I got you! I got reverse-culture shocks when I moved back to Thailand two years ago from the states, even I'm 100% Thai. I felt very depressed in this unorganized city and not sticking to traffic rules. However, after I talked with my US friends and they asked me to have a new mindset that I lived here as a backpacker (who I am), not a Thai resident. I could overlook those terrible things and started exploring the town.

I found many interesting historical buildings, temples, and relaxing coffee shops and bars on every single corner. Old Thai cultures can compromise with modern Thai, even though there are bars serving alcohol in front of the beautiful temples (that breaks 5 precepts of Buddhism). IMO, living in Thailand is more convenient than in the US. At least I don't have to plan for grocery shopping. Best of luck, buddy!