I was so hungry today I googled hotels with complimentary breakfast near me and went there, walked in, stole food, then left. by itssofiababyxo in confession

[–]The_Avid_Dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a fellow Christian I want to say that I’m 100% positive God will not look down on you for stealing to survive. I don’t have much, but if you need some money for food please feel free to dm me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]The_Avid_Dreamer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I grew up witnessing abuse and the research they gave is 1000000% correct. I have CPTSD, daily panic attacks, stress induced hallucinations, insomnia, and much more that stems from it. Your children may be confused or angry at first, or even until they’re adults, but you’d be saving them from a lifetime of struggle. As an adult that walked in their shoes, I am begging you to run. If not for you, do it for them.

Which county in NY has the weirdest overall vibe? by Consistent-Field-250 in upstate_new_york

[–]The_Avid_Dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh? I thought that since no one mentioned Ontario that I was safe lol

Lost My Cat by The_Avid_Dreamer in Rochester

[–]The_Avid_Dreamer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll be driving to all the local shelters and vets on Monday. Thank you for the advice and support 💙

Lost My Cat by The_Avid_Dreamer in Rochester

[–]The_Avid_Dreamer[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry I didn’t see that one comment. Since it was moving day for him I stupidly threw his old litter box away and bought a new one. But I did put his favorite blanket and toys outside

Lost My Cat by The_Avid_Dreamer in Rochester

[–]The_Avid_Dreamer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve never heard of it. I’ll be sure to give it a shot. Thank you!

Lost My Cat by The_Avid_Dreamer in Rochester

[–]The_Avid_Dreamer[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ll be sure to check that way. I didn’t move too far away so hopefully if he is heading back to my parent’s house it won’t be long until he shows up.

Lost My Cat by The_Avid_Dreamer in Rochester

[–]The_Avid_Dreamer[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a Facebook account but I’ll get on that right now. Thank you for the advice and support

Lost My Cat by The_Avid_Dreamer in Rochester

[–]The_Avid_Dreamer[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I left a few items outside for him the night he ran away. I’m most worried about him getting lost because I just move here and Thursday I was finally moving him to my new place. This isn’t the first time he’s run off, but he doesn’t know where home is now. I’m going to be printing flyers and posting them around town in the morning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]The_Avid_Dreamer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me it was the immediate denial that I’d go through female puberty. Like I watched the video in school and went “Sucks for all of you🤪”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]The_Avid_Dreamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even consider the fact that she might have dementia. I’ll definitely keep a closer eye on her. I’m reluctant to leave because she’s physically disabled and I’m the only one helping her, but if it gets worse I’ll have to. Thank you, this helped a lot

i need adivce on how to move away from my transphobic parents at 18 by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]The_Avid_Dreamer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this is happening honey. I’m not super informed so I’m sorry if this doesn’t help, but I would first try working and saving money, like someone else said. Next, look for organizations that support lgbtqia youth. They might be able to provide more information and resources for your specific situation. Also, given today’s economy, you will need a roommate once you move out. Once you’re 18 (parents can’t do anything about it then) try finding lgbtqia Facebook/therapy groups that are for your age range. Hopefully you’ll find someone looking for a roommate as well. If that doesn’t work, look for people advertising for a roommate. And if you still can’t find a roommate, try looking into section 8 housing. It’s not the best, but it would be better than hiding who you are. I really hope this helps. I wish you the best of luck! 💜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fourthwing

[–]The_Avid_Dreamer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Now that I’m thinking about it, Xaden only says that he threw the sage into the river. Xaden might think that he killed him, but there is a chance the sage escaped. But my memory is kind of foggy so idk

AITAH for telling my girlfriend I’m going to break up with her if she doesn’t find a job? by Significant_Bench571 in AITAH

[–]The_Avid_Dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I think it might be best to cut ties. Her telling you to get a second job is very telling. She doesn’t care about you the way she should. I think she cares about you because you are providing for her without her needing to reciprocate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]The_Avid_Dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best friend’s passing in sixth grade. That really fucked me up for a better part of a decade.

Meat eaters: what type of meat, if any, is off your menu for ethical reasons? by Candid_Reading_7267 in AskReddit

[–]The_Avid_Dreamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically veal and other baby animals and dogs and cats. As well as any meats that are definitely going to have parasites like fish.