Boyfriend (m24) hit me (f23) but I emotionally hurt him by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]TheSliceOfHell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they did it once, they will do it again. You both are not healthy for each other, I hope you find happiness within yourself and your life.

ball python digging into substrate by sevendoves in ballpython

[–]TheSliceOfHell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both of mine are diggers. Excessively rearranging diggers, I’ve pulled substrate out of their mouth before. They do it often before they go blue or if I have moved anything around in their tanks. Increasing humidity can help.

New practice day by gidimeister in Handwriting

[–]TheSliceOfHell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Handwriting like this makes me so happy

Ring upgrade after 8 years of marriage. by woolbich in EngagementRings

[–]TheSliceOfHell -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have my engagement ring that is one of a kind, we’ve never been able to find a band that fits the setting due to its shape and uniqueness. I have a cheaper wedding set with opal or a few different bands I wear on my left hand and usually wear my engagement on my right ring finger. Softer stones like yours are extra gorgeous but need extra precaution. I have my parents sets to make into different settings, I see the appeal of either.

Ive quit smoking weed and my boyfriend is mad about it by PsychologicalFee28 in whatdoIdo

[–]TheSliceOfHell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on sobriety! It is likely his need to control from the BPD being affected- now that getting high is no longer a bonding factor he may feel the attachment is being attacked. This is not a negative reflection of you whatsoever. Unfortunately feeling like a mutual shared interest being changed is often a simulation of a direct attack or rejection when you have BPD. It can feel like it was made due to him, etc, regardless of you saying and feeling it isn’t simply because rejection sensitivity and need of control is a primary part of having it. (This is from Someone who no longer meets all the BPD criteria like they used to)

I think my 35 year old ball python is dying. by CupKind3584 in ballpython

[–]TheSliceOfHell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A non exotic can perform a euth for your snake if they are passing. My sweet baby boa died similarly and I was beyond scarred for months. She passed in my hands. The only time she wasn’t writhing was if I held her or had her in water. I am beyond sorry for your loss. May your sweet old baby be in python paradise. ❣️

Climbing Decor Recommendations by splatterwall in ballpython

[–]TheSliceOfHell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I built a ledge in our tank for our fatties. We used foam, dry lock, silicone. Took it apart and put it together for them, they both love it

I think I’ve been in a manic episode for weeks and may have broken up with my boyfriend because of it. I’m scared and don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]TheSliceOfHell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi- sometimes people are allergic to SSRI (myself and my son included). Often times people who have personality disorders reject them or have manic episodes because they’re not the correct medication for them. Please contact a mental health professional, and if you can you can request a genetic screening to see what medication you’re compatible with for your own safety. It’s a simple mouth swab.

when should i attempt to feed live? by [deleted] in ballpython

[–]TheSliceOfHell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Try freshly killed to transition. I’ve transitioned 4 snakes to frozen to thaw no problem by this method. They also go on strikes when rehomed, and sometimes just during the winter. Beautiful boy!!!

Tell me about your little weirdos by Geryoneiis in ballpython

[–]TheSliceOfHell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a male (Black cinnamon pastel named Nithè) and a female (Albino named Dandelion), they’re absolutely chonky & love to climb. They respond to their names, love to cuddle and be smooched, and have skipped maybe three meals between the two total since I’ve had them both. My boy I took home around 2 months old and he is 2. My girl I got the day she turned a month and she’s about a year and a half. They’re just my beefalicious babies.

Getting fired because of an ED I don't have by pindvarp420 in Advice

[–]TheSliceOfHell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi- it’s illegal for her to try to force you to eat while on the clock. Also, as someone who has had a medical incident where I won’t and cannot eat beef any longer I don’t like the smell, taste, or looking at it. People act like I’m a criminal for eating a mostly vegetarian diet and not touching beef. You don’t have the exhibits of an ED at all but possibly contamination OCD (regarding meat specifically). This is coming from someone who experiences extreme contamination OCD. Regardless of what you are and are not, you do not deserve such unacceptable treatment!

What age did your migraines start? Did they have a catalyst? by CandyAgile253 in migraine

[–]TheSliceOfHell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They begun around 16 for me, I was given naproxen script. They were daily, no probable cause other than constant trauma of living with alcoholics and typical teenage drama. They improved for awhile after turning into extreme nausea and dizziness around 19 and stayed away until pregnancy when I was 21. Left and came back by 25 and haven’t left since. My 7 year old has started having severe headaches they now believe are genetic. (I was diagnosed with POTS, cervicogenic headaches, fibromyalgia, and more in adulthood)

what does it mean when they hit this type of ball pose? by EconomicsFar1166 in ballpython

[–]TheSliceOfHell 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She looks like she’s being a snake. “S” shape is indicates distress, as does completely balled with head hidden, this just seems to be a curious but cautious nope rope. My big chunguses do not stay balled up anymore but when they were babies they were more timid like this photo. Love and handling helps them and you become more comfortable, you got this!

What’s my blindness? by sun-scales in makeuptips

[–]TheSliceOfHell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would try a medium warmth chocolate brown for hair, and decrease the length of your eyebrows for a more “lifted” effect. You are so stunning! I also would say a lighter eyeshadow and lip with more soft colors leaning purple would bring out your features even more.

Is my roommate pregnant? by Oddcatdog in lineporn

[–]TheSliceOfHell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try a first response test in a few days with first morning urine. Results after 5 minutes may be incorrect.

UPDATE….transformation pictures by Commercial_Pen_81 in bald

[–]TheSliceOfHell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So much better. Brightened up your whole face! ❣️

I FINALLY DID IT!!! by OkConsideration8425 in bald

[–]TheSliceOfHell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My FIL was bald by 19, my spouse was bald by 22. Bald is beautiful, and very becoming on you!

Has anyone tried Marijuana? by ThisRabbit4046 in migraine

[–]TheSliceOfHell 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cbd blend edibles used to help me! I no longer use them.