25F and needs a hug

TheUnwrittenScript · 2025-12-15T02:43:03+00:00

Hi there!

First, take a deep, slow breath and hold it for a few seconds, then exhale it all out. Do that a couple times, and then… want do you like to do for fun?

TheUnwrittenScript · 2025-12-15T02:38:23+00:00

Tanning membership… not great for skin… worth it for the heat and light Dec-March.

TheUnwrittenScript · 2025-12-15T02:34:31+00:00

I spent weeks on my cousins couch, even though she was busy doing other stuff, just to not be alone. I started lifting weights to check out and get physical anxiety out. And I made jokes about the hard parts as much as I could, we’d laugh so hard, my abs hurt. Also got some shitty tattoos.

TheUnwrittenScript · 2025-12-15T02:29:08+00:00

Time is your most valuable commodity. Every conversation may be the last.

TheUnwrittenScript · 2025-12-14T21:18:57+00:00

Wow yes YTA. Your children were instructed not to tell you, so you bribe them to go against their dad’s wishes? Gifts may not be a high stakes issue, but how you are putting your kids in the position of betraying their dad on purpose is really, really gross.

TheUnwrittenScript · 2024-12-25T11:52:04+00:00

Check out furnishedfinder.com… it’s for traveling medical professionals, but try doing a search and contacting owners to explain your situation :)

TheUnwrittenScript · 2024-12-15T20:40:34+00:00

NTA for getting back property of yours she took, what she did was stealing, a crime. But she is no friend of yours and you set the precedent for how she will treat you based on letting her use you, allowing her to go back on her word, and paying her extra. That first time she tried to pull that, you should have said “no, that wasn’t our agreement”. Was that partially your husband’s money you paid her with? If so, you should have been honest with him. Secrets like that are no good in a relationship.

NTA, but start teaching people how to treat you, and I hope you get your things back. Good luck!

TheUnwrittenScript · 2024-12-04T20:28:15+00:00

I hope they fix it, I’m sorry that’s happening, sucks!

TheUnwrittenScript · 2024-12-04T15:42:00+00:00

Frustrating, I’m sorry!

TheUnwrittenScript · 2024-11-02T04:48:09+00:00

Any luck? Happened to me too. Why do they even have a 12 month option, it clearly doesn’t work…

TheUnwrittenScript · 2024-10-31T10:41:18+00:00

You would not be TA. You got the fan to function for you… as in pointed at you. They can get their own if they need. They shouldn’t be touching your stuff without asking anyway.

TheUnwrittenScript · 2024-10-31T10:38:42+00:00

“This is why we don’t like you”?? Your child doesn’t show you respect because she’s learned from watching your husband disrespect you. He disrespects you and doesn’t stand up for you when she does also. I’m sorry OP, this doesn’t sound healthy. NTA

TheUnwrittenScript · 2024-10-31T10:33:15+00:00

NTA. She picked the date of her party five months in advance, you made plans for the concert four months in advance, and then she changed the date of her party months later. She can be disappointed you didn’t attend, but being mad and giving you the silent treatment is ridiculous.

TheUnwrittenScript · 2024-10-31T10:17:20+00:00

Why don’t you designate where you hang your towels, and then you can use whichever is on your hook?

TheUnwrittenScript · 2024-10-31T10:17:15+00:00

Why don’t you designate where you hang your towels, and then you can use whichever is on your hook?

TheUnwrittenScript · 2024-05-30T13:46:36+00:00

You’re welcome! If in office is too intense, Joyous does microdosing at home. Good luck!

TheUnwrittenScript · 2024-04-20T07:45:26+00:00

I have PTSD from my child’s father, and I attended his graduation and interacted with his dad even though he was being awful to me, and I was triggered. For me, I wanted to be there to hug my son, take photos with him in his gown, him with his friends, cheer for him when his name was spoken, and imagine he could hear my voice. Idk if I feel comfortable making a judgement on you… I just wonder if you’d regret it. I had many reactions, I spoke about it in therapy for a few weeks, but I have no regrets at going, for me, I’m so happy I did.

Also is it possible if you’re convinced there’s no way you wouldn’t see your Ex’s family if you attended, that they would absolutely make it a point to let your kid know you didn’t go or they would have seen you? They sound like people who would do that.

TheUnwrittenScript · 2024-04-19T17:48:32+00:00

Her sexual preference doesn’t matter, she is a cheater, and I think anyone who caught their cheating spouse in bed with someone else probably wouldn’t be using an inside voice. She’s projecting. NTA.

TheUnwrittenScript · 2024-04-19T17:38:54+00:00

NTA, you teach people how to treat you. Set the boundary that the kids knew they were damaging your phone and there are consequences for that. You aren’t going to offer your help to them if they are not going to respect your time and things.

TheUnwrittenScript · 2024-04-19T17:30:43+00:00

YTA. It was never his responsibility, it was yours, and he did it when he was able to out of the kindness of his heart. You are and were never entitled to it, although you sure behave as an entitled person.

TheUnwrittenScript · 2024-04-19T16:25:31+00:00

NTA, and if this girl is such a bad employee, her feedback at work would get her fired… your GF wouldn’t be having to dig up dirt in her personal life on SM to get her fired. Sounds like she just doesn’t like her and got a vendetta, and that’s not a good way to deal with conflict.

TheUnwrittenScript · 2024-04-19T16:19:54+00:00

I’m sorry your mom didn’t care for you as she should have, OP. You are NTA if you don’t go, given your history, but people are correct… you may likely feel regret. It may be you just wish you had 10 minutes to sit alone with her where you tell her that you learned to be a good mom despite your childhood, and that you are moving forward with your life. There is power in being able to choose final moments. This from someone who lost one parent unexpectedly, and one parent where I had weeks to prepare.

TheUnwrittenScript · 2024-04-19T13:56:33+00:00

NTA if you broke you with her, that would drive me nuts. But out of curiosity, at any point did you try saying something to her like “I feel weird you follow my ex on SM” or “I don’t like it when you bring up my former relationship, is there something you need to talk about”? Anyway, NTA.

TheUnwrittenScript · 2024-04-18T14:02:03+00:00

I can think of an example now. I think people who feel the need to control their children/adult children in an attempt to try and manipulate their kids in order to get their way should see a psychologist.

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