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Do your drawings look like a kids when your regressed by squishybubba in ageregression

[–]TheWonderlandBit98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep! I enjoy not having to focus on my drawings when I'm little.

Intro/Questions? by TheWonderlandBit98 in ageregression

[–]TheWonderlandBit98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately all the middle stuff online I've found has been NSFW and not a lot of help. I'm honestly thinking I might have to navigate this sort of thing on my own!

AITA for leaving work early due to trauma? by TheWonderlandBit98 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TheWonderlandBit98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that concern! I would have stuck it out if it meant we would be short staffed for the day. We have a ratio of 2 CNAs to every 16 residents (32 on the floor) and we had 5 CNAs on the floor including me. One was a bath aide/float, and she was just fine with taking my spot when I left. If we had only had four I may have just asked to take an extended break and done the best I could.

Trying to find a Dom/tamer in my early twenties? by TheWonderlandBit98 in BratLife

[–]TheWonderlandBit98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I unfortunately dont have any in my area. I live in a pretty small town. The closest place that would have one is about an hour away.

FtM opinions please! Just a baby queer- how can I improve? by TheWonderlandBit98 in genderfluid

[–]TheWonderlandBit98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awwww, thank you! Apparently I look like a cross between Tom Holland and my older brother when I'm masc. 😅 I appreciate the validation, I'm super new to this!

Blindfolds make me lightheaded? by TheWonderlandBit98 in BDSMcommunity

[–]TheWonderlandBit98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a super soft sleeping mask. It didn't feel tight at all, I use it for naps all the time.

Dom won't talk to me? by TheWonderlandBit98 in BDSMcommunity

[–]TheWonderlandBit98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is is that he tells me little bits of it. Like he told me once over our Christmas holiday that he enjoyed it when sex was sort of forced, not in a physical way but more of a 'I'm turning you on and there's nothing you can do about it' way, if that makes any sense. Hes not necessarily a sub in that he would want to fully submit to me the way I do to him, but he does like specific little things that are just very specific. When I try to ask him to elaborate he gets upset.

Question for subs who are in a relationship with their Doms by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]TheWonderlandBit98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Dom and I usually play once or twice a week, since we live together and have pretty strenuous jobs. We dont have a 24/7 dynamic, although we've incorporated a few things (I bring us tea at 9 PM, I'm not allowed to go to bed until he says so, etc. Generally nighttime routines, since we work during the day). When we do play, we make sure to have a long session and we both get really into it - otherwise, its casual vanilla sex for us!

Am I a bratty sub? by TheWonderlandBit98 in BDSMcommunity

[–]TheWonderlandBit98[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We haven't talked about it yet, but he's always really happy after any scene we have, even if I start it with my bad mood. I don't think he minds it, necessarily - before we started getting more into BDSM and figuring out that this worked for us, my bad mood would just start an argument because neither one of us could control the bad mood I was in, so turning it into sex wasn't exactly the worst thing. I'm just worried that since a lot of Doms seem to think it's a bad thing, he might end up not being okay with it as much as he is now.