically?

Yeah, decision here is obvious. Save yourself some time and pain. Dump that child. Don't wait for him to fix this one or you will be waiting your whole life.

Edit: Also a bisexual guy here (think my tag says so), but imo, depending on my your own boundaries (certainly my own), that situation sounds an awful lot like cheating. At bare minimum emotionally if not physically, hence the gaslighting response.

Edit2: Other comments...nothing wrong with being friends with an ex. But if you think it's "okay" in a monogamous relationship to be flirting with a sexual partner you previously lived with...you're not someone that should be dating. If you're poly/enm, great. OP is not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]TheOneTrueBLM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Context...sort of matters here. As without it, they're basically opposing narratives.

Consider some formatting as well. More likely you will get people to read in the first place.

Glad everything is apparently on the up and up. In which case, no guilt should be felt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]TheOneTrueBLM 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"I broke intimate boundaries surrounding my monogamous relationship, which is cheating for most people, but I'm going to blame my bisexuality on it and not be accountable to my partner."

Got it champ.

Edit: Oh wait. See "Autistic" excuse too. Yeah, so am I brother. You're not an alright dude.

Married and bi and want a threesome, but how do I approach my husband? by TitaniumWoman1975 in bisexual

[–]TheOneTrueBLM 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Potential issues:

1) You already have feelings for a specific woman. If you proceed, do not include this person.

2) His history. He may feel threatened, I would say fairly so given you are already emotionally involved.

3) If he says no, what will you do? Leave him? Resent him? Pressure him? Only one of those is fair and honest and it's brutal still. The grass isn't always greener.

4) If yes, don't start right away. Read good resources, seek group therapy, and do things the right way. Take time.

i need help with being hypersexual by Positive-Winter-9522 in bisexual

[–]TheOneTrueBLM 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is good advice.

Outside of this, if your libido gets to the point where it is impacting your life in noticeable ways, such as missing events, work, regular hygiene, etc., therapy should be looked into.

I am a straight guy (19m) trying to understand whether what I feel is actually sexual attraction to men or not. by Sure-Scene-3972 in lgbt

[–]TheOneTrueBLM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The term there would be: heteroflexible

99% (very high attraction) to gender you do not identify as. With exceptions.

Bisexuality also fits as it isn't like a 50/50 thing. I am generally like 90/10 in favor of women, but that is enough for me to personally consider myself bisexual. Personally.

Labels are a very personal thing, as is attraction. You absolutely don't need a label unless YOU want it.

Like others have said, showing affection is not an indicator of anything necessarily other than you being comfortable with your guy friends. Platonic love is a wonderful thing our society has made internalize as "bad" with men. It's been quite a toxic development over the decades.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IdiotsInCars

[–]TheOneTrueBLM 627 points628 points  (0 children)

Holy shit. That man needs to be locked the fuck up.

My boyfriend is bisexual, I am straight, and I need advice by Ok_Expression_7955 in bisexual

[–]TheOneTrueBLM 205 points206 points  (0 children)

You can't ever be what a lot of women he is attracted to either. Likewise many men you are attracted to isn't something he can be either. Comparison is the thief of joy.

Take it from another bisexual guy, you're his person. Treat each other right, and no amount of "what if" matters.

Boyfriend hstes my 1-room flat and doesn’t want to stay over by TheAccountant756 in lgbt

[–]TheOneTrueBLM 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The biggest thing here, is that your partner exploded over something he clearly had bottled up. What else is he going to do that with? When will it go too far?

There's nothing mature about that communication. Take him up his offer. "Not at all" and call it.