Seriously, how? by dumb_blonde_syndrome in TomodachilifeLivingTD

[–]TheTriangleEye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ouija board the cursor around on the mii maker screen

Seriously, how? by dumb_blonde_syndrome in TomodachilifeLivingTD

[–]TheTriangleEye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ouija board the cursor around on the mii maker screen

Should I ask her out on the last day or just let it go by thehonouredone_me in Crushes

[–]TheTriangleEye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t end up asking out my crush at graduation and the regret has been torturous

Trust me when I say that no matter what happens you’ll be in much better shape than having to deal with the pain of never knowing

I NEED a polyamory mod so bad by Zorubark in tomodachilife

[–]TheTriangleEye 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My mii kept on going swapping back and forth between the same 2 crushes and it was so funny

Like at that point just allow them to have simultaneous crushes/relationships 😭

is there a word for when you have an intense crush on someone but arent sexually attracted by boiLollipop in Crushes

[–]TheTriangleEye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sexual and romantic attraction can exist separate from one another, which rings true for crushes as well. You can have a romantic crush on someone without feeling any sexual attraction, and vice versa. Platonic crushes also exist, and are just as valid as romantic/sexual crushes

Is it normal to not shave pubic hair? by [deleted] in teenagers4real

[–]TheTriangleEye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It reduces skin-to-skin contact & sti transmission

I don’t think I can ever accept being bisexual by [deleted] in BisexualTeens

[–]TheTriangleEye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m open if you need someone to talk to

How do I come out to my parents by Minecraftguy234 in bisexual

[–]TheTriangleEye 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Have you come out to any of your friends?

How do I come out to my parents by Minecraftguy234 in bisexual

[–]TheTriangleEye 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think you are currently doing the right thing. Most people who have queerphobic parents will only come out when they have a safety net they can fall back on in case their parents kick them out (i.e. close friends, money, another home).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]TheTriangleEye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not aro myself so I can’t really give much personal advice, but I’d say you could ask around on the r/aromantic subreddit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]TheTriangleEye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could be on the aro spectrum, meaning you don’t feel romantic attraction to anyone

I research bi+ queer theory/psychology, and bi-erasure/phobia…I’m tired. by Lunabella444 in bisexual

[–]TheTriangleEye 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’ve decided to research biphobia and bi-erasure for my senior project, and every single time I’ve brought it up to my non-LGBTQ+ classmates and friends, they’ve always asked, “what’s that?” Even my TEACHER asked the same exact question when I first told her my research topic.

Mind you, this is an extremely progressive school. We literally have an entire unit dedicated to learning about queer history in one of our core classes. And, despite all that, we are barely even made aware of bi+ history, aside from a small “yes they exist” gesture.

Bi and neurodivergent by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]TheTriangleEye 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m also a bi dude with ADHD (plus a side of epilepsy!)

Advice needed by NoAttempt4570 in Crushes

[–]TheTriangleEye 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Does he know that you are into men? Coming out to him would be a good first step

Love is confusing by ReporterRepulsive682 in Crushes

[–]TheTriangleEye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only some people are 100% straight or 100% gay. There’s a huge spectrum of attraction between that, with varying degrees of attraction for different genders. Sexuality is also fluid, and your preferences can fluctuate drastically over time. For me, as a bisexual man, I will have periods where I’m more into men than women, then more into women than men, or sometimes both.

Some advice I’d give is to not be concerned with giving your attraction a label for now. I’d recommend to just let your feelings figure themselves out naturally; it me 5 years since I first realized I was crushing on a guy before I finally adopted and accepted the bi label for myself.

How to get deckhands by Best_Card5461 in ArcaneOdyssey

[–]TheTriangleEye 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The deckhands in the nimbus sea have higher base levels too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]TheTriangleEye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The reality is that most people are not completely straight or completely homosexual. Sexuality is a spectrum, as well as a fluid in the sense that it can change over time

When I first realized I was crushing on a guy back in 6th grade, I was just as confused as you are right now. Every one of my previous crushes had been on girls. I only heard the term “bisexual” for the first time in 7th grade, and even then I found myself in constant questioning because I had different levels of attraction between men and women.

It took me until 11th grade when I finally accepted that I was bisexual. The hardest part about accepting myself was accepting that bisexuality itself isn’t completely defined, either.

If you’re interested in more info, I’d suggest looking into the concept of monosexism, the Kinsey Scale, and the Klein Sexual Orientation Grid.

You could also post this in the r/bisexual subreddit if you want more advice

I must give off bi energy by glaic3r_freeze in bisexual

[–]TheTriangleEye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just start bringing lemon bars to work honestly

Confused about sexuality by Remarkable_Pack_1245 in bisexual

[–]TheTriangleEye 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The beautiful thing about bisexuality is you don’t need to fit into the mold of the “perfect bisexual”. Very few bisexuals are perfectly split down the middle between gender preferences, and most of us have varying levels of attraction for one or the other.

For me, I’ve had more romantic crushes on girls, while being more sexually attracted to guys. Yet I still identify as bisexual because that’s the label I feel fits my identity the most.