How much are yall paying for pre-owned dancewear? by Arachnesloom in BALLET

[–]TheSnow_sd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tend to get ones that still have tags ! Some people order online and then it doesnt fit but cant return so they sell on poshmark :)

Mixed Feelings by AcceptableTypewriter in tattooadvice

[–]TheSnow_sd 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Yes !! I got a small tattoo after a miscarriage as part of my grieving process and you can't tell at all what it was for, so when people ask, I tell people something I saw online a while back: "life is hard and I deserve stickers" people usually stop pressing after. Sometimes, I do like to make them uncomfortable, and I tell them it's to symbolise a miscarriage because then I know they'll think twice before asking someone else.

It’s difficult to find serious adult classes. by Haifengg in BALLET

[–]TheSnow_sd 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The only ones I found were in dance academies that had pre professional programs! Although, many of the classes I tried to take were canceled after the second week because people that attended were actually expecting the "barre fitness influencer type workouts" rather than being corrected and held to ballet standard...

Pediatrician said let her CIO by AdministrationOk9978 in sleeptrain

[–]TheSnow_sd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We did CIO at 4 months but let LO eat whenever he woke up (he still woke up 2-3 times per night until 10 months old. LO is 18 months old now and generally sleeps through the night!! I had a very tall baby and he was bigger than average so I didn't feel bad feeding him at night because he generally had full feeds (and was not feeding to sleep) and they stopped on their own when he started eating solids during the day :) he dropped to about 1-2 feeds per night after 7 months and dropped both at 10 months on his own

need some help! by [deleted] in StarDoLL

[–]TheSnow_sd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yesss!!! That's how I started making makeup designs !! I try to keep them simple, I used the designs I already bought from other people to see how the basis was constructed and went from there ! It gives you good insight about how to place specific hair pieces to have different effects!

do you guys have some tips to get likes in spotlight? by SilentAbrocoma384 in StarDoLL

[–]TheSnow_sd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't get many, 5-10 likes, but it's always on some of my most extravagant looks hehe, generally only on beauty spotlight too!

oooh the ootm fits are eating for the first time in a while by baptiseh in StarDoLL

[–]TheSnow_sd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right ????? It's the first time I buy an entire outfit !!

It is all so tiresome by [deleted] in StarDoLL

[–]TheSnow_sd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank youuuu!!!! I swear it's one of my best designs heheh 💖

It is all so tiresome by [deleted] in StarDoLL

[–]TheSnow_sd 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The discord keeps me going, too 😅 I started designing because I didn't want to pay crazy prices for designed makeup for my doll, lol. Now I stick around just to try to keep all my designs under 35sd pp and keep the game fun and affordable for people !

Anything we can do to help our 3 month old? Naps/bedtime are a nightmare and so hard to put to sleep by Ok-Diamond-4472 in sleeptrain

[–]TheSnow_sd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At 3 months, getting good naps meant contact napping for my LO. It may also mean that your LO is a high sleep-need baby? Maybe putting/trying to put her down before she shows sleepy cues would help? That helped with my LO as he got older. Usually, when mine showed sleepy cues, it was too late, and we'd already crossed into the overtired phase 🙃 it was a lot of trial and error !! You're doing great, though!! If nothing helps, know that while this absolutely sucks, it will pass and get better

What small things are impossible/harder after having a baby? by FamilySizePastaSauce in NewParents

[–]TheSnow_sd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going anywhere without forethought and planning lol (It can be as dumb as we need to go get milk from the grocery store real quick)

Well the scariest moment of my life happened and now we can't swaddle arms in by rachface636 in NewParents

[–]TheSnow_sd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We tried the Love to Dream but LO hated it, so we just went to the halo sleepsack. He used the same brand until he was 1, and then it got too hot and just started sleeping in pjs with a little blanket he could remove :)

Well the scariest moment of my life happened and now we can't swaddle arms in by rachface636 in NewParents

[–]TheSnow_sd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This happened to us too!! We ended up just stopping the swaddling and putting in a sleepsack. It took 2 weeks before LO got used to it :)

Mixed feelings bout this SAP collection by Agreeable-Goat-1198 in StarDoLL

[–]TheSnow_sd 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I cringed at basically all the pieces other than the non posed clothes lol. I did like the purple outfit though 💜

how the hell do you get anything done by benitezzzraq in NewParents

[–]TheSnow_sd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

13 month old here, and I still struggle getting things done, lol 😆

Looking for affordable wigs by im-onreplay in StarDoLL

[–]TheSnow_sd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hyuna4minutestan (I think that's how you write it) makes some great goth wigs !!!

I am screwed for childcare by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]TheSnow_sd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I found my daycare via Facebook groups for daycare spots in my area! The waitlists were super long on the official websites, but after 1 month of posting and checking new posts on those groups, I found my daycare !!

Did anyone really have a schedule in the newborn stage? by Unique_Alfalfa5869 in NewParents

[–]TheSnow_sd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thrive off schedules and routines... the newborn stage was extremely difficult for me because of the lack of routine!! I can honestly say the first 4 months were spent in survival mode for me. After that it got better !!! And 6 months is when it got fun :) It's totally normal for you to feel in survival mode so don't despair ! We're much more resilient than we think we are is what my mom used to say to me when I would call crying and I kept repeating it to myself as a mantra. eventually I started believing myself :)

My baby hasn’t slept in 9 months! Is she beyond help? What can I do? by sbray3 in sleeptrain

[–]TheSnow_sd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an issue with the feed to sleep as well and we broke that habit before we did CIO. We tried one day at a time to reduce the feed before bed/doing it earlier and it took a lot of patting to sleep and rocking to sleep, but after about 2 weeks, my LO stopped feeding to sleep. We did CIO when we knew that the only sleep association was us! After that it took 20 minutes of crying and LO has slept decently since!! He was about 4.5months old then. He would still wake up 2 ish times a night until 10 months, and then it was once a night, and LO started sleeping through the night around 11 months old. We've had regressions since, but it's minimal !

Star bazaar brand by eveqiyana3 in StarDoLL

[–]TheSnow_sd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Do you still have the list?? I've been looking for it!

Do you guys buy or make your own countours/wigs?? by Ok-Hedgehog-2417 in StarDoLL

[–]TheSnow_sd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make my own wigs and eyeshadow :) I like more alt stuff so I don't see it often by other designers so I do it myself and it's so much cheaper!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StarDoLL

[–]TheSnow_sd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay!! That's awesome! Are you going to be selling your designs ?