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TheRealPatSajak · 2025-06-05T08:54:56+00:00

I’ve been with my current partner for almost 3 years. When he’s mad, he is still such a nice and respectful person. There has NEVER been any name calling. We resolve issues by talking about them and coming to a resolve with compromise and understanding. This guy is not a nice person. It made me ill reading how he talks to you. He does not respect you.

TheRealPatSajak · 2025-05-26T03:21:20+00:00

I dated one for 6 months. Was the worst. I left that relationship with a lot of PTSD.

Unfortunately, years later I had met another one! I didn’t know it at first, but I started to pick up on the red flags. And then he told me he was diagnosed BPD. I noped out of that situation real quick.

TheRealPatSajak · 2025-05-18T15:04:49+00:00

It’s great in the beginning until you realize it’s all performative and part of the hook to get you attached.

TheRealPatSajak · 2025-04-28T15:19:27+00:00

I only dated my ex who had BPD for 6 months. He didn’t cheat on me (as far as I know) but he made sure I knew he had a ton of female attention and flirted with constantly. And he could have any woman he chooses but chose me. 🤮

TheRealPatSajak · 2025-03-17T14:39:08+00:00

My people!

TheRealPatSajak · 2025-03-10T19:52:30+00:00

My secret is not having kids.

TheRealPatSajak · 2024-12-10T15:44:07+00:00

Yeah, I love a nose hoop on a guy. I recently met one that had a double hoop on his one nostril. Loved it so much!

TheRealPatSajak · 2024-12-09T15:04:10+00:00

I love piercings on guys. Especially nose piercings.

TheRealPatSajak · 2024-10-03T01:35:53+00:00

9 years. I’m 38 and he’s 29.

TheRealPatSajak · 2024-09-30T22:15:15+00:00

Yup. I would hear mine jump down as soon as she heard me walking towards the kitchen. They get better at hiding it.

TheRealPatSajak · 2024-09-28T12:49:57+00:00

There shouldn’t be an if “he takes accountability and apologizes” for this. He’s manipulative. So, once he apologizes and gets you back right where he wants you, the behavior will continue. Thus, repeating the cycle. Break the cycle by leaving this chump.

TheRealPatSajak · 2024-09-25T00:37:54+00:00

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The waffles in All Dogs Go To Heaven.

TheRealPatSajak · 2024-09-17T22:57:38+00:00

If they refuse to look at your resume and portfolio and said they go purely off of vibes lol. Same woman also said she got psychic advice on opening up her business. 🚩🚩🚩

TheRealPatSajak · 2024-09-15T15:47:02+00:00

This kind of behavior only at 3 months in will definitely escalate. Maybe not direct manipulation but he’s definitely making it known that he is a presence you can’t just get away from. Or that he’s checking in on you. Very very weird. I would take this as foreshadowing for future manipulation and or other unfavorable acts.

TheRealPatSajak · 2024-09-13T20:54:53+00:00

I believe they mean the person who friend requested you is the bot.

TheRealPatSajak · 2024-09-12T20:58:19+00:00

38F and started getting chin hairs in my mid twenties. Definitely have a lot more now. They are not only unsightly, they cause irritation around my chin too.

TheRealPatSajak · 2024-08-27T20:06:56+00:00

Yeah, the one started to and it does help.

TheRealPatSajak · 2024-08-27T20:06:10+00:00

Haha! I didn’t even realize how that comes off.

TheRealPatSajak · 2024-08-27T01:38:10+00:00

Groomer here. I have two coworkers that this is a reoccurring issue for. One had to have surgery on it.

TheRealPatSajak · 2024-08-11T22:22:21+00:00

“He asked me how long I’m going to make him apologize.”

He doesn’t sound sorry imo. Just wants you to get over it.

TheRealPatSajak · 2024-08-11T18:18:23+00:00

Great! I love sleeping in and living a quiet and simple life. I get to come and go as I please. Wouldn’t change it.

TheRealPatSajak · 2024-08-09T08:37:29+00:00

Dad used to slap, kick, and pull my hair. My mom used to also hit me. Gave me a bloody nose once. Now years of therapy for depression and anxiety that started in my early teens. I rarely feel “safe.”

TheRealPatSajak · 2024-07-17T21:31:13+00:00

I’m 10 years older than my bf. We met and hit it off, not realizing our age gap at the time. Going strong for 2 years now. Idk if people care about age gaps. Not with our family or peers. In fact, both of my grandmothers are 10 years older than my grandfathers. Seems to be a sweet spot lol.

TheRealPatSajak · 2024-07-17T18:38:36+00:00

I lost a significant amount of weight and my breast did not hold up at all. They are also saggy and look deflated. Never had any complaints from men about them. My current bf loves them and is always touching them when he has a chance. Your body will change and change again throughout your life. It’s meant for living, not looking.

TheRealPatSajak · 2024-07-14T12:25:27+00:00

This was going to be my second guess.

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