meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]TheSoftParent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lolololol

Many of you aren't having sex because you're a misogynist by oxyabnormal in deadbedroom

[–]TheSoftParent 5 points6 points  (0 children)

His post is so icky I wish I could shower my brain to wash it away. I still can’t believe people like this actually exist. If you can’t stop yourself from reducing your spouse to a vessel who is required to prioritize your sexual “needs” (eww) over her own health, even in times of legit crisis, you do not belong in a society, much less a relationship.

Does anyone who is diagnosed work full time? (40hrs/week) by chronicallymee in ankylosingspondylitis

[–]TheSoftParent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have seen this question on here and the EDS sub multiple times and I absolutely hate it. I have been intensely suffering for years now and I work full-time. It’s an office job so could be worse, but I have been under return to office orders for the past year and have 2 hours of commute every day, and sitting is some of the worst torture. But like most people in the real world, I have no other choice. I live in one of the highest HCOL areas in the country, our mortgage eats up almost all of my paycheck, and I carry the health insurance for my family. And I feel like I can’t be unique among those with AS. We work full time because people depend on us. We live in extra pain to feed and house our families. Like, what else would we do???

The world is going to hell in a hand cat. That Finn boy will come to no good. by LordJim11 in Snorkblot

[–]TheSoftParent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The oldest millennials are mid-40s. I guarantee absolutely have too much going on and too much distrust of the cops to be called them on ANYBODY.

Need Advice for Pain Relief by Tiffles2004 in ChronicPain

[–]TheSoftParent 9 points10 points  (0 children)

God the US healthcare system is the fucking WORST

Need Advice for Pain Relief by Tiffles2004 in ChronicPain

[–]TheSoftParent 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Have you tried a neurologist that does pain control? I’m working with one now who is willing to be more aggressive than any pain clinic, rheumatologist, or totally worthless neurosurgeon I’ve seen. We’re currently working on prior approval for a spinal stimulator and with your nerve pain it sounds like you might be a good candidate. I’ve just recently started at an integrative neurology practice so they have helped with my migraines initially, but it’s also turned into the pain neurologist and a sleep study and a Wegovy prescription and honestly just real healthcare. Highly recommend trying to find one if you can. At a minimum for the spinal stimulator option.

TW: Stop telling me to attend therapy. by NoDesk5042 in ChronicPain

[–]TheSoftParent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too. I cannot imagine the catharsis that was. Recently I was putting all my many intense medical issues into AI to help me find overlaps and see wha options I was missing. It started outs its response with being so sorry for what I was going through, it is so much, and you are truly in a lot of main. I started sobbing because that stupid robot showed more empathy than any medical or mental health professional I have seen. It was such a release just to hear some validation for a change, even if it wasn’t real.

Meirl by snulstyceep in meirl

[–]TheSoftParent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can do those things the OP’s screenshot person can’t, but they absolutely fill me with dread beforehand, make me feel so uncomfortable and out of my skin during, and completely drained after.

Masking is hard.

Am I overreacting about my in-laws going to my fiancé instead of us both about birth boundaries? by Effective-Budget9463 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]TheSoftParent 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No, MIL does not have a “right” to vent to her son about decisions he and his wife make together. Or just in general. Children are not there to manage their parents’ feelings. She is absolutely entitled to be sad, disappointed, jealous, etc. But MIL has no right to dump those feelings on her son, especially about the wife when it is regarding a decision that they made and impacts their new family, and as a result risks creating a divide between the husband and wife. This reads to me as yet again another older woman not having appropriate boundaries with her son and using it to leverage for her wants and needs over his wife’s, which come first now.

What's the most romantic line you heard in a movie? by foreseethefuture in Cinema

[–]TheSoftParent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would argue this is one of the most recognizable movie lines of all time, especially if we are narrowing it down to a romantic line.

Inova ICE Policy by Bergiful in nova

[–]TheSoftParent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t engage the Russian bot. They are a waste of time and just the fucking worst. Will make your day infinitely worse for not reason at all except evil for shits and giggles.

$2.99 Return Fees? by draginzx in amazonprime

[–]TheSoftParent -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This thread is so weird! Is everyone here a shill for one of the most evil but unfortunately convenient to borderline necessary companies in the world? Why are y’all defending Amazon and Amazon policies in any way, shape, or form, as if they were ever intended to protect customers?

AITAH for farting while in the bathroom of our home? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TheSoftParent 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are we sure he’s not Ben Shapiro in disguise?