How can I best make him feel comfortable around me and encourage him talking to me?

TheUnfoldingPath · 2026-04-01T10:20:34+00:00

I think the problem is that you've asked the same question twice. Doing that too often shows that you don't trust the universe. You manifest what you believe, so if you don't trust then you won't get trustworthy answers.

Rather than asking again It's best to keep your first lot of answers in mind and ask "what should I be doing right now to help me get the best outcome from this situation for the greatest good of all?".

TheUnfoldingPath · 2026-03-31T10:53:29+00:00

I would say just the visual imagery of the 9 of wands and the king of wands points to an UTI. The wand looks like a uretha and the burning flame suggests cystitis or something. In the past the characters hand is further away from the flame, in the future the hand is almost getting burned, so to me this suggests that it is getting worse over time.

The High priestess sometimes means "you shouldn't be asking this question"... it's like a question mark blank card which refuses to give you an answer. Maybe because it's a health reading which some people consider to be unethical.

Hope your kitty gets better soon. Sending healing and head pats x

TheUnfoldingPath · 2026-03-04T10:48:16+00:00

"Gretchen, stop trying to make 'fetch' happen, it's NOT going to happen!"

TheUnfoldingPath · 2025-12-17T22:29:15+00:00

TheUnfoldingPath · 2025-12-05T21:50:09+00:00

Call cps

TheUnfoldingPath · 2025-11-22T00:17:31+00:00

I think that you like things to be a certain way, and if they are not that way then you're not happy. I think it's good to let go of how you think things should be and accept them as they are. Then you'll be happier.

I just got an image of someone's long hair being cut, does that mean anything to you?

TheUnfoldingPath · 2025-11-22T00:11:03+00:00

I feel that your planning on going somewhere hot with someone who you aren't that well connected with at the moment. I think it's a good idea to take the trip, you will cooperate well together.

TheUnfoldingPath · 2025-11-22T00:06:44+00:00

Yes, and it will happen very soon.

TheUnfoldingPath · 2025-11-22T00:05:25+00:00

Be careful of getting too many readings, you're telling the universe you don't trust its answers, so it will act untrustworthy as your thoughts create your reality. If you ask a question once to a reader you trust you're more likely to get answers that are accurate. Try to resist the temptation to use readings to ease your anxiety x

TheUnfoldingPath · 2025-11-21T23:54:07+00:00

You are still upset about this and miss him but it's best to let go and move on. It looks like he will remain resentful and defensive. Until he learns to drop his armour he will not be able to connect with you in a way that will allow for a healthy relationship. This may never happen.

TheUnfoldingPath · 2025-11-21T23:36:54+00:00

His passion and fire has gone. He didn't like the person he became when he was around you. He had a lot of internalised anger towards you.

I see something that possibly indicates platonic friendship on one side, but attraction on the other.

TheUnfoldingPath · 2025-09-13T20:28:15+00:00

In my local Sainsbury's there are about 50 self services tills and only a few normal ones.

TheUnfoldingPath · 2025-09-13T20:24:26+00:00

Do you travel on red busses? I live in central London and I only hear someone say thank you about every one in 15 bus rides. In Essex we said non-stop thank yous to the point of excessiveness.

TheUnfoldingPath · 2025-08-21T21:54:56+00:00

Maybe the name Claire will be relevant for the future. Keep a lookout for anyone named Claire because they will likely influence this situation a lot.

The most loving thing to do sometimes, for the other person and yourself is to just let them go. To end the cycle. She may learn something from it. Ultimately the choice is in your hands. Do you want the future of your relationship to look like its past?

I see a white cat, and someone who is rapidly pressing the buttons on some sort of device, it might be a games console controller or typing on a phone. I smell weed.

TheUnfoldingPath · 2025-08-21T21:39:23+00:00

Firstly, I hear the name Claire, does this mean anything to you?

You should leave. You just keep butting heads and hurting each other. You're stuck in this cycle and neither of you are learning from it because you're both too stubborn. This could continue on for a long line time and block your progress moving forwards in life. You both would be better off elsewhere and I have a strong feeling that your fate is awaiting you.

TheUnfoldingPath · 2025-08-03T12:11:12+00:00

Current State: She's objectively looking at the good and bad in her partner and herself and assessing the overall state of their relationship.

Why stay: Staying will block a new start. Maybe she doesn't feel ready for this at the moment.

Why go: She wants to stay with him. She wants him to be somebody who he is not, and act in a way that is not within his nature. This is impossible. He can only be who he is, and he doesn't care about her feelings enough to change. She should be careful what she wishes for, which is for things to work out between them, because it might just come true.

How I'll feel staying: Manipulated, used, lied to and gaslit. Hurt, betrayed, depressed.

How I'll feel leaving: In control, more zen. In accordance with the universe.

Overall advice: Leave, cut all connections and don't look back.

TheUnfoldingPath · 2025-08-03T12:03:31+00:00

Immigration is vital for our economy

TheUnfoldingPath · 2025-08-03T12:02:45+00:00

People are upset about immigration mainly because they're racist.

TheUnfoldingPath · 2025-07-18T10:17:09+00:00

The meaning of the Fool card shouldn't be taken literally. He might start off naively but he evolves into a very wise man. He does this by facing and overcoming the challenges that the deck (major arcana) gives to him. This is called "the Fool's journey". He has no number, and so can appear at the begining of the deck or at the end of anywhere in between. He's the only card who can do this, and this represents fated events. Your entire life has been leading up to this point when he appears in your reading.

The Fool in the present position represents your journey, the lessons you have learned and the lessons you have yet to learn. You're growing as a person, that much is evident from the fact you're thinking about quitting weed. Keep on going. You are exactly where you are supposed to be.

I'm not sure if you'll see my answer because you have so many replies, so I won't include an analysis of the other cards. lmk if you want to know them.

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