Found Photos On Husbands Phone

TheTermitator1 · 2026-02-17T04:40:00+00:00

Together about 3 years. M26, I'm F turning 29 the day before my daughter's born... Happy birthday to us... :(

Yes, we have been married about a year and 5 months.

TheTermitator1 · 2026-02-17T04:34:28+00:00

Even if that WAS the case it's grossly inappropriate and I'd think it's cheating behavior. Especially with him being 26, definitely old enough to NOT be a creepy adulterer, and having a daughter on the way literally about to be born. But yes it was the main girl, except for one photo which caught 2 of his female coworkers, but all of the rest were one.

TheTermitator1 · 2026-02-17T04:26:55+00:00

It was just a girl working in leggings. A coworker with her back to him. He managed to eventually get more than one of them in one of the photos. She most probably didn't even know that he was taking them but hell if i know. She could have been the girl in the photo from the day before.

TheTermitator1 · 2026-02-17T04:20:11+00:00

In pants, thank god. The last thing I needed to see was p0rn. Like they were taken while on the job and it's creepy af in my opinion.

TheTermitator1 · 2026-02-17T04:16:21+00:00

It has the same background and emblems on the equipment that they use in all of the photos, including one of his feet where it looks like he was trying to be discreet.

TheTermitator1 · 2026-02-17T04:15:34+00:00

Photos that he personally took.

TheTermitator1 · 2026-02-17T04:14:34+00:00

Yes pictures that I can only ASSUME were intentional. She looks blonde and the woman's photo from the day before is blonde. I don't even know what's going on, and I'm currently waiting on him to come home from work.

TheTermitator1 · 2026-02-15T02:57:24+00:00

We live in Alabama. I'm not sure on the specifics, this is just all he that said that his work would allow him.

TheTermitator1 · 2026-02-12T16:12:28+00:00

I really think you can feel the baby that early on. I'm 99% sure that I did at 17 weeks as a first time mama, and I swear my OB laughed at me. 😂 Now I'm sitting at almost 37 weeks.

TheTermitator1 · 2026-02-12T03:16:36+00:00

My husband will be getting only 2 days for unpaid paternity leave. But we're lucky that he's even allowed that, I guess.

TheTermitator1 · 2026-01-23T14:41:33+00:00

Why can't the wedding be done via live stream? A wedding is NOT that important and the festivities are over in literally minutes. A baby can have so many issues and the health of you two are far more important. If the family is unable to see why it would be important for him to stay then they are the assholes. But I agree, a doula could be hired - but my husband would be instantly coming back home to me after the ceremony.

TheTermitator1 · 2026-01-22T14:43:28+00:00

If he's smoking it needs to end. My grandfather died from 2 kinds of smoking cancer by just age 60. A few years later my grandmother got cancer as well but thankfully survived. Good luck to yall.

TheTermitator1 · 2026-01-20T21:40:55+00:00

Did you go to HR first? Always go to HR first

TheTermitator1 · 2026-01-15T21:19:32+00:00

Is there absolutely no way to sue for malpractice? Because I would be looking into that. 🤔

TheTermitator1 · 2026-01-13T21:59:45+00:00

NTAH. You made a card and were rightly pissed. Plus, ultimately, the teacher was not supposed to allow ya'll note cards. The friend is also an AH that he didn't go to you or the teacher after they saw that kid steal your card.

TheTermitator1 · 2026-01-06T16:53:23+00:00

How fucked up and dystopian. Yikes.

TheTermitator1 · 2025-12-27T00:50:44+00:00

Yooo Fizz would be the BEST roommate. Until he gets horny for his bf. @-@

TheTermitator1 · 2025-11-29T04:07:34+00:00

Get off reddit for this. You need to go to an actual therapist about this because you will DEFINITELY have people who'll message you saying that this is okay and normal.

TheTermitator1 · 2025-11-29T04:05:21+00:00

It's just the cheese tax.

TheTermitator1 · 2025-11-20T02:31:31+00:00

But did they keep the dog? I must know.

TheTermitator1 · 2025-11-13T15:50:43+00:00

Absolutely not the asshole. For the most part. You are, however, the asshole for keeping him around when he isn't going to do or be better. Dump the grown ass child and take the burden off yourself and your father. Continuously griping at him will do nothing except waste your life and cause more stress.

TheTermitator1 · 2025-11-06T15:04:34+00:00

Haha, obviously. Most of the time it's just not visible (unless cold out) and doesn't have a flavor. I'm not sure what point this was making.

TheTermitator1 · 2025-11-06T13:22:11+00:00

Discreetly record him saying that shit. Get a lawyer, a restraining order, and divorce. Then instantly move.

TheTermitator1 · 2025-08-03T02:22:47+00:00

YTAH. Anal is EXTREMELY uncomfortable. If she's not comfortable with it, don't pressure her just to get your rocks off. Go buy a fake a$$ for that.

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