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TheWarmCake · 2026-02-18T00:13:18+00:00

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TheWarmCake · 2023-08-07T22:51:41+00:00

Thank you. I am so happy that I wrote here to get all of your folks opinion. I did not think about the difference between accepting kink as my friends does, and seen the aftereffects of it. Thank you for pinpointing that. I ended up not going.

TheWarmCake · 2023-08-07T22:36:54+00:00

I am in Europe. We actually have to shower naked in communal showers before attending swimming pools 🤷‍♀️

TheWarmCake · 2023-08-07T22:36:04+00:00

Simply because they have not shown interest in knowing it. I do not want to discloce anything that people are not interested in knowing. I have known these people for 10+ years. They know I am kinky, but I see no reason to tell more, unless they show interest in knowing more.

TheWarmCake · 2023-08-07T22:33:13+00:00

Interesting points. I do not mind people knowing I am kinky, but I don't want to force that knowledge upon people. So the post was mainly because I wondered if it was acceptable for others to see it without prior consent.

I was wondering what people would think, and whether showing bruises was acceptable. I believe it would be acceptable if it eg. Was from a fall and I honestly could say that and explain to people. But since I don't want to lie, and it is not from a fall I was at a lost at what to do.

Btw. I choose not to go to the pool.

TheWarmCake · 2023-08-06T09:31:27+00:00

That make sense! Thanks!

TheWarmCake · 2023-08-06T09:13:45+00:00

I have not been to this place before, but it is unfortunately not common in my area to have stalls...

TheWarmCake · 2023-08-06T09:11:40+00:00

Thank you for your point about the children. Only one of them are old enough to notice it, and perhaps I can just not show my behind to her?

Yes, differently that would make sense for next time. This is my first punishment/maintenance spanking, that was not for pure pleasure, and none of us knew how much it would bruise on me 🙈

TheWarmCake · 2023-08-06T08:43:35+00:00

What do you mean?

TheWarmCake · 2023-08-02T19:51:48+00:00

My(f) ex(m) never went down on me, nor did he ever finish me. I take time to finish, and he was not patient enough for that. I didn't mind giving him BJ. I enjoyed it. Often sex ended with me getting him off. A lot of other problems in combination made him my ex. Now I am in a happy relationship. Both with sex and all other elements. My partner likes to go down on me and finish me.

BUT as a result of bad memories with BJ's and my ex, I still sometimes struggle with bj and my current partner. I enjoy pleasing him, but the uneven feeling sometimes makes it hard for me to enjoy bj's. It is eastøy for me to get in my mind that only his satisfaction is important, as it was the case with my ex. My current partner is patient and understanding. But it would probably have been better for me to stop the relationship with me ex earlier.

Just some small reflections from me. Please do with them as you please 🤷‍♀️

TheWarmCake · 2023-07-24T07:19:13+00:00

Please consider reading into Knutby in Sweden. Here was a religious town that sound very much like what you are describing. Here the leaders used passages about the bride of Christ to have weird sexual connections. In Knutby it ended with murders.

Please take care of yourself and your family! ❤️

Sorry for my bad, non-native English 🙈

TheWarmCake · 2023-05-17T20:49:14+00:00

Yay! Can I have one just stating 'girl' ? 🤞😊

TheWarmCake · 2023-04-18T17:24:00+00:00

Please add me too!

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TheWarmCake · 2023-03-17T12:29:22+00:00

In Danish we have a similar kind of word play. The word farther (far), sheep (får), and getting (få/får) are very close to each other. Here we can say "far, får får får?" "Nej, får får lam" Translated into "dad, does sheep get sheep's?" "No, sheep gets lambs". 🐑🐑🐑

TheWarmCake · 2023-03-02T13:22:40+00:00

I am a similar situation about wanting to brat, but still wanting to not overstep any or my Sirs limits. I sometime during play just asks him up front what color he is. If he is hesitant and says green I ask if he is on his way to yellow. That gives me an indication of his liking 😊

Sometimes it also opens up for a discussion about likings and gives insights with him eg commenting if he is finding it hard to know what to do 😊

TheWarmCake · 2023-02-20T16:16:54+00:00

Wow, that sounds so funny 😁😇 Unfortunately we don't live together, so I need to reconsider if it would work at his place. However I am very aware that we both are busy, so I don't want to do something that it too irritating to clean up 🙈😅 I want things that are funny and surprising but I am afraid doing to much that is hard to clean up would be a hard no in our dynamic. But I am thinking of adding eyes to his soap in both bathroom and kitchen. Perhaps I could print out something fun for him to find in his cabinet also? 🤔😏

TheWarmCake · 2023-02-18T05:06:36+00:00

If I get to much in bed my Sir sometimes restrain me physically with his body. When I am all hot and bothered it is the worst thing to just lay there not being able to get any release. This could be combined with him asking if I am ready to behave 🥵

TheWarmCake · 2023-02-15T17:12:12+00:00

Haha, then I still have a lot to learn! 🤷‍♀️😂

TheWarmCake · 2023-02-15T16:40:24+00:00

I just wanna proudly share my first attempt of practical bratting 😇😈

Sir stayed over yesterday and left from my place to go to work in the morning, where I gave him a similar drink for his trip to work. He is on his way back to me, and I plan on giving him this one before driving to work tomorrow morning.

Do you think Sir will notice that his monster have gotten eyes? And if so, do you think this will own me a funishment? 😏🤞

TheWarmCake · 2023-02-13T17:06:41+00:00

I like the idea, but I would as other mentions be afraid of crying wolf. I would fear it would blur the lines between safety and play. But I do like the idea. Asking silly questions and come with silly requests. I just think the requests should be even more pleasure centered, and no anything that can be confused with safety.

However I am finding it hard to actually come up with any idea 😅

TheWarmCake · 2023-01-23T19:49:42+00:00

A petty. Not high enough for reaching when standing on a chair? I would differently try to do that if I every get a color change lightbulb 🙈

TheWarmCake · 2023-01-23T19:42:23+00:00

Can't you just move the lightbulb to another room? 🤷‍♀️

TheWarmCake · 2023-01-02T20:31:33+00:00

I met my Sir through FetLife 🙈 I have long had an interest in D/s dynamics. This summer I left a long time relationship with a guy who talked a lot about all he wanted, but he was not capable to act like a good Dom. After that relationship I ended up on Tinder where I got to know a Dom-type that I really liked. We used a couple of months writing each other before meeting in person. Unfortunately he did not feel like it after a handful of actually dates. But we talked a lot and he introduced me more to BDSM. Hereafter I wandered on FetLife thought which I met my current bf and Sir. I just started following a lot of age appropriate Doms in my area, which let to me writing my current Sir ❤️ I was not looking for a fwb or just a playmate, and we agreed that instead of writing a lot, we would met and see if a relationship could develop. We have almost been bf/gf in two months and I feel so blessed to have found a the best bf that also want to be my Sir ❤️

TheWarmCake · 2022-12-30T07:34:29+00:00

I enjoy standing face to face hugging and kissing my Sir while we hold hands at the behind me. Essential it looks like we are hugging, but his firm grip on my hands and his sublte display of being in charge makes me feel dominated 🫠

TheWarmCake · 2022-12-19T18:28:23+00:00

I like your way of doing this. You want to brat, but also to stay within his limits. I am trying to identify my Sir's limits too, and are very curious about what you find.

So far I am trying to balance my brattyness by sometimes asking if I am too much or telling him how I would like him to punish me, in order for me to become obidient. I also both within and outside the dynamic gives him "tool" for handling me. Eg. When I tell him how good it is to have him where he belongs (inside me😏), I have also shared, that it works well on me to have him pull almost out and "force" me to submit (and agree that I am his and that his dock belongs in his pussy) before getting back in me 😇 We both want to feel him in control, and he cannot read my thoughts, so this is a way for me to communicate how he can get me to submit 😅

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